We like vigorous love, but also yearn to be able to have such love, but the reality is often inconsistent with our wishes, when we are so sweet and sweet words that we forget it, we may think that this is a beautiful love, listening to the sea oath that touched the soul, but also make people intoxicated by love.
In the world we live in, many things are completely different from our subjective imagination, and the love we imagine is as sweet as honey, as glue as paint. In reality, such love is often short-lived, fleeting, without much sincere support, and this kind of warmth and beauty cannot be long-lasting.
True love is quiet and obscure, the more people who truly love you, the more there may be no sweet words, the more there is no mountain alliance oath, and even the more deliberately looking for your stubble. Some superficial things are often the opposite of the inner truth, and love is sometimes like this.
Rochester in "Jane Eyre", he has long been in love with Jane Eyre, but he still has to propose to Miss Ingram to show love, because he wants to see if the Jane Eyre he loves in his heart when he does this can show a different state, so he wants to know if Jane Eyre loves him as much as he loves her.
Therefore, it was not until later, when he really spit out his inner activities and purpose in front of Jane Eyre, that Jane Ai understood that he was also in love with men in his heart and actually loved her more. This is how their love begins. The sound of east and west, the quietly sprouted love, just like this, opened the curtain.
People who truly love will not show a proud posture in front of the people they love, on the contrary, they are shown with an inferior attitude, because they are humble because of love, so they are not willing to swear by the mountains and the sea, and they are not willing to speak sweetly, but such love is very real and very sincere.
The more sincere, the more silent, the more false, the more high-profile. This is just like us as human beings, the more capable people are, the more humble and low-key they are, and the more incompetent people are, the more they brag about high profiles.
In the face of true and false love, this is the touchstone, either the person who talks sweetly to you is really in love with you, nor the person who sees you behaves as respectful and does not love you. Love is the eternal theme of human beings, whether young or old, love is basically what everyone needs, and they are willing to strive for it.
In the world of love, no one likes their love is false, they like true heart, sincere love, but people's hearts are not ancient, and they may lose their correct judgment in the sweetness, can't distinguish between true and false, good and bad, it is easy to fall into false sweetness, as true love, to invest, to pay, and finally to end up sad.
The same is true between husband and wife, the more people who are sincerely good to you, the more they do not say anything, take the initiative to give you what you need, and can not really be good to you? I will ask you thousands of times what you need, that is, to delay in action, to talk about it in a vacuum, but only to play lip service and not to put it into real action.
Although we know that seeing is believing and hearing is false, in love, seeing is not necessarily true, hearing is not necessarily false, love will carry the mask of hypocrisy and deceive people's feelings.
People who are addicted to false love are often the object of deception, they do not distinguish between the true and false of love, they completely throw themselves into it, whether it is people or money, and all, they also go all out, but in the end, they are deceived, hurt, and lost all their wealth, paying all the happiness they want, but only getting a deep and painful lesson.
The pursuit of the sweet happiness of love is what each of us is willing to do, but we must maintain considerable sanity in the face of love, use our eyes to see people, do not rush to the true assumption of love, and do not blindly invest in everything. Vigorous love is difficult to last, and obscure love can be long-lasting.