With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
Then, if this is indeed the case, Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality and "gas lamp man" psychology will make him feel that Li Lianglei is mentally ill, and his marriage is living in fear and blackmail.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
Then, if this is indeed the case, Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality and "gas lamp man" psychology will make him feel that Li Lianglei is mentally ill, and his marriage is living in fear and blackmail.
The cause of this psychology may be what Wang Lihong said about Li Lianglei's madness on the day of marriage registration: If you don't marry me today, I will disappear, change my name, and the child in my belly you will never see for a lifetime, you don't want to find me, you will never find me. This sentence may take root in Wang Lihong's mind, and over time, he will think of many of Li Lianglei's words as blackmail and threats.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
Then, if this is indeed the case, Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality and "gas lamp man" psychology will make him feel that Li Lianglei is mentally ill, and his marriage is living in fear and blackmail.
The cause of this psychology may be what Wang Lihong said about Li Lianglei's madness on the day of marriage registration: If you don't marry me today, I will disappear, change my name, and the child in my belly you will never see for a lifetime, you don't want to find me, you will never find me. This sentence may take root in Wang Lihong's mind, and over time, he will think of many of Li Lianglei's words as blackmail and threats.
On the other hand, if Wang Lihong has psychological problems and cheating, then Li Lianglei, as a wife, will naturally not be happy in her married life, and even become nervous and doubt herself because of the "gas lamp effect".
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
Then, if this is indeed the case, Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality and "gas lamp man" psychology will make him feel that Li Lianglei is mentally ill, and his marriage is living in fear and blackmail.
The cause of this psychology may be what Wang Lihong said about Li Lianglei's madness on the day of marriage registration: If you don't marry me today, I will disappear, change my name, and the child in my belly you will never see for a lifetime, you don't want to find me, you will never find me. This sentence may take root in Wang Lihong's mind, and over time, he will think of many of Li Lianglei's words as blackmail and threats.
On the other hand, if Wang Lihong has psychological problems and cheating, then Li Lianglei, as a wife, will naturally not be happy in her married life, and even become nervous and doubt herself because of the "gas lamp effect".
Because psychological problems do not exist all the time, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei will still live normal days and have several children when they are normal. In this way, the biggest questions can be explained.
With Wang Lihong's own response, the dispute between him and his ex-wife Li Lianglei is gradually entering the deep water, and the details and truth of many things are estimated to slowly emerge.
To be honest, most of the public in this matter is inclined to believe Li Lianglei, of course, there are some people who are inclined to Wang Lihong, which is normal, because many things have not been finally clarified.
However, there has always been a question echoing in the author's mind, Li Lianglei said in the post that he suffered cold violence in Wang Lihong's home, and Wang Lihong and his father responded that Wang Lihong had been living in a very difficult marriage.
The question is, two people can't always lie, no matter who says, this eight-year marriage seems to be very unsuccessful, but what is the explanation for the fact that the two of them have three children in five years? Even if it is to create people, one is enough, and three is too much.
In the early morning of December 20, Li Lianglei responded to Wang Lihong's post on the night of the 19th, she once again broke the news about alimony, as well as about psychologists, which highlighted Wang Lihong's sexual addiction and narcissistic personality, it is estimated that this will also be the focus of media tracking, like the golf superstar Tagore Woods who suffers from the same problem.
However, the author noticed that there is an unusual phrase in li Lianglei's exposed psychiatrist document: gas lighting.
The word literally means "gas lamp", but in the field of psychologists, the phrase has another meaning: the gas lamp effect, and people with this kerosene lamp effect are called "gas lamp people".
That is to say, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong once went to see a psychologist, and the doctor thought that Wang Lihong was a "gas lamp person", and this judgment might be able to explain everything clearly.
First, what is a gas lamp person?
Gaslight man, the word comes from the 1944 American film Under the Gaslight, starring Ingrid Bergman.
The story told in this film is somewhat terrifying, the girl Paula's aunt was murdered, she inherited the inheritance but the psychological shadow has always existed. Later, she met the handsome pianist Anton, and the two fell in love and married, and later moved into Aunt Paula's house at Anton's suggestion.
In order to protect Paula, Anton let her stay at home every day, but Paula encountered a lot of strange things at home, there would be creepy sounds on the roof, the gas lamp in the room was bright and dim, and the maid's attitude was also very bad. Anton often uses various psychological hints to make Paula think that she has serious psychological problems.
In this environment, Paula's nerves begin to trance and are on the verge of collapse, and Anton tells the outside world that Paula is mentally ill.
A young detective discovers catty, he goes to Paula's house with the help of Paula's girlfriend to investigate, and finally finds that everything is caused by Anton, who is the murderer of Paula's aunt. In order to usurp Paula's property, he deliberately created some ghostly illusions to scare Paula, through psychological hints to cause Paula serious psychological problems, and he slandered Paula as mentally ill in front of everyone, and finally achieved the ulterior motive.
