According to the Mozi Tianzhixia, when a great power attacks another country, once it has entered the country, it will cut crops, destroy buildings, and plunder livestock. And those who stubbornly disobeyed the people were eliminated, and the remaining obedient people were tied back, with men as "servants, concubines, and xujing" and women as "servants and chiefs".
Among them, the servant is the slave who manages the carriage and horse, while the concubine is the slave who raises the horse, and Xu Jing is the slave who is forced to do civil engineering such as building the castle with a rope. The so-called scoop is the slave of the rice, and the chief is the slave of the wine.
It can be said that in ancient times, a person's origin was particularly important for women, and if a person became a slave for a dynasty, it could be said that he could not turn over from generation to generation. In that feudal dynasty where men were inferior to women, women's origins were far more important than men's, and men had the opportunity to struggle to change their lives, and women, in addition to marrying a good man, could be said to determine the fate of a lifetime at birth.
A woman who is born into a rich family enjoys all the glory and wealth, and a woman who is a slave at birth has no right to control her life or even her life, and she is extremely pitiful. However, there are exceptions to everything, and for slaves, it is crucial to meet who the master is, and there are also some inspirational slaves in history who have achieved a turnaround, such as Wei Zifu. In modern times, there was also a woman who was born with a beard, who had no name and no points in her life, and died in a desolate grass hut in her old age, but she raised 6 national pillars in her life! Who is she?
First, the tragic encounter of childhood, the adult beard meets the noble
In the last years of the Qing Dynasty, due to the corruption of the imperial court, the situation was turbulent, and the people were miserable. In this context, there is a girl named Bitter Life who was born in Sichuan, and her name is Wang Laixi. In such an era, being born into a poor family was already the unfortunate beginning, but fate seemed to be particularly harsh on her. When she was two years old, her mother died, and two years later her father died, and because her father's newly married stepmother did not want to raise her, he sold her to traffickers, and in this way, Wang Laixi began a tragic life of being abducted and sold.
From the age of 4 to the age of 10, she was abducted and sold four times in a row. On the last occasion, she was sold to the home of Li Duanxian, a famous scholar of the late Qing Dynasty, and then taken home as an envoy by Li Duanxian's cousin Li Huixian, who was the pearl in the palm of Li Chaowei, a major minister of the late Qing Dynasty. Although she was still a maid after being taken away by Li Huixian, for Wang Laixi, this was the beginning of her life transformation.
For Wang Laixi, the safe survival is the biggest luxury, and although the Li family has to do a lot of work, but finally live a normal life, and can still eat enough, for Wang Laixi, this is already a very good treatment, so she has always been very grateful to the Li family. Because Wang Lai was diligent and obedient, Li Huixian was also particularly fond of this lady, and even took it away as a dowry when she got married.
At that time, the person Li Huixian married was Liang Qichao, an important promoter of the Restoration Movement. After arriving at the Liang family, Liang Qichao was also very satisfied with Wang Laixi, and the only thing that made him feel that the fly in the ointment was that Liang Qichao, as a talented person, was very dissatisfied with Wang Laixi's tacky name, so he changed her name to Wang Guiquan.
Although she did not understand the connotation of this name, she felt that Liang Qichao was talented and learned, and the name he took was naturally not bad, so she used this name for a lifetime. Wang Guiquan, who is in the Liang family, is still diligent, and for Liang Qichao, who is busy with things, it also solves the problem of his troubles for daily tedious affairs. Even the Liang couple put the finances under her control. As a yahuan, but able to manage the daily expenses of the whole family and the keys of various rooms, it can be seen that the Liang couple trusts her very much, and it can also be seen that her position in the Liang family is very unusual. Later, Wang Guiquan's identity was further improved.
Second, he was accepted as a concubine and became the top pillar of the Liang family
Six years after Liang Qichao and Li Huixian were married, the two finally gave birth to their eldest son, Liang Sicheng, in 1901. For Liang Qichao, this is a great joy. However, the problem is that Liang Sicheng is as weak as his mother, so Liang Qichao is also very worried about the loss of incense. As a wife, Li Huixian also understood Liang Qichao's troubles very well, so under her all-round matching, she made Liang Qichao a concubine!
