In life, no one can be separated from the group and exist alone. Most people have their own families and have their own relatives.
As the old saying goes, kiss or not kiss, a family, break the bones and connect the tendons. Family affection occupies an important position in people's hearts.
Because blood relations are used as a bond, if relatives encounter difficulties, everyone will unite to help them tide over the difficulties. When there is a happy event in the family, the relatives are reunited, which not only adds joy but also promotes a stronger family relationship.
However, in real life, not all relatives can get along happily, and sometimes family affection may be vulnerable, because a little interest leads to relatives reversing their purposes, which is not an isolated case.
Getting along with relatives is also a science, and if it is not handled well, it will add a lot of troubles to their lives. In this life, if you want to get along with your relatives in harmony, you must know that you do not owe these 3 kinds of accounts between your relatives.
First, do not owe human accounts.
It is often said that brothers and sisters were a family when they were young, and when they grew up, they became relatives.
Although they are all born of common parents, they fight and make trouble when they are young, regardless of you and me, but with their respective adulthood, everyone has a family, even if the brothers and sisters with the best relationship, they must know how to get along with each other.
Some brothers and sisters have a better life, some are slightly worse, good help is poor, this is the mutual support between brothers and sisters, so that everyone's life can get better and move forward synchronously.
However, brothers and sisters help you, it is out of their affection, not their duty, no one in this world is obliged to do anything for you, so you must know how to be grateful, do not take everything for granted.
As an adult, siblings are all members of their own families, and if you only want to get and don't want to give, it is likely to cause each other to end up being angry with each other.
No matter how good the relationship between relatives, we must also strive not to owe human debts. Although, sometimes this account is not easy to liquidate, because your relatives did not think about returning the favor when they gave you.
It is their willingness that makes you get the results you want, so be grateful and repay your loved ones twice. Your reward is not only for the sake of the loved ones themselves, but also for the sake of his family harmony.
After all, when your relatives do these things to you, you must also consider the feelings of your own family and partner. Although the account of human affection is not good to return, it can be returned to relatives in various forms.
You come and go, and the feelings between relatives can be endless.
Second, do not owe economic accounts.
As the saying goes, brothers, settle accounts.
Even brothers and sisters who are close to each other cannot be ambiguous when it comes to money.
Although no one wants to give up the benefits to others, the benefits that belong to the other party or that the other party receives must be clearly calculated.
You can't feel that they are all your own people, just sloppy and confused.
If you don't want to cause discord among your loved ones, you must do the most basic thing about not owing economic debts to each other.
In life, there are often some brothers who fall out of love because of the problem of economic accounts, and even do not interact with each other.
In fact, it was because at the beginning it was because of the obstruction of face, embarrassed to put the matter of money on the table to talk, so that after each of them made their own calculations, causing differences and causing gaps.
On the contrary, doing things with strangers, it is clearly divided from the beginning, and it is very harmonious to get along.
In the face of money, morality, conscience, love, family affection, etc., are often vulnerable, and human nature is difficult to withstand the test.
Therefore, as far as possible, relatives do not contradict each other because of money, and do not be alienated because of money.
Third, do not owe the account of responsibility.
As an adult, no one can escape a "responsibility".
As parents, we must take responsibility for the children we have raised, give companionship in the process of their growth, and give timely grooming when they encounter problems in their growth.
If you spend the time that should accompany your child's growth for various social activities, or are busy making money at work and miss this precious period, the child's personality has basically been fixed, and the personality is good or bad, and it is not something you can make up for no matter how much truth you say or how much money you use.
As a partner, you must do your best to be loyal, understanding, supportive and tolerant of your partner, and be prepared to face the difficulties of life together.
Don't wait until the other person's feelings are exhausted, and they are completely disappointed in you and want to leave you, and then regret it.
As a child, you must fulfill the duty of filial piety of your children, and it is your responsibility and obligation to support the elderly.
Think about this life, how much time can you really spend with your parents when you become an adult?
Parents are getting older, and what they need is not how much money their children can give, nor how many gifts they can buy, but how much time you can take out to chat with them.
For parents, their greatest hope is not that their children will become famous, but that the family will be healthy and healthy together and live a peaceful life.
Therefore, when you still have the opportunity to spend more time with your parents, try to spend more thoughts for them as much as possible, and don't wait until one day when "the son wants to raise and does not stay with him", what is the use of regretting it.
In this life, but a few decades of time, it is not long to say that it is not long, and it is not short to say that it is short.
When people live, they cannot do everything they want, and they are always bound by legal and moral standards.
When dealing with people, whether it is relatives or friends, we must follow certain principles and be unashamed.
Only in this way can everyone get along harmoniously, and you or the people around you will not be disappointed, and you will not turn away because you can't get a response from the other party.
When relatives can unite together, the whole family can get more and more prosperous.
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