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Since my friend gave birth to the second eldest,
There are always friends who secretly poke and poke at her: What is it like to have a second child?
She replied: Raising a baby is like training a dog.
Friend: Huh? How can a child compare to a dog! Not to mention, raising a child is really like raising a dog.
Don't look at the two babies born, but everywhere is different.
Pension is like raising border herds, fine to no,
"Bianmu" is also intelligent, cautious, delicate, and pretentious.
Pension two is like raising a husky, how to raise a good how to come,
The second eldest is also like a husky, free, sloppy and environmentally friendly.
Is the gap between the eldest and the second really so big?
Q: It is said that the order of appearance of life determines his quality of life.
It's not a rumor, it's true!
When the eldest was a child, when his mother first "practiced number", the clothes, food, shelter and travel purchased were all kinds of "burnt bags": clothes should be cotton, shoes should be big brands, and carts should be the same as the celebrity family... Every day is to buy and buy non-stop, the baby is only half a year old, clothes, hats, shoes and socks are hoarded to four years old!
But when I got to the second eldest, the money bag was deflated, the energy was exhausted, the mother's strength was weak, and the consumption was completely degraded!
Q: Is there really that much difference?
Very big!
After having the second child, what taste is not tasteful, good-looking or not good-looking, can the second-child family take care of these?
Wear clothes to cool, keep warm, and not show your ass.
The second brother "inherited" all the inventory of his brother, and did not even let the socks sit idle.
There are also various old clothes passed down from relatives and friends.
No formaldehyde, no odor, soft and easy to wear, wear-resistant and not painful, do you say that there is a better dress in this world than the second oldest? No!
The standard for buying clothes for the boss is to change seasons.
The standard for buying clothes for the second eldest is: is there any old clothes that the eldest can wear.
As a result, the feeling of the eldest and second eldest taking out is different:
The boss, dressed like the young master of the eunuch family, is reserved and noble, and the fresh clothes and angry horses go to the world.
The second eldest, dressed like the stupid son of the landlord's family, jumped all over the neighborhood in raging coats, like a small bandit.
The real one is the delicacy of the border pastor, and the other is the freedom of the husky.
Q: What if the eldest and second eldest are of different genders?
That's even more hilarious!
The younger brother wears his sister's old clothes, pink and green, all relying on temperament to support the field.
The younger sister wears her brother's old clothes, black, gray and indigo, and has a heroic and intriguing taste.
To be the most "trendy" second child is to take the most in "male and female mix-matching style".
Q: Can the second eldest be willing? hey! Excitement!
The second brother is also not picky, and often dangles in front of his brother's wardrobe to see which clothes are small and he can take over.
Q: Did the second brother only pick up the boss's clothes?
How can it be!
For example: daily necessities.
When I was a child, I began to prepare things to use half a year in advance, eating, wearing, living, rubbing, and piling things up like a childcare store.
When I was born, I also wanted to prepare something, but I looked at the east and west, felt that there was nothing to buy, and went to the hospital with a small bag.
Q: Did the second brother have anything new?
Of course!
The only thing that's new is that the diapers are not wet.
However, it is all child urine, and the fate can be different: the boss diaper is not wet for 5 yuan a piece, and the urine is changed for a piece; the second diaper is not wet for 2 yuan a piece, and often forget to change for half a day.
For those of us who are old mothers with two children, what brand is not branded is not important!
Also, when the boss was a child, all kinds of baby products had to be imported, there were more than a dozen bottles alone, plastic, glass, organic materials, to the second old here, a bottle went to the world, what bottle can not feed people!
And: old toys!
When the pension is old, I would rather tighten the belt of my pants and raise my baby like a rich second generation. The toys at home are piled up in a mountain, as long as there are types on the market, less to buy the same feel sorry for the boss's intellectual development.
The principle of pension two is that it cannot be wasted. Buying more is a great waste and irresponsibility of family finances. Missing arms, legs, and soundless children are all stupid and old people have played with the new toys!
It is also thanks to the fact that the second brother, like a husky, is somewhat real (lacking) in heart and eye, and does not refuse to come to the old toys of his brother and sister. The younger brother played with his sister's doll, especially happy, just to cultivate a warm man for the future daughter-in-law. The younger sister plays with her brother's car and Ultraman, and is full of pride, and will definitely be able to stand alone in the future. Instantly I felt like I was wise enough to reach the pinnacle of wisdom.
Q: In this way, I found that the eldest had a lot of IQ tax.
It's okay, it will be saved on the second brother!
Boss, every birthday to go to the studio to take pictures, 8888 package to swipe the card without blinking, the light photo album is stuffed with two large drawers, printed out can produce books! To the second old here, the full moon and the hundred days have been forgotten, not to mention making a book, making a four-fold page is not enough!
Now the pixel of the mobile phone is so high, as long as the light is good, I can compare with the studio. The effect is not bad, the key is that there is no flower, and the whole family is happy to blossom.
In short, the birth boss is the first time to be a mother, less experience, people are anxious, all kinds of "parenting artifacts" bought over and over again, steam disinfection, sterile boiled eggs, scale measuring cups ... The house is like doing chemistry experiments and feeling less bought, and I will fall behind on the road to scientific parenting.
To the second eldest, left behind? inexistent! Being a mother also has to evolve:
Q: Is the second brother more real than the boss?
