In May 2020, Ah Jiao and her ex-husband Lai Hongguo signed a separation agreement, and then in May this year, the two completed the divorce procedures, and the marriage that lasted only one year finally officially ended. Ah Jiao rarely mentioned that marriage, and after Lai Hongguo was told that they were separated, he was also confused at the time.
Ah Jiao and Ah Sa, Joey Yung recorded a variety show, Yuan Yongyi participated in the recording as a guest, and Ah Jiao seemed to finally tell the truth about her divorce from Lai Hongguo. For example, Jiaojiao asked Lai Hongguo to hand over a towel, lai Hongguo would not help, and even handed a lethal look. Gillian will think that such a look will deeply hurt herself, so is this a big temper? At least in Ah Jiao's case, Lai Hongguo is temperamental, and she cannot accept Lai Hongguo's behavior.
Gillian said that she has a bottom line in her relationship, and in the process of getting along, the bottom line will be lower and lower, but once the other party crosses this bottom line, it must be "dead". Yuan Yongyi asked: "What is your bottom line, you have never discussed it with the other party."
Gillian believes that it should not be the bottom line that she says herself, but that the other party should take the initiative to perceive this bottom line, so this is very difficult. Yuan Yongyi did not say too much, you know, Yuan Yongyi is a straight-talking, very straightforward person, she will definitely take the initiative to discuss with Zhang Zhilin and solve a problem. Ah Jiao flashed marriage and divorced, Yuan Yongyi and Zhang Zhilin have been together for more than 30 years, and the married life of the two is in stark contrast.
Gillian said that she was too lazy to explain in love, because she was stupid, she stopped arguing for two sentences, and she didn't bother to explain to the other party, just like that... So Ajiao is such a passive type of personality, on the one hand, Lai Hongguo does not understand him, there will be some behavior similar to not handing over the towel, Ajiao will think that the other party has a big temper and hurt herself.
On the other hand, from Lai Hongguo's point of view, he did not perceive the psychological changes of Ah Jiao in time, and it was easy to be overwhelmed. As Mentioned in the chat between Ah Jiao and Yuan Yongyi, for example, Lai Hongguo forgot an important day, she would deduct points for him in her heart until it was reduced to 0, but all this, Lai Hongguo may not know, Ah Jiao did not bother to explain, and the vicious circle continued again and again, and finally the divorce of the two ended.
After Lai Hongguo and Ah Jiao divorced, he once took a beautiful woman home to spend the holiday with his parents during the Tanabata Festival. Gillian also mentioned in the program that because of her original family, she especially likes Lai Hongguo's parents, who are intellectuals, and at the same time have a very good personality, a very happy family, so if there is anything they have in this marriage that Ah Jiao is nostalgic for, it is Lai Hongguo's excellent parents.
For Ah Jiao, she is not satisfied with Lai Hongguo, believing that Lai Hongguo has crossed her bottom line again and again. But from Lai Hongguo's point of view, he almost went bankrupt when he got married, and on the day he was told of the divorce by Ajiao, he could only say: "She doesn't love me."
In fact, it is not difficult to see that Gillian is an introverted personality, it is difficult to figure out in the relationship, in other words, want to become Gillian's partner, may be very tired, because she is not willing to take the initiative to communicate, secretly for the other party to do minus points. So how to say it? The person who may be suitable for Gillian has not yet appeared.
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