Preamble Summary:
S058 Where does the cooking teacher lose?(I) Knowing the Tao and heavy arts, there is no way: disrespecting women, and having too much desire to control
S059 Where does the cooking teacher lose?(中)Understand the Tao and the heavy technique is not a method: it cannot be a win-win situation, and the methodology is small and enlarged
S060 Where does the cooking teacher lose? (II) Understand the Tao and the heavy arts: if you can't be humble, it is difficult to reconcile with all sentient beings
The opening sentence is clear: Mr. Cook suffered the betrayal of true love this time, "judicial injustice", and the women's rights that he kept saying that he wanted to fight to the end had little to do with it, but lost because he knew how to do it:
- disrespectful of women and overly controlling;
- It can't be a win-win situation, and the methodology is small and amplified;
- If you don't practice humility, it will be difficult to reconcile all sentient beings;
- Shocking ambitions, it is inevitable that there will be a hundred secrets and ten sparseness.
1. Why did Sanniu's mother run away?
Because I can't stand the cooking teacher.
Teacher Cook has a strong old-fashioned machismo temperament, earthy, simple, brutal, full of fatherly flavor, serious, conceited, and admitting death. It was even more smoky than Louis XIV, who bathed only 7 times in 77.
Let's see what Teacher Cook did to Sanniu's mother? Just Teacher Cook himself broke the news, and it's hard to write. Is there any free mind control? Teacher Cook wants the role of Sanniu's mother to play, which is his twins.
There is no respect, only grace. Demands absolute loyalty and doesn't care if it's true love.
Only fools and liars can meet the requirements of the cooking teacher and endure it for 13 years. With such a high-intensity domestication, not a liar will also metamorphose into a liar.
2. Why did Sanniu's mother inevitably run away?
Between the cooking teacher and the three girls' mothers, I don't know how many "angry-run-coax" game plots have occurred, and every time the cooking teacher is used to coax the three girls' mothers to change their minds. The threshold for completing the game is higher and higher every time.
Men are born kings of big talk, and women are born calculators.
When Sanniu's mother held 3 billion assets for several years, on the one hand, she continued to swallow her anger and live a life of mental control, with no end, getting tighter and tighter, and on the other hand, she could take 300 million yuan and fly away with a ruthless heart, get rid of control and live a new life, so which side should she choose?
3. How can Sanniu's mother not run away?
Teacher Cook is like a mirror in his heart, and he himself said: Only when a woman is with him has a very high quality of life, and the quality of life drops sharply after leaving him, is the right way.
At the same time, it is not possible to transfer large amounts of money to women, and the necessary expenses can be transferred through a third party, which can effectively prevent women from donating money and running away.
These methods of cooking teachers belong to the typical grasp of small amplification, and the methodology is wrong.
4. How difficult is it to build a harem with a cooking teacher?
Teacher Cook has always treated Sanniu's mother as close as a family, and in fact, Sanniu's mother has been the head of the harem for 12 years.
But at the beginning of 2021, an IQ of 160 and a "smart girl with brains" came to power, and her degree of favor was above that of the three girls' mothers, which led to a fire in the harem.
With a net worth of 28 billion, the young and ambitious cooking teacher, who has been on the road for more than ten years, has still given up halfway through the construction of the harem, so how likely is the multi-gamous dream of the rich to be realized?
5. How did Mr. Cook raise 50 sons?
Teacher Cook claimed to be giving birth to 50 sons, and an insider broke the news that 60 had been born.
Although the exact number is unknown, Mr. Cook revealed that his family is now a veritable large family, employing hundreds of aunts, as well as drivers, handymen, assistants, etc. Coupled with the "kindergarten" videos he shares from time to time, it is reasonable to speculate that Mr. Cook has completed the first step of giving birth to 50 sons.
The child was born, and the main task was supposed to educate and raise the child to grow up, but the harem caught fire, the third girl's mother absconded, and the cooking teacher had to devote his energy to deal with these sudden side quests.
