It's a handbook. Inside was my exhortation to a student, not really insightful, but at least the result of a long period of thought. Although it is not very clear how much the attitude of the elementary school students has changed after the communication, I at least understand that this communication is indispensable, so I simply excerpt it and hope that the reader will correct and add.
Without further ado, let's look below:
It is natural to not understand your mother, to complain that she forced you to study, and even sent you to cram school. But will your mother not feel your grievances and your resentment? No, she knew it, but she had to.
Even if it causes you to be dissatisfied at the moment, she will be happy. Because she knows that this is for the sake of your future development, it is worth it not to understand it for the child now.
Mothers to meet the needs of the child, in fact, is very simple, give him a mobile phone, let him play; but bury the child's future is this idea.
However, although every mother is great, she also has her own unconsidered aspects. For the same problem, each mom will give her own countermeasure. These countermeasures may be high or low in the eyes of outsiders, but from the mother's point of view, they are all correct.
Why? Because they all embody a mother's deepest love for her child. I hope you understand your mother's hard work, and it is not easy to understand her. She thinks that the approach may be too extreme, but I hope you don't distort her original intention of kindness.
Admittedly, every mother must have a child with a perfect score in her mind. So, in order to raise this child, she will do her best to put it into action in the way she feels is "right".
However, now you can also feel that this idea that seems right to her is difficult for you to accept. What to do at this time? Confrontation? No!
The best way is to communicate immediately, tell her your most sincere thoughts, reassure her that you will not slacken off, and say that you can understand your mother's intentions and will seize the time to study seriously.
It must be admitted that your mother's thinking is more limited, thinking linearly about problems, thinking that your grades are declining now, and you are strongly afraid that you will regress even more, and in order to eliminate this fear, she of course forces you to study.
This not only reduces fear, but also helps you improve your grades. Kill two birds with one stone. Coercion is not the mother's arbitrariness, but her helplessness. Since your mother made a move, you naturally have to take the move, but it is not a passive move, and you have a good way to resolve it yourself.
After all, it's all up to you to solve the problem – whether you're willing to solve it or not. That's the key.
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