[In the eyes of the lover, there is a scientific basis for xi shi? 】
The phone slides down to find out!
Why does the liked him/she always look extra good in your eyes?
Is it true that the lover's eyes are out of the west?
How do we use love and liking to give others a filter?
01
The impact of appearance on love at first sight
"In the eyes of a lover, there is a scientific basis for "Xi Shi"? It's true.
A new study by Professor Ge Liezhong and his team at the Center for Psychological Sciences at Zhejiang University shows:
Compared with single people, men and women in love not only overestimate their own appearance, but also overestimate the appearance of their objects.
According to reports, from a psychological point of view, the level of appearance is related to facial attractiveness.
Although everyone has their own judgment about whether it is good or not, there are still universal laws.
Influencing factors such as face shape, facial features, skin color, etc., are currently called local perspectives, and if the attractiveness of faces is judged from the overall perspective, there will be four possible influencing factors, including high average, that is, after the faces of multiple individuals are averaged, the faces obtained are more attractive;
High symmetry, the high degree of symmetry between the left and right of the face is more attractive;
Gender dichotomy, male faces are more attractive when they are more masculine and female faces are more feminine;
Extreme faces assume that individually very beautiful faces are more attractive than faces of high averages.
There is also a phenomenon called the halo effect.
When you have a good feeling for someone, it will be difficult to feel that his shortcomings exist, just like there is an aura around him, and your psychology is the halo effect.
"The lover's eyes out of the West", when the lover is in love, it is difficult to find the other party's shortcomings, think that everything he is good, do the right things, even where others think that it is a shortcoming, it does not matter in the eyes of the other party, which is a manifestation of the halo effect.
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What is true love
Of course, it should also be noted that the management of feelings is not only appearance and aura effect.
True love must be connected with joy, solidity, clarity, and fullness.
A tired and difficult relationship has nothing to do with love, but with the illness of you and the other person. Don't try to change or influence the other person. Except waiting for a person who is evenly matched, there is no need to do anything other than to obtain the same feelings with a balanced and suitable heart, except to make yourself stronger.
We must also remember that the most important thing to meet love is to have a heart that knows how to love others, appreciate others, and respect others. Only when we learn to love and the right person comes along, can we have the opportunity to have a good relationship.
There's a saying that if you want a good person, make yourself beautiful first. When you have the ability to love and face others with a loving attitude, you are easily accepted by people with the same attitude and start a sunny future.
I hope everyone can meet their own love!
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Signed author Zheng Weiqi
Zhejiang University Second Hospital Shexian Branch in charge of pharmacist
Attached: [References]
1. The lover's eyes out of the West Shi "has a scientific basis. Invention and Innovation (Big Tech), 2018, 06.
2. Why is the lover out of the eyes of Xi Shi. Science Garden,2014,08.]
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