In the past two days, Wang Lihong's divorce incident is a big melon in the eyes of the masses.
Celebrity marriage and divorce is a common thing, related to the concept of life, related to character and morality.
To tell the truth, I am very sad for Li Lianglei.
Look at the material she broke: Wang Zhao prostitute, marital infidelity, dating... Don't give your wife money for home use, calculate everywhere... How could a person who was not forced to the extreme and suffered great grievances make these family privacy public!
Li Lianglei herself, born on April 14, 1986, is a graduate student in Colombia. He worked for JPMorgan Chase & Co. for nearly four years, from July 2008 to June 2012, initially as a business analyst for treasury and securities services, and then in the areas of division strategy, product development and operational risk management. Two years later, he was promoted to assistant vice president of JPMorgan Chase's consulting services department, in charge of strategic sales strategy and treasury bond management consulting for large corporate rooms, and it was not easy to achieve such results in 2 years.
It is this excellent woman, for love, signed an unequal prenuptial agreement, willingly became a housewife, gave birth to 3 children in 8 years, single-mindedly pounced on the family and children, endured the language insults of the other family and the cold violence of men, and sacrificed her youth and career. Even so, she still didn't get the understanding, respect, and love she deserved, and she didn't get the love of men.
To be honest, it really hurts.
A Kochi woman, 8 years, all sunk costs.
If in these 8 years, there is no marriage, no need to look at the man's face, no need to be a fertility machine for men to pass on the generations, do not have to endure the exploitation and calculation of the man's family, these 8 years, used to pursue a career, what kind of scene will it be?
In the traditional concept of our country, most of the family concept is still the male lord and the female owner, the man is responsible for making money to support the family, and the woman is responsible for giving birth to the baby.
Although there is nothing wrong with this, the inferiority of some men has led to the fact that even if a woman is excellent, in his eyes, she is still just a fertility machine. He didn't know to understand, to respect his wife, not to take on family responsibilities.
Moreover, in today's society, this phenomenon is actually very much, including some women, in marriage, no matter how much they pay, they can't see their own value, everywhere they are treated as outsiders by men, everywhere they are guarded against and calculated by men, even if they are very good women in the workplace, they can't escape such a fate. The traditional concept of Chinese women, their sense of responsibility to the family and their children, makes them sacrifice a lot, but in the end, they get nothing.
Therefore, more and more women are now reluctant to enter marriage again.
They see from too many examples that in marriage, men are the biggest beneficiaries, and many women, on the one hand, have to work hard in the workplace like men, on the other hand, back home, as well as chores, children and other trivial matters.
If the in-laws come to help bring down the children, it is a huge benefit to the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law must be grateful to Dade, always remember their kindness and know how to repay; if they do not bring children, it is because they have no obligation, the children are born to the daughter-in-law, and naturally the daughter-in-law must be brought by the daughter-in-law. As for filial piety to the old man, that is not a matter of course.
Rich men, have to beware of women through marriage to divide their property, take advantage of them, so come to a prenuptial property agreement; give birth to children, men can support children, but if women rely on men to raise it is not right, you have hands and feet, why not make your own money to spend? As for the original "I raised you", it became "I raised you".
Men without money need women to work and alleviate economic pressure, and they pay more attention to economic value, in addition to women's reproductive value, there is also economic value.
That being the case, what else would a woman want to do in marriage? Isn't it good to go to work, support yourself, don't have to look at anyone's face, and be free?
Nowadays, many women can fight, kill wooden horses, drive, make money, and buy their own houses, if marriage is just a vain effort, please ask, what does she want to marry?
Don't blame the current record low marriage rate and the new high divorce rate.
And don't talk to me about feelings.
Do you see which article in the marriage law protects feelings? It's all about protecting property, especially men's property.
A woman's premarital property is rare to preserve, such as a house, the man asked to get married and sold it, which became the joint property of the husband and wife, but no man sold the premarital house and turned the money into the joint property of the husband and wife.
For example, the bride price, in the end, the woman brought it to the in-laws' house and became the common property of the husband and wife.
Never, men have calculated that there is no fiercest, only more fierce.
Squeeze the value of women to the ground, and finally come the sentence, these are mine, you have to give me a clean house!