Babies are a mirror for parents.
If you want to judge whether a baby has a good tutor, you can detect it from the small details of his behavior. For example, if you don't throw garbage casually, you can pick up the garbage on the ground and throw it into the trash. Even obey the traffic rules.
These small details, which are easily overlooked by adults, can highlight the baby's tutoring. While adults always set a bad example for babies, we also learn from their behavior.
The baby's rules must be firmly grasped during sensitive periods
The baby's social rules sensitivity period occurs around the age of 2 and a half years.
From the age of 2, babies gradually have the desire for social interaction. I want to find people my peers to play with instead of playing at home with my mom all day. They felt they had to find their own small group.
Since you want to start social interaction, it is necessary to learn and understand the rules of communication. So by the age of 2 and a half, the sensitive period of rules will naturally come.
At this stage, as long as the parents say the rules to themselves, they will immediately remember. Although sometimes there will be a situation of forgetting, as long as the parents carry out intensive stimulation.
It's like telling them to stop at a red light, they walk down the street and consciously stop when they see the signal light turn on. Even when someone runs a red light, they will come forward to stop it.
If not, the baby will be dismissive of all the rules
If during this period, the parents do not carry out any restrictions and supervision, then the baby's concept of rules will be very vague. Although they will also make some rules by themselves when they are playing, they will always break the rules continuously.
Moreover, the social rules accumulated during this period have a great impact on future development. In the future, whenever it involves rule-related behavior, they will act strictly according to the rules.
When the baby grows up slowly, every time he regulates his behavior according to the rules, he will make others feel that he has a lot of upbringing. After all, the Son is not the fault of the Father. If the child behaves well, it means that the parents are also educated.
On the subway, a photo caused countless people to praise, and the baby's upbringing has disgraced many adults
There were only two fathers and daughters, and the daughter also consciously stood behind her father
For the rules for taking public transportation, it must be to queue up to get on the bus. Although there will be many prompt slogans in the subway ring creation, as long as there is no staff supervision, there will still be people who do not stand in line.
However, the father-daughter pair that I saw by chance is a good example. The subway had not yet arrived, and the little girl and her father reached the platform ahead of schedule, and she very consciously stood behind her father.
And, this dad didn't stop it. He did not say anything superfluous, but silently accompanied his daughter. This scene happened to be seen by passengers on the same train and recorded casually.
The drink fell to the floor, and the little girl squatted down and dried it with paper
Although the speed of the high-speed rail is very fast, for passengers who travel far, it is better to carry some food with them to prevent hunger and thirst on the road. Especially for parents who take their babies out, food is indispensable.
But not knowing what the reason was, the little girl spilled her drink on the ground. When she found out that she had made a mistake, she did not immediately flee the scene and hide behind her mother, but chose to take the initiative to make up for the mistake and dry the water stains on the ground.
In this way, passers-by will not slip and fall because of water stains, nor will the whole carriage become dirty. During the whole process of the little girl wiping the floor, the parents were silently accompanied by the side and did not interfere with the baby.
Mom covers her baby's feet with her hands to prevent mentioning the passengers next to her
When we take public transportation, we will take the initiative to give up seats to passengers with children, after all, children have poor balance ability, if they encounter sharp brakes or turns, it is easy to be thrown out because of inertia.
This mother just got the help of other passengers and had a seat, but it was not safe for the baby to sit alone in the seat, so the mother sat down with the baby in her arms.
Then a move of Bao Mama made everyone in the same carriage lament her high quality, that is, covering the baby's feet with her hands. That way, the person next to you won't be innocently kicked by the baby.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
It is said that the youth is strong, China is strong, the behavior of the new generation will directly affect the development of society, after all, the future society is to rely on the young generation to fight and create, their own baby education, but also for the country's prosperity and strength to contribute a modest force!
And, with such a high-quality parent, the baby's future development will not be bad! After all, the child is the shadow of the parent, and it will not be bad to learn from the same!
Today's Topic:
What other quality babies have you seen? What did they do that moved you?