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On December 31, Liu Yan participated in Li Jing's interview program, and when asked if she would go on a blind date, she blew herself up and no one wanted to go on a blind date with her, she was sexy, she was confident, how could it be? This shocked Li Jing.
She debuted in 2000, first as a host, was the head of Guangdong Satellite TV Hua Dan, and then she crossed over as an actor, participated in many popular film and television works such as "Painted Skin", "Young Marshal" and "Beneficiary", and her career was in full swing.
Her career is smooth, but her emotional road is very bumpy, and she generously shared her two relationship histories in the "Dear, Get Married" program.
One emotional experience was when she was around 20 years old, and his mother was very aggressive, opening the door to wake them up on weekends and reprimanding why she slept so late.
She also asked Liu Yan to learn chili stir-fried meat, saying that her son loved to eat it. Liu Yan obediently complied.
On the weekend again, Liu Yan got up early, made breakfast for her boyfriend, and obediently waited for her to review after doing it, and said: "It's okay." ”
Looking back on this experience, she felt that her heart was dripping blood, yes, replaced by me, working hard to make a meal for her lover, full of joy and looking forward to praise, but it was not salty and not light, it was OK, and my heart would be uncomfortable.
Therefore, when women are in love, they must not lower their posture, you go to the boyfriend's house as a guest, the posture should be higher, you want to marry me, not I have to marry your family, don't work like a little daughter-in-law.
You yourself look down on yourself, so why ask others to look up to you?
The second relationship: When the two were together, he gave her a lot of tenderness and thoughtfulness, and even chartered a second-floor restaurant by the sea to propose, once thought that this was the love that would go to the marriage hall.
He didn't have much savings, but he was willing to buy a diamond ring for Liu Yan. She was moved and agreed. It didn't happen that it wasn't long before they broke up.
For a long time, Liu Yan couldn't figure out why he said he would leave?
She had thought about revenge and had wanted to text him and scold him. But when I think of the beauty of the experience between the two, I can't bear it. These two relationships are nightmares for her.
There is no right or wrong in love, he left, he just doesn't love you, why bother loving that? For a person who does not love, sad, bitter, crying, he will not come back to hurt you, why bother yourself?
Letting go of yourself, abandoning a love that does not belong to you, it takes courage, it takes time, and it is the sublimation of the spiritual world!
Now 41-year-old Liu Yan is still single, she admits that she is ready to be single to old age, and she also thinks about the schedule of old age, just like her mother, optimistic and positive.
I always thought that ordinary girls are too old to find a partner, and it turns out that celebrities also have problems in this regard.
When you are young, you can choose a wider range of objects, small fresh meat, warm men, handsome men, uncles, any choice; older, only uncles can choose, the choice range from wide to narrow, the degree of excellence is also decreasing, we are not willing to do what?
We have to admit that in the mate market, women's age is weighed against the odds. After all, for men, the fundamental purpose of marriage is to reproduce.
But you can't say that you don't have a chance, and when you don't expect it, maybe love will come.
Don't marry for the sake of getting married, marriage is not a refuge for the elderly, not a pretense to calm the marriage of relatives, and not a show-off of "I have a good life".
Marriage is that I love, that I feel that I am responsible, and he happens to be the same, that marriage is a natural product.
May Liu Yan find a good relationship as soon as possible! May we all be happy in the new year!
If you have other opinions, welcome to leave a message, thank you for thanksgiving! Happy weekend!