The question is: Will emergencies be the norm and what are the challenges in raising 50 sons?
6. Can Mr. Cook create a thriving family?
Teacher Cook's ideal is to establish an excellent family like Wu Yueqian, Wang Qian Miao, Fan Zhongyan, Liang Qichao, and Fan Li, so as to revitalize the family and the country.
Wealth-family-clan-country-world is the growth path of Chinese scholars. Everyone who wants to build a prosperous family has the world in his heart. After Mr. Cook made a fortune from the game, he looked down at himself, looked up at the road, and suddenly felt a pride in his chest: if he is poor, he will be good to himself, and if he is good, he will help the world.
From himself to the world, Mr. Cook has a deep hole in his heart that needs to be filled.
That's home.
Teacher Cook has always lacked a home in his heart, a lack of home in the five elements, and a lack of relatives. My mother doesn't recognize it, my father doesn't kiss me, my grandmother doesn't hurt, and the young cooking teacher is full of holes in my heart.
Mr. Cook survived by his fate, and by his shocking luck, he earned tens of billions of assets, but his emotional world and intimate relationships are still barren.
Sanniu's mother is one of the attempts of Teacher Cook to establish an intimate relationship, and it is also the most emotionally invested.
Sanniu's mother is a native of Songbei District, Harbin City (near the suburbs), graduated from a model school, and has no father since she was a child. Before I met Mr. Cooking, I had dated many rich second generations, but they all broke up because the other party was not generous with money.
In 2009, I met Mr. Cook through a blind date website. After 13 years together, they gave birth to 2 daughters, 11 surrogacy children (10 sons and 1 daughter) who are related by blood of both parties, plus about 10 sons who are only related to Mr. Cook.
Teacher Cook not only took care of the various luxurious living expenses of Sanniu's mother, but also took Sanniu's mother's mother over to live together, but also paid for the third girl's mother's younger brother to buy a house and get married, and paid for Sanniu's mother's stepfather to treat his illness. The warmth of the Northeast family once briefly gave Mr. Cook some comfort.
Judging from the information disclosed by Teacher Cook, Teacher Cook is extremely tolerant of Sanniu's mother, supporting her to be beautiful as a flower and doing whatever she wants, but often (at least once a week) to teach her common sense of life and social truth.
Teacher Cook also admitted that he really regarded Sanniu's mother as a relative and a family member. "S057 China's first father, the billionaire Cooking Teacher, is also a soft persimmon in an intimate relationship?" analyzed, Cooking Teacher is true love for Sanniu's mother.
It's not true love, and it won't be entangled in revenge so much.
The fundamental difference between Teacher Cook and Sanniu's mother lies in the fact that their goals are completely different.
Sanniu's mother doesn't like Teacher Cook, she just wants Teacher Cook to be a donor, so she paid the price of childbirth, surrogacy, etc., and helped Teacher Cook get more than 20 children. But she doesn't like to be controlled by the cooking teacher, and hates the cooking teacher in class.
In order to be able to hide far away, Sanniu's mother asked Teacher Cook to give her a 7-story house in Japan to live in and give her another 500,000 pocket money every year by not cooperating with the return of the remaining cash and real estate. It is equivalent to breaking off his husband, voluntarily entering the cold palace, and then making a comeback after his son grows up and inherits the property.
Teacher Cook hopes that Sanniu's mother can take on the responsibilities of the housemother and work together with him to establish a prosperous family, so she keeps teaching, reminding, and transforming Sanniu's mother, but is considered by the other party to be "class" and mind control.
Now that Sanniu's mother has run away, Teacher Cook has said all the cruel words and announced the cancellation of the inheritance of the children under Sanniu's mother's name, but in fact, she is still looking forward to the other party's return.
Teacher Cook claimed that the breakup was a loss for Sanniu's mother, not her own loss, and also claimed that she "had already known other good girls who were virtuous and silently supported her".
