On December 15, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei officially announced their divorce.
On December 17, Li Lianglei sent a 10,000-word long article detailing Wang Lihong's various "crimes", explaining all the humiliations she had suffered in her marriage, and warning all women not to make unnecessary sacrifices for the family like her.
Subsequently, the interpretation of the whole network has become that women do not want to be "full-time wives", the fundamental reason for divorce is because Li Lianglei is not financially independent enough, so it has led to this situation, for a time all "full-time wives" are anxious...
Originally, I didn't want to say anything more, because I really didn't like Wang Lihong all the time, and I felt that he was particularly fake and special. Now I have to express some of my opinions.
First of all, "stay-at-home wife" is not the original sin of divorce.
On the contrary, in a family where a woman is a full-time wife, the marriage will be happier and the children's education will be better.
Zeng Shiqiang, a famous master of traditional Chinese studies, said that his daughter and daughter-in-law are double degrees, but they do not go out to work, but educate their children at home, because compared with work, their children's education is the first.
But it's not that women should never go to work, but when the children are young, we as mothers should make sacrifices, for the sake of the family and the children, and when the children grow up, we can go out to work again.
Zeng Shiqiang's family
Second, "stay-at-home wife" is not a sin.
Whether in ancient China or in Western European and American countries, women generally did not work. In China, women went to work because of the founding of New China at that time, whether it was the economy or agriculture, it was in urgent need of development, but the labor force was the most serious shortage. In order to comprehensively improve the labor force, it is only to promote women to participate in labor, and to improve the status of women, in fact, it can be regarded as a kind of "poisonous chicken soup" for women. Therefore, modern women must not only earn money to support their families, but also be beautiful as flowers, both to have babies and raise children, but also to prevent their husbands from "flowers".
Finally, a "full-time wife" does not mean that the economy is not independent.
As women, we can not go out to work, but we must learn to manage money. The income of the family needs us to manage, and we must continue to learn at home, not only to learn related parenting knowledge, but also to learn more about financial management; not only to continue to grow ourselves, but also to learn more how to run marriage and family. Be a wise woman, not a woman who will only work and give.
Back to the divorce incident of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, we should condemn his infidelity to marriage and irresponsibility to his wife and children, whether it is a full-time wife or a professional woman who encounters such a "scumbag", the marriage will definitely break down.
I hope that all men in the whole world will be loyal to the family, love and love the wife who has children for you, sacrifices herself, and completes the whole family.