After this film, the psychological academic community used the "gas lamp effect" to describe Anton's behavior, that is, by distorting the real situation in the eyes of the victim, to achieve the purpose of psychological manipulation and brainwashing of the victim.
The person who uses the gas lamp effect to deal with the victim is called the "gas lamp person", and the behavior of this kind of person is simple: it is obviously the fault of the gas lamp person, after his brainwashing, it finally becomes the fault of the victim, and even the victim thinks so.
Second, the performance of gas lamp people in life
In life, the most common "gas lamp person" is actually some children, such as he broke the vase, when you question him, he does not admit that he broke it himself, and repeatedly emphasizes that you have wronged him, he is very sad for this, crying and making a lot of trouble, in the end you may be affected, begin to wonder if you are really wrong to blame the child, at this time he will let you apologize to him.
The end is that the next time something similar happens, you may even rule out the child's suspicions for the first time. Because you already have the subconscious existence of "can't wrongfully accuse him" in your heart, and the maker of this subconscious mind is the child, and the way it is made is to cry and make a big fuss at the same time.
Of course, the gas lamp effect of individual children will not have a great impact on life, but in life we will often encounter some "gas lamp people" and "gas lamp effect", such as the wife asking the husband, why didn't you buy the milk I let you buy? In fact, she did not tell her husband about it. When the husband denies it, the wife will get angry and quarrel, and at the same time give a previous example to prove that the husband's memory is indeed a problem, and then the husband will wonder if he really has a problem with the memory. Over time, there are so many such things, and in the eyes of the wife, the husband has become a person with a bad memory, and even the husband himself thinks so.
Of course, the roles of husband and wife are reversed, and similar phenomena also exist, and even in our work we often encounter such people and such things.
Third, the confession of the gas lamp person
Greg, a "gaslight man," once wrote an article about how he used the "gaslight effect" against his girlfriend Paula.
Greg and Paula's relationship is romantic but unstable due to Greg's frequent cheating, and Paula begins to suspect Greg of being unfaithful to her through clues on social media.
So, Greg began the first step of the "gaslight effect", first accusing Paula of being too addicted to mobile phones and social media in a joking tone, and then increasing the frequency of this accusation, especially when Paula was really addicted to mobile phones, over time, Paula also "knew" that she was too addicted to mobile phones and ignored her boyfriend Greg, and then reflected on whether she was too sensitive to Greg's social media information.
In the second step, Greg often says bad things about girls in front of Paula, including Paula's close friends, but also Greg's cheating lover, over time Paula has developed a sense of distrust of these girls, if someone says in front of her that Greg is cheating, she will not believe it.
In the end, Greg is relieved to be bold and infidel, even if he shows some horse feet, Paula will always think that he is too sensitive, and eventually, in this relationship, the victim becomes the person who always admits mistakes.
Fourth, Wang Lihong is a gas lamp person?
According to Li Lianglei's revelations, psychologists believe that Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality and sexual addiction, as well as a "gas lamp effect", if true, then all the doubts are easy to explain.
If Li Lianglei's revelations are correct and the psychologist's judgment is correct, then the truth of the matter may be this: Wang Lihong has a sexual addiction, so he will often cheat. In order to cover up his infidelity, he will use the "gas lamp effect" to influence Li Lianglei, so that Li Lianglei thinks that she has mental problems (five psychologists in five years), and at the same time, he will also spread the remarks that Li Lianglei has psychological problems (Wang Lihong's father thinks that Wang Lihong's marriage is very unfortunate)
At the same time, because Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, in his heart he will not think that there is anything wrong with him, just like the child who broke the vase above, he thinks that he has been wronged, so that out of trust in his children, Wang Lihong's father will say the sentence "Wang Lihong absolutely did not cheat."
Then, if this is indeed the case, Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality and "gas lamp man" psychology will make him feel that Li Lianglei is mentally ill, and his marriage is living in fear and blackmail.
The cause of this psychology may be what Wang Lihong said about Li Lianglei's madness on the day of marriage registration: If you don't marry me today, I will disappear, change my name, and the child in my belly you will never see for a lifetime, you don't want to find me, you will never find me. This sentence may take root in Wang Lihong's mind, and over time, he will think of many of Li Lianglei's words as blackmail and threats.
On the other hand, if Wang Lihong has psychological problems and cheating, then Li Lianglei, as a wife, will naturally not be happy in her married life, and even become nervous and doubt herself because of the "gas lamp effect".
Because psychological problems do not exist all the time, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei will still live normal days and have several children when they are normal. In this way, the biggest questions can be explained.
Wang Lihong's psychological problems? Will this be the final answer?