Ending song: Cao Yin - Eat instant noodles
Can't believe it, 2021 is over.
Do you feel this way?
The days seem to have been pressed on the accelerator button, and every day when you wake up, you are busy with work and worry about life.
We all kept spinning like gyroscopes, and when we looked back, we realized that another year was coming to an end.
For the past three hundred days, I know that you must have had a hard time:
Endless work, endless classes, lonely day by day, countless moments of grievances and congestion...
I can't count how many times the thought of "don't want to do it" swirls around in your mind.
But in the adult world, whatever is said to go is dashing.
If you don't want to work anymore, take a look at the circle of friends of these three people.
People who work overtime at 10 o'clock at night
A while ago, because of the preparation of the live broadcast, the whole team was working overtime.
I spin for more than ten hours a day, I don't eat well, I don't sleep enough, and my head hurts badly.
Once, when I was so busy that I suddenly got hungry at night, I went downstairs to buy something to eat.
Found that the opposite building is still brightly lit, so I took a photo and sent a circle of friends:
"Late at night in the office building, deserted and busy are always in parallel."
I didn't expect to buy a meal, and the comment area became lively:
An old friend commented: "Coincidentally, I am also working overtime today, staying up for several nights, and the customer is in a hurry." ”
"The third day of stomach pain is also the third night of homework." ”
A former colleague said: "It is not easy to put the child to sleep, a bunch of work waiting for it"...
Looking at it, I couldn't help but think of the passage circulating on the Internet:
At ten o'clock in the evening, some people were drowsy on the car home, and some people were yawning overtime at the company.
Someone has just set up a barbecue grill, and someone has finished running the 5th order of the night.
We always can't help but complain about the hard work and lament that life is not easy.
But of all the sentient beings in this world, who has a more relaxed life than anyone else?
In the circle of friends at ten o'clock in the middle of the night, there are too many people who are as tired as you and me but grit their teeth and insist.
In the corners that you and I can't see, there are too many people who are carrying weights.
They don't have time to mourn the spring and autumn, complain about the unfairness of fate, and everyone is busy making a living.
On the highway late at night, the tired truck driver, as soon as he fell sleepy, began to slap himself.
Of course it hurts, but think about what the wife and children at home can't stand?
The man who ran the takeaway for a day was so tired that he simply slept in the underground passage.
And the person who filmed this scene was another middle-aged man who worked two jobs and had to do a substitute driver after work.
Who doesn't want to make money easily and live a decent life?
But God it has never given anyone dignity.
In the empty streets, the grandmother who sells vegetables is shivering with cold, but she is reluctant to leave.
Selling one more piece, she and her hemiplegic wife will have an extra piece of living expenses.
There is no one whose job is not hard, but there are always some responsibilities to be shouldered by one person.
No one wants to be busy with the stars and the moon, but they don't need money to eat and wear.
At a certain age, carrying a mortgage and car loan, worrying about parents and children.
Dozing off every day and coming back exhausted.
Who didn't sell their freedom just for chai rice oil and salt?
People who have insomnia at 3 a.m
Have you ever paid attention to the circle of friends in the early hours of the morning?
A writer friend once told a very impressive story.
For a while he had severe insomnia, wanted to work, worried about new books, and couldn't sleep.
But because of this, I also saw a circle of friends that was completely different from the bright and beautiful during the day:
The intern editor of the docking, because of carelessness to correct a word, was scolded by the teacher for an hour;
A college classmate who had just lost his job posted a photo full of cigarette butts, with the caption: "There is a bunch of broken things hidden in my heart, but when I say it, it becomes nothing";
The boss who met at the exchange meeting, while lamenting that the industry prospects this year are not good, posted a physical examination list with a red light.
My friend wanted to like every one, but after thinking about it, he put down his phone.
Because he knew that these circles of friends would not survive longer than tonight.
On weekdays, everyone always envies me for my high salary, I envy you for being idle, you feel that I am stable, and I feel that you are free.
But in fact, in all walks of life, everyone has their own sufferings and difficulties.
Working on the construction site, you have to endure the wind and the sun; working in the company, it is inevitable that there will be intrigues;
Do a small business yourself, worry about rent and utilities all day long, and close your eyes is all kinds of bad things.
As the saying goes:
"Who doesn't pretend to be worthy during the day and dare to break down occasionally at night."
How many times have you been lying in bed thinking about the grievances of the day, so uncomfortable that you can't sleep;
How many times have you had tears flowing down your cheeks and dried up, thinking that tomorrow morning you would stop picking and drying.
But the next day, I went to work like a nobody.
People work hard in the jianghu, who has not cried and finished eating a few cold meals overnight?
No job in this world is perfect.
When you feel like a mess, others aren't struggling.
You're depressed for half a day because of a criticism from your leader, and someone may not have received a salary for months.
You're resentful of the company's salary cuts, but someone is simply cut and loses their financial resources.
The job you complain about may be being envied by countless people.
Only with an income can we have the cost of settling down.
Man lives, no one is luckier than anyone, only who is more difficult than anyone.
Even if there is sadness and helplessness, everyone is holding on to the hard.
People who spontaneously combust at 6 a.m
Because of the high efficiency of writing in the morning, I have always maintained the habit of getting up early.
Occasionally tired of writing, I will stop to read the news and brush my phone.
After a long time, I found that there is a young man who does sales in WeChat, and every morning he will send a circle of friends without moving:
"New day, continue to work hard, the work is difficult, it is finished!"
"Work hard to be powerless, fight until you touch yourself."
"Life is very tired, but not tired now, it will only be more tired in the future, come on!"
Obviously, these are some sentences that sound a little chicken blood at first, but I feel particularly touched every time I see them.
In the adult world, no dime is easily earned.
God doesn't look at anyone who is hard and treats him differently.
Slowly, everyone learned to wear themselves and fight chicken blood on their own.
Maybe last night just worked overtime until two o'clock in the morning, maybe the grievances in my heart have not yet had time to digest.
As soon as dawn comes, a new day of fighting is immediately thrown into action.
In the early morning, the subway is always crowded with people, and there are always people on the street rushing to the side of the road to eat breakfast.
Office workers rush every day for full attendance, and street vendors work day by day to make a living.
Every worker who faces the wind and dust of the rising sun has a common identity:
They are parents, children, and the pillars of the whole family.
Everyone has their own sour, but all are trying to make the wine of life.
Just like the sentence that was very hot before:
"In this world, there are always people who live harder than you, but live harder than you."
When I was young, I always felt that talking about money was very tacky, and when I grew up, I found that it was very fatal to have no money.
The adult world, children's education, parents' pension, what kind of real money?
Night can collapse, daytime can only desperately; early morning can be negative, dawn must spontaneously combust.
We are born ordinary, have no background, and can only rely on our hands to fight for everything we want.
You can only be responsible for your family if you work hard to make money.
You have to do your best so that you won't be powerless.
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I've always agreed with a sentence:
"The real meaning of work is to give you a ultimate sense of security."
It is to make you rich and filial to your parents, to eat and raise children, and to make you wake up in the middle of the night without being afraid.
Life is the sea, work is the boat, the sky does not cross people, people must cross themselves.
All the rushing and busy hardships will change the stability of the writer and the confidence of life.
Those days of gritting your teeth will make you stronger and more relaxed in the future.
Click [watching], add oil to yourself who has worked hard for a year, and encourage yourself.
May we all ride the wind and waves all the way, take the road ahead, and protect the well-being of our families.