At the end of another year, time passes quickly, as if someone has accelerated the clockwork, the previous scene is still full of ambition, the next scene is about to open a new chapter, accompanying the years of the situation to come and go like the wind, accompanying their own people to the shadow lonely, life still needs a little thinking, and talk about the three or two things of companionship.
In the early days, I saw a few videos about how two people who accompanied each other had to overcome the difficulties and trifles in life. Emotional sustenance is ultimately just companionship, or have or without but can not leave each other, three meals a day and four o'clock replacement can not be simple and repetitive, the meaning of companionship, the road is not clear.
To say how to express companionship, but also from the two subjects to say. The first is yourself, why you should make a choice to accompany each other, it can be out of love, can also come from friendship, can also come from family affection.
There are many people who, when choosing their own companions, seem to be difficult to comment on whether they are correct, there are internal reasons, and there are objective circumstances, such as Lu Xun's wife Juan, the fate of his parents, the words of the matchmaker, but he and Lu Xun have been a nominal couple for twenty years, there is no real name, but they are helpless. Juan's thoughts are difficult to say, but her actions have made it clear, although she is named, she takes good care of Lu Xun's mother, expressing love and companionship for Lu Xun in this way, and it is more like the companionship of life, and sometimes the term of companionship can be changed to another word, that is, sustenance.
In addition to love, there is friendship, not to mention the mountain flowing water, Zhiyin Bole, it is said that simple and simple real life. Most people have more or less good friends, some people call them good brothers, some people call them good girlfriends, they can also be called good friends, that knows you cold and warm, understands your mind, helps you grow, and achieves each other's spiritual sustenance, which is also companionship. Sometimes sigh, life is really repetitive and boring, chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, a day to live, or there are three or two close friends can have something to say, have something to say, nothing to talk about, will not be alone to meditate, can not think of so, talk about laughter and also appreciate some of the thinking of life.
Speaking of companionship, we cannot talk less about family affection. Simply put, this is the blood dependence, bringing each of us to this wonderful world, it is our parents, the friendship that holds life, and the intertwined family affection, which is different from others, this is a warm spiritual harbor. In the middle school era, a teacher once said a paragraph in class, let us cherish the opportunity to accompany our parents, some people leave the boarding school around their parents in middle school, most people leave home to live in a collective dormitory life when they go to college, and after graduation, they work, and the time to accompany their parents is more "considerable". When I sorted out the old things a few days ago, I saw a few photos taken when I was a child, and the time went back to a certain noon twenty years ago, and there was a heavy snow twenty years ago, when my parents were flourishing, when I was shy and lively, when my friends played together every day, when I forgot to fold my messy pants legs when I played snowball... Up to now, those people in the photo, their own companions are only their parents, small friends scattered in all directions, occasionally may be able to hear the three or two dynamics, but only heard, I don't know if the people of that year here and now will also accidentally think of, a ripple.
How to express the accompaniment, the subject in addition to himself, and then talk about the accompanying other party, why the other party chooses to accompany himself. This can be summed up in one word, which is "bond", which is also seen from the perspective of love, friendship and affection.
In the name of love, choose companionship. Love is not a matter of one person, nor is it managed by one person, nor is it wishful thinking to accompany. Two people can know, relying on fate and opportunity; two people can be together, relying on mutual attraction and achievement; two people can accompany each other for a long time, relying on each other's tolerance and trust. Before and friends also talked about the so-called love, is mutual achievement, just need to change each other can make changes for each other, do not need to change is the original heart and the true face, why together, in the name of love, with the true meaning, this bond, is the real love from the heart, inexplicable, follow the heart.
Sincerely, choose to accompany. In a small talk with a close friend, I talked about what a friend is, what a good friend is, what is a true friend. To cut into the topic from the most direct point of view, is what can each other achieve? Friends can laugh with themselves, cry with themselves, go shopping with themselves, and travel with themselves, but if it involves the level of interests, can they still accompany themselves to be sad and sincere? This is the difference between a good friend and a true friend. Why friends accompany us, there is also a bond, and unlike love, friendship seems to be more of a sense of identity. Exchange views, talk about opinions, tell interesting things, resolve boredom, guide the confusion, there is a place where value content is exported, that is, the area extended by friendship, and both sides can be recognized. Whether there is a list of friends, there will always be one or two who can "disturb" at any time when they encounter confusion, and share happy things at any time, although the words are simple, the reason is simple, and the sincere friends are so.
Live together and choose companionship. In the family affection, why the other party will choose to accompany themselves is the affection that blood is thicker than water, the great father's love and maternal love, everything is in the word.
Whether it is oneself or the other party, for companionship, it has its own meaning of existence, and some people may ask, what should I do if there is a conflict of opinion and identity, is it a parting of the road? Here I want to talk about tolerance, and then another word is "seeking common ground while reserving differences". Choosing companionship, whether it is time or space accompaniment, may have shortcomings, when there are contradictions, in love, friendship and family affection, "seeking common ground while reserving differences" may be able to better deal with problems.
Both sides of the accompaniment have the need for sustenance, a sense of value identification, companionship and loneliness seem to be opposites, but if it is said that because of loneliness, so companionship, but also less taste. Poets in ancient times expressed their thoughts in verses, expressed companionship, expressed loneliness, entrusted things and words, and sent love to the scene, the night of the full moon "I hope that people will be long, thousands of miles together", across the spatial distance, looking up at the bright moon together is another way of companionship, but is it not lonely at this time? Thousands of lights, laughter, alone in a foreign land for strangers, accompanied by only a round of bright moon and blooming fireworks, thinking of people in other places, at this moment is also looking at the moon and enjoying fireworks, it is more like the companionship of the soul.
At the end of the year, in winter, people far away from home, whether there is someone around to accompany them, whether they can have a simple greeting to each other, the meaning of companionship, the feeling of companionship, the sense of companionship, whether it is love, friendship and affection, can have their identity. (Text/Cloudy Mist)