Skinny doesn't know,
Anyway, my heart is a lot bigger!
When I was pregnant with my eldest, I hung my diet on the kitchen wall, eating, drinking, and sleeping, all to find out if there was a scientific basis.
When I was pregnant with my second son, there was only one taboo, and that was no taboo.
Hot pot, kebabs, stinky tofu, coffee, ice cream all let go, the second child let me follow only one science:
Q: How did this shift come about?
Hey, it's simple!
There are too many children to be fine. The more experience, the more courage.
When the boss was a child, I also bought high-priced organic vegetables, native eggs, and high-grade mineral water, and gave the boss a whole taste, to the second brother, what is at home to eat something!
Since having the second eldest, the whole family's temperament has been cured.
When the eldest cried when he was a child, the whole family, no matter what they were doing, rushed to the small bed and checked it at 360 degrees.
The second son, cry two throats, eat the meal in your hand and then say, cry and practice lung capacity!
When the eldest was a child, he had a fever in the middle of the night, and the whole family went crazy, running a red light all the way to the hospital.
When it was the turn of the second brother to have a fever, I touched it: it was okay, it wasn't too hot, take some medicine, and continue to sleep!
Q: It seems that the family status of the second eldest is indeed inferior to that of the eldest!
That's a far cry!
I used to take a bath for the boss, just like waiting for a baby to go up to the court. There are 18 kinds of test methods for water temperature alone, the thermometer has tried the water temperature elbow test, Grandma tried Dad tried, afraid of scalding my baby!
Dad blew bubbles, Grandma pinched the ducks, I was responsible for rubbing the foam with the bath ball, and there was warm music in the bathroom.
Quintido has a sense of ceremony!
When I got to the second eldest, put the bath water away, I pulled it with my hand, and three times five divided by two was finished.
what? Take a thermometer for cool water temperature? inexistent. The water is hot and the blood is alive, and the water is cool to keep fit, all of which can be!
After all, those of us who have a second child, the children are too many to be fine!
Q: Now a child has to apply for a lot of interest classes.
Is it the same for two-child families?
It's more sensible to sign up for class!
When I was a child, I believed that elite education was thrown out with money.
So he went to tens of thousands of gold medal early education classes for a year, roller skating, basketball, badminton to learn over and over again, a family of men and women and children together, mom hugging, dad sending, grandparents doing logistics.
To the second old man here? Early education, what is an early education class? Nature is the best early childhood education classroom.
Every weekend, take the second brother out, spread it out in the downstairs of the community, in the park, in the stadium, jump like a husky, dig a pit, climb and jump, and Lethaldo is happy.
Q: Then the second brother does not apply for interest classes?
Report,
However, the money of the parents of the second child is not good to cheat!
Not only has the parenting style become more economical, but even the learning style has become environmentally friendly.
The boss learned whatever instrument he wanted, and bought piano, saxophone, and drum kits.
The second brother also wants to learn something, just follow the boss to learn it, after all, buy so many large pieces to put at home, one person to learn is too wasteful!
Q: Then the second old man must have saved a lot of money!
It's not about money at all!
This is [the wisdom upgrade of the old mother] For example: old college English, let the second brother listen to it, and as a result, the second brother shouts every day to learn English, and he also wants me to punch his circle of friends.
Another example: the old class circle ancient poems recitation punch card, the second brother is next to hear the eye, a whole "Three Hundred Tang Poems" the second two years old 5 years old have been taken down, but also out of the unexpected harvest.
Q: Yes, yes!
Hey, don't praise me for being smart,
After all, a person has to take two people, and he can't be tired and paralyzed.
The old mother of the second child, without ideas and wisdom, how can she be proud of teaching the auxiliary rivers and lakes?
Since having the second eldest, the old mother has become Buddhist and not in a hurry to study.
When the boss was a child, he couldn't write 8, give me an emergency, and study how to teach the boss to write 8 every day.
Now the second can't tell the difference between 6 and 9, it's okay, he's still small, big will naturally be, you see which adult can't tell the two? You say yes or no!
Q: Does the second brother have no opinion?
It's not that he's not good enough for the second brother, it's that he didn't come by chance!
For the second eldest, even the mother's womb is left over from the boss, and in the belly, he begins to understand that life is beautiful (difficult).
When the second was in the stomach, I tutored the eldest to write homework, so angry that my morning sickness stopped.
And voila,
But the second brother also developed his own survival philosophy!
The boss is like Bian Mu, good face, exquisite heart, thin skin, crying as soon as he says it.
The second brother is like a husky, although it is easy to annoy people, but it is good that the skin is rough and the mouth is sweet.
Sometimes the boss was so angry that he was full of hair, turned his head to see the second brother playing and looking up at people to squeeze their eyes, the old mother quickly ran over to suck it, and felt that the mother force was back!
I often teach my boss: Read more. My friend said, why don't you grasp the second brother too?
I smiled: The character of Chong Lao'er will definitely be mixed up in the future.
Q: Finally, would you like to say something to the mother of the second child?
Mixed feelings!
If you want to say that the old mother of the second child is eccentric, I am not convinced. Let you have two "dogs" at the same time, and you will split up too!
If you look at the mothers who gave birth to a second child, which one is not from the devil, but has already cultivated into a Buddha?
unbelief? You'll have one more! Well, needless to say, for the sake of the two gold-devouring beasts, I'm going to move bricks!