Recommendation: Do you know Xu Shiyou's second wife?
In that era of male superiority and female inferiority, women had no status, and after marriage, they were even more "husband-oriented". In that era of war and chaos, with the liberation of ideas and the development of society, women in order to pursue their own value, more and more from their own selfish interests to think about the problem.
Xu Shiyou was imprisoned, his wife did not visit, wrote a break letter instead, shot a warning after the ban was lifted, and divorced.
One. Married to Xu Shiyou at the age of 23, thinking that her husband had sacrificed, she had no choice but to remarry
Xu Shiyou was a cadre general who participated in the army and fought.
He spent his life fighting horses and made great achievements on the battlefield. And he has a straightforward nature, and has fought on the battlefield in his life, but his emotional road has stumbled.
Xu Shiyou's first wife, Zhu Ximing, married Xu Shiyou at the age of 23, and later the war separated the two, she thought that her husband was sacrificed, and in desperation, she remarried with tears.
Zhu Ximing lived in a village near Xu Shiyou, when Xu Shiyou had just returned from the Shaolin Temple, he was determined to join the army and actively devote himself to the revolutionary cause. At that time, Xu Shiyou had reached the age of talking about marriage.
The family's mother also chose his favorite girl for him, and this girl was Zhu Ximing.
Xu Shiyou's mother is very optimistic about this daughter-in-law, not only virtuous and capable, but also able to endure hardships, and her identity also matches her son. And Xu Shiyou is not sensitive to the love of his children, only listens to the mother, he thinks that after all, the mother is optimistic, he can also accept it, so he married Zhu Ximing back home.
After getting married, the two were only together for three days, and Xu Shiyou left with the troops.
During that time, the war was constant, and Xu Shiyou returned home in the middle of the night many times, and Kankan came back to see his mother and wife. Later, the two had children, the first and the second died prematurely, and when they gave birth to their third child,
The team was busy moving, and Xu Shiyou left before he could see the child.
This transfer of the following team is ten years.
The third has grown into a teenager. For more than ten years, Xu Shiyou did not have any news, and both the mother and Zhu Ximing at home thought that Xu Shiyou was probably gone, so they silently swallowed this feeling of eager waiting. Zhu Ximing is at the age of beauty,
The mother could not see it, and persuaded her to find a good family to marry, but Zhu Ximing did not agree, but the mother found an honest person for her to be the master, Zhu Ximing was helpless, and tearfully remarried.
In the life of Zhu Ximing's remarriage, she never forgot to come back to visit her old mother. The second husband was also sympathetic, asking Zhu Ximing to bring some food and drink supplies to Xu Shiyou's mother from time to time. Zhu Ximing came to visit his mother, and also helped clean the house and do farm work, which was very filial, but what was unexpected was that
They happened to see Xu Shiyou's news in the newspaper and became the commander of the Shandong Military Region.
Zhu Ximing was sad and happy when he saw this news.
I am happy that my beloved is still alive, and my tense heart has loosened, but the sad thing is that I have remarried someone else as a wife, and I don't know how to face him.
Later, Xu Shiyou heard his mother talk about Zhu Ximing's condition, and was very touched, but he also felt ashamed of her.
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Getting acquainted with Lei Mingzhen County, Wang Jian'an led the red line in the middle, and the two opened their eyes
As everyone knows, the unit in which Xu Shiyou participated was the Red Fourth Front. At that time, the peasant riots intensified, and Xu Shiyou led his troops down to the county, where he met his second wife, the local county magistrate, Lei Mingzhen.
The first time I met Lei Mingzhen, she was diligent and studious, and her positive and enterprising appearance left a deep impression on Xu Shiyou.
In the process of establishing the revolutionary base area, Xu Shiyou and Lei Mingzhen had more opportunities for contact, they met through work, and over time, they also became acquainted.
But at that time, neither of them thought that they would become each other's dependence in the future.
Wang Jian'an saw the situation of the two and wanted to give them a red line, at first, when Wang Jian'an made suggestions to Xu Shiyou, Xu Shiyou did not care.
But under the persuasion of Wang Jian'an, Xu Shiyou asked who the person was, and Wang Jian'an said: That is the lei county magistrate! Lei Mingzhen!
Xu Shiyou listened, thought carefully about the days when the two had been together for a long time, and found that he had some good feelings for Lei Mingzhen. Later, under the continuous mediation of Wang Jian'an, the two naturally became husband and wife.
Lei Mingzhen and Xu Shiyou are in the same place, the two are very affectionate, and they are also revolutionary fighters, on the way to follow the troops to the Long March, Xu Shiyou received a lot of care from Lei Mingzhen on the road.
The two of them shared hardships and hardships, and the two knew each other because of the revolution, but who would have thought that the two of them would also end this relationship because of the revolution?
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Xu Shiyou was imprisoned, and his wife did not visit and wrote a break-up letter
Xu Shiyou entered the Kang University in 1936 for further study, and on the other hand, Lei Mingzhen worked in the Women's Department of Yan'an County. On the common revolutionary road, both of them have found suitable posts for themselves.
But I didn't expect a sudden "revolution" that completely shattered the feelings of the two people.
Xu Shiyou attended an important meeting during the study of kang da. The Principal said at the meeting:
The first and fourth main forces of our side were surrounded in the process of crossing the Yellow River, and more than 20,000 people were almost completely wiped out.
Hearing this news, the meeting hall was filled with a serious and sad atmosphere, and the incident hit them too hard. After this, kang dazi began to analyze the source of the defeat in the battle, and also pointed out some problems that Zhang Guotao had. With the voice criticizing Zhang Guotao getting louder and louder,
Xu Shiyou, as the main leader of the Red Fourth Front, was also involved.
That period of time can be said to be xu Shiyou's most helpless and painful stage. But I didn't think that Lei Mingzhen, a kind and virtuous wife in my daily life, not only did not choose to accompany him, but also completely turned her face. After Xu Shiyou was arrested, Lei Mingzhen wrote a letter to Xu Shiyou on the grounds of "for the revolution":
It is for the revolution that I am willing to give up on you, one cut twice.
Therefore, Xu Shiyou, in helplessness and despair, still chose to respect Lei Mingzhen's decision and agreed to the request for divorce. And because of this incident, Xu Shiyou saw Lei Mingzhen clearly, and it turned out that the feelings of the two people who lived together day and night were finally overwhelmed. Surprisingly. Xu Shiyou was then released and once again threw himself into the revolutionary cause.
Lei Mingzhen expressed great regret and wanted to reconcile with Xu Shiyou many times, but Xu Shiyou refused, saying that his heart had been broken, and the fate of the two had come to an end.
brief summary:
Xu Shiyou has been open-minded all his life and has struggled for the revolutionary cause all his life, but his emotional road has been difficult, and he has experienced the taste of helplessness and abandonment. But in any case, his contribution to the revolutionary cause of our country and the great merits he made are remembered for us.
No matter what, he is a big hero who stands tall in the sky!
The change of history and the development of the times, I will be with you!
For this wife who abandoned her husband for the revolution, do you think she did the right thing?