Wen | a good pregnant sister
"Is there a thief in the house?" How did it come to this? What about rice? The children were crying! ”
Just as the man was asking about the guilt, the woman lay on the bed and lazily replied, "You didn't say all day that I didn't do anything at home, I really didn't do anything today." After finishing his speech, he shrugged his shoulders, and the man was dumbfounded.
This is a small video I saw on the Internet, but the real heartache of full-time mothers, in the eyes of many people, full-time mothers are a relatively idle job, free time, and do not have to be angry with the boss, sleep until they wake up naturally, get up and chase dramas to drink afternoon tea, only need to prepare food and drink for their children every day, but is this really the case?
Recently, a stay-at-home mother posted her 24-hour schedule online, and since 6:30 in the morning, she has no personal time. After getting up in the morning, dress and wash, dress and wash the children, prepare the clothes to be worn by the husband on the day, make two meals (the baby is young, the supplementary food should be done separately), after the husband goes to work, the laundry and cleaning start, accompanied by the baby's crying, the eyes dare not leave half a point, the safety of the child is the most worried, the morning to accompany the play to accompany the play, it is easy to wait until the baby takes a nap, she has to start preparing lunch and the game to be done in the afternoon.
"During the day is not the most tired, only at night to toss people, eat, drink, wash and brush until eight o'clock, and then give the baby a bath, more than nine o'clock began to sleep, in the middle of the night may cry at any time to wake up." In a day, less than an hour is completely on your own. ”
"I'm going to cry after reading it, it's all like this, if my husband doesn't understand, that day will be even more difficult."
Many female netizens expressed strong resonance, and added that these daily routines do not include children getting sick, serving the elderly, buying a family's food, clothing, housing and transportation, handling the rear interpersonal relationships, etc. Now the baby is still small, it is easier to deal with, and when it comes to school in the future, the mother will return to the workplace, so the time will be more tense.
In the hit drama "Thirty Only", Gu Jia, a full-time mother, once said a sentence, "From the moment the child was born, I knew that Gu Jia was dead, and it was Xu Ziyan's mother who survived." ”
For women, how to balance career and family is always a big problem, in the traditional family division of labor, women are given the stereotype of "within the Lord", even if the current men can no longer support the family independently, even if most women now go out to participate in the work, family and child-rearing are still pushed onto women, which is an injustice.
In terms of probability, whether the hostess of a family is happy can almost determine the happiness index of the family, and if you want to maintain the stability of the marriage, the man must also make a difference.
Diligent can help his wife share the housework, lazy can learn to sweet words, know how to make his wife happy, even with only one mouth. On the issue of parenting, no matter how high the salary of men, they must shoulder their responsibilities as fathers and cannot be absent from the growth of their children, which is related to the child's mental health and future development, which is very important.
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