Why did Li Huixian let her husband Na Wang Guiquan be a concubine?
In fact, it can be seen from this that Li Huixian is very smart. As a wife, she can't let the Liang family's incense flourish, so Liang Qichao is likely to take concubines in the future, and since she can't stop it, why not let someone she can control as Liang Qichao's concubine, and Wang Guiquan is undoubtedly the best candidate. So, in 1903, Wang Guiquan became Liang Qichao's side room, when she was only 18 years old. Wang Guiquan also "lived up to the expectations of the people", and later gave birth to a total of six children for Liang Qichao. However, even so, Wang Guiquan was still nameless and unworthy in the Liang family, not even a concubine, why was this?
Originally, Liang Qichao founded the "Monogamous World Association" to vigorously promote monogamy, but now he himself has a concubine, how should he serve the public? Therefore, Liang Qichao always avoided talking about Wang Guiquan, and even his own children could not call him a mother. However, Wang Guiquan did not care about this, she had no intention of fame, as long as she could live happily, she would be satisfied. In the Liang family, she not only took care of the housework well, taking good care of Liang Qichao and Li Huixian, but also took care of herself and Li Huixian's children equally, because of her love, all the children of the Liang family loved her very much.
In the general feudal family, the children of the Liang family are called the birth mother and the aunt, and Liang Sicheng, as the child of the concubine, calls Wang Guiquan the mother of the concubine, which shows how much the children of the Liang family love her. When Liang Qichao fled to Japan after the failure of the Hundred Days Reform Law, Wang Guiquan, who had no culture, became the first person in the family to learn to speak Japanese, and was of great help to Liang Qichao's work abroad. It can be said that Wang Guiquan, who has no name, has gradually become an indispensable pillar of the Liang family, whether it is Liang Qichao and Li Huixian or children, without exception, they are inseparable from Wang Guiquan. This was later reflected.
Third, the tragic end, raised the pillars of the country but died in the grass shed in his old age
After the deaths of Liang Qichao and Li Huixian, it can be seen from wang Guiquan's death that she was an indispensable pillar of the Liang family. She has been working to pay for her children's school fees, even when she is older. Under the careful care and education of Wang Guiquan, Liang Qichao's nine children have gradually grown up and become the talents who have made important contributions to the country. Among these children are architects, some are experts in rocket system control, and there are even three academicians. And their achievements are inseparable from Wang Guiquan's education of them.
Unfortunately, in 1966, Wang Guiquan was driven to the countryside under the name of "wife of the royalist Liang Qichao", and at the age of 85, due to years of fatigue and the torment of illness, her life came to an end. Finally, in a grass hut, Wang Guiquan died, and there was not a single relative around her, but the kind villagers buried her. It was not until nearly 20 years after her death that the children of the Liang family planted a mother tree next to the joint tomb of Liang Qichao and Li Huixian, and erected a monument to commemorate the ordinary mother who had nurtured several beams. I believe that Wang Guiquan, who is under the Nine Springs, will be very satisfied if he knows.
brief summary
Looking back on Wang Guiquan's life, it can be said that it is very distressing. After being abducted and sold many times in his childhood, he never got a name after becoming a wife and mother, and when he was finally regarded as Liang Qichao's wife in his later years, he faced oppression. However, even so, she still devoted herself to the achievement of others, casting the word "great love", which made people feel admiration for her deeds while feeling sad about her experience.
People are talking about "three academicians in one discipline." When the Nine Sons All Become Talents", there is always a long discussion on the success of Liang Qichao's education, but all this is inseparable from Wang Guiquan's dedication. It can be said that the adult talent of the children of the Liang family is naturally because Liang Qichao, who is the father, has played an important role in his words and deeds. However, as a housewife who plays a decisive role in the atmosphere of the whole family, and loves the children in every way, Wang Guiquan, who let them thrive, is also indispensable.
She has always stood behind Liang Qichao in obscurity, even if she has no name and no part, she still carefully decorates and achieves this respectable family. After a lifetime of enduring humiliation and burdens, and even more broken hearts for the Liang family, if you can marry such a good woman, why should your husband ask for it? The so-called "family has a virtuous wife, better than a good land of ten thousand acres", presumably Liang Qichao also has a deep understanding of it.