The three-child policy has come out, as a post-90s generation, should we have a second child?
According to the newly released policy of the State Council on July 26, 2021, China currently advocates marriage and childbearing of appropriate age, eugenics and excellent childbearing, and implements the three-child birth policy. It also cancels the collection of social support fees, cleans up and abolishes relevant penalties.
Seeing the above policy, many parents after the 90s will think, my second child is still under consideration, and now I advocate three children. So today we will focus on the pros and cons of having a second child after the 90s.
First of all, I would like to tell you about "profit", which is divided into three points
- The first point: As a post-90s generation, due to the different policies at that time, many families are only children, and after the parents slowly grow old, our pressure can be imagined, at this time, in addition to their own small families, the closest people are only brothers and sisters. If you have brothers and sisters, you will not be in a hurry when your parents are sick and old.
- The second point: in real life, many families are forced to run for money and life and cannot take care of their children's physical and mental health, resulting in children being autistic and introverted. If there are brothers and sisters around, play happily together, and grow up with each other, I believe that the problems mentioned above will be alleviated to a certain extent.
- The third point: parents, you must have found that many brothers and sisters help each other when there is difficulty, this is also the most critical point of having a second child, who does not want to be helped when our children encounter problems and difficulties after a hundred years of return to the world, at that time the only blood relationship is only brothers and sisters.
Of course, the above is most of the phenomenon in society, and a small number of brothers and sisters have a bad relationship or even hate it
Next, I will tell you about the "disadvantages" and divide it into two points to tell you about it
- The first point: the test of parents' energy is extremely high, and now they are more delicate with their children. When there are two children, it is inevitable that there will be insufficient energy and lack of thorough work, which will make the child think that the parents prefer their younger brother or sister. In the long run, children's hearts will inevitably become depressed and slowly lead to a lonely personality.
- The second point: the family economic pressure is great, and now the children's food, clothing, housing and education expenditure is very large. A child who is "poor" also needs thousands of dollars a month, and when the cost of two children is stacked, the pressure on parents is extremely high.
The above questions are for the reference of parents and friends only. Because Xiaobian himself has not realized economic and temporal freedom at present, he is also very entangled in the question of whether to have a second child. But if you think about how many people have reached economic and temporal freedom, will these things never be a second child if they are not realized?
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