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"People are good and are bullied, and horses are good to be ridden", exchanging sincerity for sincerity is just a luxury fantasy, but the real reality is that the kinder and more generous you are, the easier it is to become an object of arbitrary bullying in the eyes of others.
Your excessive generosity is an invitation to unscrupulously take advantage of you and trample on your bottom line repeatedly.
Many people think that they will show a true heart in front of others without reservation, and they can exchange the kindness and sincerity of others for everything without careful consideration.
But forget that people are selfish in the final analysis, and your generosity is often exchanged not for the sincere treatment of others, but for your endless exploitation and bullying.
If a person is too generous, always as the party giving, for a long time, accepting your giving has become a habit of others.
Once you start to change, no longer as generous as before, you will become a sinner in the eyes of others.
Just as a good person does ten thousand good things, but does one bad thing, he becomes a bad person in the eyes of others; and a bad person does countless bad things, but because he does a good thing, he can be forgiven by others.
Good habits can make people better, but bad habits can make people fall into unkindness.
To be too generous is to tolerate the oppression and bullying of others on you, and let them enjoy your generosity.
Once bad habits take root in people's hearts, there is no room for return. They are with you, not because they are sincere with you, but because of your generosity.
The desire to take from you the benefits they need, at the expense of you, to accomplish what they want to do.
Time passes a little bit, and at the end, you will always understand that they did not regard you as a real friend, but only as a stepping stone on the way forward in their lives.
The kinder the person, the more likely they are to be bullied, and the more generous the person, the more likely they are to be used by others.
You can't do everything as a person, but don't be without a city government, without principles, generous, appropriate reservations, adhere to your own bottom line and principles, polish your eyes, and stay away from those who just use you.
Build a line of defense for your generosity and allow only those who are genuinely kind to you to enter.
When your generosity has principles and no longer treats everyone indiscriminately, those who can stay around are the real friends.
Too generous, you will not bear to refuse, can not bear to refuse, always want to live like others like, but forget that the most important thing in life is to live as you like.
There is no absolutely perfect person in the world, and no one person can win the appreciation and affirmation of all people.
No matter how good you are, no matter how hard you work, there are always people who sneer at you, dismissively, and even show disgust and disgust. And these are just normal things in life.
You are not a god, you can't make all people like you, even if you are generous to all people, no matter what others ask of you, there will always be people who will pick bones in the egg and be dissatisfied with you.
Know that true friends will not come close to you because of your generosity, but close to you because of yourself.
If you talk to you very happily, and if you hate each other late, even if you are a dime a dozen, they will come to you.
Making friends is not a work to earn money, but more is not good.
True friends are not in the many, but in the worth. There is nothing wrong with being generous to people, but your generosity should have principles and bottom lines.
When you live the way you want to be, even if you are alone, you can feel the happiness and happiness of the world, and moderate generosity to people is just the icing on the cake.
Making friends is based on being equal and happy with each other, and voluntarily moving forward together.
Instead of blindly forbearance and grievance yourself, to sacrifice your own interests to satisfy others, and beg those people to stay by your side and be your friends. Such a friend is not a real friend, nor is it worth your cherishing and attention.
Friendship is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more you can't grasp it. I thought that generosity could be exchanged for the honesty of others, but in the end I found that I was like a clown, but a tool that others used when they needed it, and threw it aside when they didn't need it.
In your eyes, being generous is the way you make friends, while in the eyes of others, your generosity is nothing more than a means for them to use you.
In life, people must always learn to grow, not to grow in age, but also to be independent in thinking and sober-minded.
The world isn't always so kind, and there are plenty of things that come out of people's minds.
If you want to make sincere friends, first of all, please be kind to yourself, be a principled, bottom-line, moderate and generous person, know how to refuse in the face of unreasonable demands, and know how to stay away in the face of those who have bad intentions.
Leave your generosity to those who really treat you and are truly worth your efforts, so that you can keep true friends and not be bullied.
There is a limit to everything to play its greatest role, and this is also the case for people.
Be friendly with people and be generous to others, so that you can have more true friends.