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There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." The winner is strong, and the one who overcomes himself is strong. ”
The human eye is 576 million pixels, and it can see the dust on the neck of others, but it is impossible to see your nose and face.
We must understand that the most rare thing in a person's life is not to understand others, but to study oneself. Only by knowing oneself and knowing the other can one never lose a battle and surpass oneself.
Success and failure, sadness and happiness, can only experience it yourself, you can complain to others, but you don't have to expect to be understood, even words of comfort, is also a big truth.
Really good people will study themselves.
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"Love does not know what to do, always go deep": understand their feelings thoroughly, in order not to be trapped by love.
You are caught in the vortex of feelings, do not know how to be good, so go to your friends for help.
Some people advise you not to give up at will, but to stalk and fight. It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage.
Someone suggested that you let go as soon as possible, entangled, doomed to lose both. Your persistence is meaningless. Why not take advantage of your youth and find another one.
Some people also suggest that you calm down and wait and see for a while. Look at the other person's attitude, the change of feelings, and then make a decision.
There is a saying on the Internet: "The road you choose, crying, you have to finish." ”
The person who chose the object in the beginning was you, and then you had to give up or stay, and this multiple choice question still had to be done by you. You cry and look for an exit.
Falling in love with someone is a feeling of the heart, being attracted to the other person. This power comes from you. When you really have to give up, the power is gone.
Where to go, you have to study it. When you calm down and have a clue, you know whether to turn around or not. Follow the way others do, and you'll always get lost.
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"Playing iron also needs to be hard": improve their own ability, in order to truly stand on the cusp of the storm.
In the TV series "Tianlong Babu", Duan Yu met the bad guy Hatsumo Zhi.
At the critical moment of protecting the "Wang Girl", Duan Yu riveted enough energy and used the kung fu of the Six-Pulse Excalibur, but unfortunately he was not skilled in his studies, and he failed several times in a row, and in the end he became a prisoner of Hatsumo zhi.
The Six-Pulse Excalibur, as the Duan Family's housekeeping skill, impressed the martial artists. Unfortunately, at the beginning, Duan Yu was not skilled in learning and art, and there was a passion for blood.
When we were young, we all had a dream of "fighting the sword to go to the end of the world". I hope I can become a master in a certain industry.
When I grew up, I found that in front of my dreams, I always had more than enough heart and insufficient strength, which was very similar to the fledgling Duan Yu. Sadly, some people do not know the sky is high, do things beyond the scope of their ability, and the harder they work, the more unlucky they are.
Businessman Lei Jun once said: "Standing on the wind outlet, pigs can fly." ”
Some people, not pigs, but mud, can never fly, can only be dried. Mud can only be used to grow vegetables, melons and fruits, in order to show its effect.
Figure out your abilities, then do what you're good at, and as long as the direction is right, you will succeed slowly.
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"More money and less money, enough is good": Grasping the balance between greed and contentment can improve the happiness index.
A friend of mine works as a real estate salesman in Changsha. After more than ten years of hard work, I made a lot of money.
How to make a fortune? The friend thought about it for a long time, took all the money out, and set up a furniture factory.
I wanted to "eat a bite to become a big fat man", but because the technology was immature and the sales channels were not perfect, I lost all the bottom. I woke up and went back to where I was.
The ancients said, "Greed is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant." ”
People now say, "Young people must be ambitious." ”
Contradictory theories that make us very embarrassed? Who is it that listens?
People with brains will calm down and find a balance between greed and contentment according to their own situation. Further can become a big thing, and one step back is the sea and the sky. Don't be blind and take your desires as hope.
After struggling for many years, with a certain amount of savings, living a low-end life, and often helping others, life has meaning, and it is not controlled by money.
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"My fate is up to me": Only by following the direction of the development of fate and going with the flow can we have a good life.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius traveled in all directions.
When he arrived at "Kuangdi", he was surrounded by people and had an atmosphere of "fighting together".
The disciples were very worried. However, Confucius did not have a sense of fear, but instead sang loudly and played the piano with his heart. He said to his disciples, "Fishermen walk freely in the water and are not afraid of dragons; hunters are on land and are not afraid of tigers." Man, who knows that poverty is due to destiny, knows that mastery is due to luck, and encounters great difficulties, is the bravery of the saints. My fate is fixed. ”
After a while, a sergeant came up to Confucius and said, "Sorry, we made a mistake and thought you were a Yanghu." ”
Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. How can a good person be wronged? One day, the truth will come out.
Be a person, but do good deeds, do not ask about the future.
You blindly toss your fate, you want to make a difference, and as a result, your life has gone downhill, and you have always been blindly tossing.
Study your own destiny thoroughly, insist on being brave, kind, and erudite, and everything will be fine, just sooner or later.
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Man, if you know your mistakes, you can change them, and you can do a great job.
A person is not afraid of making mistakes, he is afraid of clinging to it.
We can look at others with our eyes, listen to what others say with our ears, touch the temperature of others with our hands, and comfort others with our mouths.
If you want to see yourself clearly, you can only use your heart, which is a kind of courage with a blade inward.
From the changes in feelings, find your true love, cherish the person who can accompany you throughout your life; from the ups and downs of your career, discover your own skills, and insist on learning and improving your skills; when you are hurt by people, learn the way to deal with people and straighten out the relationship; in the trough, quietly store strength, and give yourself some lessons.
The reason why people are "strong" and "weak" is not because the strong have special functions, but because the weak have been escaping from reality, just like ostriches, burying their heads in the sand and not daring to face it.
Study yourself in order to find the starting point and foothold and achieve a better self.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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