Hello everyone, today Xiaobian has come to share dry goods with you again. When the baby is 6 to 12 months old, the mother will be surprised to find that the baby who has seen everyone who has come to know before suddenly begins to be afraid of birth, and becomes particularly "sticky" to the mother, which is actually "stranger anxiety disorder". So how to guide children not to be afraid of children? Let's take a look at it with the editor.
1. Get a "preventive injection" in advance
Before the baby's unfamiliar relatives and friends visit, the mother can first show the baby their photos, familiarize themselves with the faces, preferably you take a picture with them, and then gently tell the baby who this is.
2. Give the baby enough time
When family and friends gather, encourage family and friends to interact with your baby. Tell them that the baby is just a little shy, slow and hot, and takes some time to observe and adapt. He may not want to be the center of the party, but it's okay to try to get around the venue.
3. Take your baby out more
Take the baby out more, relatives' homes, supermarkets, shopping malls, zoos, etc. are all good choices, in order to let the baby have more contact with people. Remember to bring your baby's favorite toy or comforter with you, there are familiar things around you that will make your baby feel at ease.
4, hold the baby, become his strong backing
Having your baby sit on his lap and give him support will make him feel safe in contact with strangers. The baby will decide her attitude towards strangers according to the mother's reaction, and the mother can take the initiative to introduce strangers to the baby, and then observe the baby's reaction, so that the baby will not be so resistant.
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