This statement is not very credible. Because before, Teacher Cook also announced in a high-profile manner that Sanniu's mother is such a good girl. Now it's a slap in the face, Sanniu's mother is not, 160 is not, so is there really a good girl in the harem of Mr. Cook that he claims?
There is a high probability that there is none.
To put it mildly, with the previous method and current state of the cooking teacher, it can only attract three girls and 160.
After the grassroots came from a strange background and became rich, they are obsessed with proving that they are worthy of love, which is a delusion under the blessing of wealth. Unless the myth is reflected in reality, and there is really a mother like a snail girl to save him, or the teacher can only grow himself in blood and fill the hole in his heart.
Sanniu's mother ran away, leaving the teacher alone to clean up the mess.
The most difficult part of this endgame is the more than 20 children under the name of Sanniu's mother, especially the 13 children who are related to Sanniu's mother by blood. The eldest daughter is 13 years old, and most of the sons are only 7 years old, who have been deprived of inheritance rights due to the abolition of the queen, and will fall out of favor because they will remember the sad past when they see it.
Sanniu's mother is an alienated mother, and she is the first mother to defect, it is difficult to say that there will be no second or third defector, including the contingent "good girl who is virtuous and silently supports".
Liu Zhun, the last emperor of the Liu and Song dynasties of the Southern Dynasty, once said hatefully: I wish to live in the emperor's family.
There are more sons of the cook teacher than most emperors, and the family does have thousands of family properties. The sons have faced extremely cruel competition for rankings since they were children, they have lived a simple life since they were children, their mothers don't know where, they are accompanied by nannies and assistants on weekdays, and they have to queue up to hug their fathers. What's more, this 1/50 father often focuses on dealing with sudden side quests, leaving them little time to accompany them.
50+ sons who grew up in a non-family environment. It is like the nursery of Sparta and Prussia, on the one hand, there are a large number of servants who come at the moment, on the other hand, there is no love from parents and grandparents, and at the same time, they are faced with fierce competition for succession and favor, and it is easy to develop a cruel and cold-blooded character.
Therefore, Mr. Cook predicted a few years ago that within 200 years, his descendants will inevitably produce China's richest man and national leader.
The children and grandchildren of the first father are the richest people, and there is not much problem. But if such a child really becomes the leader of the country, it is not a good thing, and Hitler's lesson is not far off.
The top priority of cooking teachers is to make up for the shortcomings of love for the children. One yin and one yang is the way.
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Because of the father-son relationship model when he was a child, Mr. Cook's personality is extremely conceited and admitting death, and it is difficult to establish cooperation with authority.
His irreconcilable relationship with his father, fierce conflict with the local authorities, and now he has published a wide range of articles challenging judicial rulings, and continues to instill in his sons the idea of "revenge for their father", which is not only a factor of social instability, but also a map of hard mode for the growth of his sons.
As smart as a cooking teacher, he must know that the dynasties of the past dynasties were always very vigilant against the local Haoqiang, and constantly introduced measures to suppress the Haoqiang, crack down on the Haoqiang, and dismember the big family.
The big family had to be divided into parts through the form of separation, and divided and combined through the form of marriage with different surnames, so as to develop and grow while avoiding the blows of the imperial court. When it reaches a certain scale and it is impossible to hide it, it is necessary to use official selection channels such as the imperial examination to form a party for personal gain, intertwined roots, and safeguard the rights and interests of big families. The Donglin Party was one of the winners, but it was taken as a warning by later generations of the government and the opposition.
In modern society, the old-style family is torn apart, and even parents and children in the family are often incompatible, husband and wife are separated from each other, and everyone is in an atomized and discrete state, facing the huge Leviathan alone.
Before the unprecedented changes in 2000, did Mr. Cook's earth-shattering ambition to build a prosperous family conform to the trend of history or go against the tide of modernization? Is it possible for him to succeed? Can other people with this ideal succeed?
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