On wang Xifeng's birthday in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Lian and Bao Er's family had a foolish affair, and even talked about waiting for the "mother night fork" Wang Xifeng to die, and ping'er was straightened out.
For Wang Xifeng, this can be called a devastating blow of multiple injuries coming at once.
On the first floor, face and honor are scattered.
Why did Jia Mu ask Zhang Luo to join everyone to celebrate Wang Xifeng's birthday?
Because she knows best that Wang Xifeng likes face and likes that no one else has the vanity and happiness that only I have.
However, Wang Xifeng's unique super glory of Jia Fu was instantly torn apart and torn apart by Jia Lian's drunken madness and sword-hurting.
On the second level, the emotional aspects of the husband and wife have been tragically betrayed.
At that time, Jia Fu practiced polygamy, and although Wang Xifeng was Jia Lian's wife, she did not dare to interfere too much in Jia Lian's peach choice on the surface.
After all, in that context, she needed to take into account the reputation of "good jealousy".
In other words, if Jia Lian had taken a concubine according to the rules of the time, Wang Xifeng would not have dared to show his resentment and sadness of being betrayed and hurt.
However, even if it is polygamy, it does not agree that it is legal for a husband with a wife and a wife with a husband to steal.
Looking at it horizontally and vertically, Jia Lian did this on Wang Xifeng's birthday, and he was very confused.
What's more, Jia Lian slandered Wang Xifeng so badly in front of Bao Er's family, there is no doubt that it hurt the feelings of the husband and wife.
Even if Wang Xifeng is not sincerely infatuated with Jia Lian, a husband and wife, it is inevitable that he will not be chilled when he sees this scene and listens to this remark.
On the third level, a rift appeared in the relationship between Wang Xifeng and his closest confidants.
At that time, Bao Er's family and others praised Ping'er, and Wang Xifeng was furious and attacked her heart, sprinkling evil fire on Ping'er.
It wasn't so much that she was confused for a moment, but rather that it was one of the most frightening scenes in her subconscious: in the eyes of everyone, she was even inferior to Ping'er.
All of the above were bloody blows and injuries to Wang Xifeng.
But everyone seemed to have no intention of truly comforting Wang Xifeng, and they all cared and pitied Ping'er.
Of course, Jia Mu spoke for Wang Xifeng and gave her face, but Jia Mu's concept was that "everyone has not come this way since childhood", and she did not really feel Wang Xifeng's anger at being hurt; all she did was to help Wang Xifeng restore her face at the level of housework.
This is more akin to administrative intervention, and is not necessarily the same as private emotional relief.
After the incident, Jia Baoyu was in the Yihong Courtyard, sighing that he had finally found the opportunity to "tie the knot" to Ping'er, and he lamented in his heart that this person's thin life was worse than Daiyu's, and Jia Lian's vulgar Fengjie's power, she was able to maneuver around properly.
Her attitude towards her is self-pitying and pitying.
After that, Li Gongjue even quarreled with Wang Xifeng in public, and did not shy away from reprimanding Wang Xifeng: Can you actually stretch out your hand to beat Ping'er? Do you mean it? You two should be upside down, you don't deserve to carry her shoes!
Such a statement is naturally said in a joking tone in a special context, but it is the real idea in Li Gongjie's heart.
I am afraid that this is also the unanimous view of everyone present at that time.
Also a victim, why is everyone trying to comfort Ping'er? And ignoring Wang Xifeng's "victim" identity?
First, Wang Xifeng's attitude is extreme, passing on the damage after being hurt, allowing himself to quickly become the perpetrator of violence at the same time.
Everyone was distressed by Ping'er because Ping'er was innocently implicated.
Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng had a conflict, and both took Ping'er's anger.
This incident is also a microcosm and portrayal of Ping'er's daily plight.
It is conceivable that it is not easy for her to make a living between a couple like Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian.
Ping'er's ability is superior, her mind is outstanding, and her situation is extremely difficult, so it is naturally easier to invisibly inspire sympathy and pity from outstanding people.
Second, the difference in the primary color properties of good and evil.
The biggest difference between Ping'er and Wang Xifeng is that Ping'er is a good person.
She always has three points of kindness to people, and she is always willing to leave some leeway for people.
Wang Xifeng is notoriously fierce.
In Wang Xifeng's eyes, the "lives" of the low-level servants and servants and even other civilians may not be regarded as "human lives."
In response to theft, Wang Xifeng advocated pulling everyone out to expose themselves to the hot sun and beating the board fiercely, not afraid of criminals not being recruited.
Those who have committed theft are punished in such a way, and there is still a problem of excessive severity and cruelty; let alone those innocent people?
Obviously he didn't do anything, but he had to be treated so cruelly.
Fortunately, Ping'er strongly discouraged it. Even at the risk of provoking Wang Xifeng, he expressed the meaning that "you miscarried because you are too strict and do not accumulate virtue and do good deeds".
Second Sister You was in danger to Wang Xifeng, and with Wang Xifeng's mental ability and resources that could be mobilized, she only needed to drive Sister You away.
Why do you have to use vicious methods to force Sister You to die alive?
Ping'er and You Erjie are also competitive and have conflicts of interest; but Ping'er is kind-hearted, and Ping'er does not have the idea of "you die and I live" struggle, she is very concerned about You Erjie.
He even carried Wang Xifeng on his back and took Second Sister You to the Grand View Garden to find food.
In contrast, the fierce Wang Xifeng and the kind Ping'er, which is more popular? Which one can really make good friends?
The answer should be obvious.
In the blood-colored Jia Mansion with such a bloody pattern of interests, Ping'er, who has a "lowly" status, has won the real respect and goodwill of the so-called "noble blood" young grandmothers and ladies with her own ability and character.
Li Gongjian, who has always been mixed with thin mud and professional paste, and has never had a direct conflict with people, is the hardest and hardest Wang Xifeng for her, "You actually reached out to beat Ping'er", and even said the heartfelt words of "you are not worthy to lift ping'er shoes", which shows the misery of Ping'er's goodness and the fierceness of Wang Xifeng's might.
Such a Wang Xifeng, who is full of blood debts, plain and excessively powerful, even if he is really in a situation of being hurt, I am afraid it will be difficult to harvest 100% pure sympathy.
Of course, she Wang Xifeng probably didn't have rare sympathy.
However, the core part of the sympathy of the people for Ping'er is the care that is not utilitarian.
That was a realm that Wang Xifeng, who was "too clever in calculating the organs," could not comprehend.