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In the world of feelings, loving someone should be measured, but if there is no boundary, there is no way to maintain it.
A good relationship is based on mutual respect, and if a person cannot respect each other, such love is meaningless.
It is okay to love someone, but you can't blindly indulge, you think it is inclusive, but you don't know that it will only make the other party worse.
At any time, love a person or have principles, do not blindly endure, unconditional love of a person, will only make yourself deeper and deeper.
Therefore, if you love someone again, don't put up with this behavior, otherwise it will only make the other party have no fear.
Endure the betrayal of the other side
Maybe for some people, it is difficult to get a relationship, the other party accepts her, so it is extremely cherished, and many things can be endured.
As everyone knows, no temperance will only make the other party more and more fearless, and will not put you in the eyes at all.
There is nothing wrong with loving someone, but blindly lowering your self-worth will only make the other party look down on you and make you even less respectful.
Everyone should have their own principles and bottom lines, at least emotional principles, otherwise individuals can hurt you.
Any relationship, if it is betrayal and disloyalty, should stop the loss and learn to let go.
In a relationship, a person can do betrayal, obviously you are not so important to him at all, he does not love you so much.
A person who does not love you, why should you cling to it and not let go, the way you live and die and do not let go is actually very ugly, and you are only touched by yourself.
Therefore, when a person is betrayed, no matter how much love is not to endure, the best way to stop the loss in time is the best way.
Endure the other person's unreasonable teasing
Feelings should be measured, and loving a person can be tolerated, but not indulged. The result of giving too much to one person is to make the other person get used to it, or even take it for granted.
No matter when, there should still be basic respect, and we must be sincere with each other in order to go on.
If the other party only knows to make unreasonable trouble, according to their own wishes, and can't move to break up, you may choose to coax each other because of love for a while.
But in the long run, the other party will feel that there is no problem in doing so, and you will not really be serious with her, and she will use this as a weapon to threaten your feelings, and you will be completely trapped.
Feelings should not be so fearless, but cherish each other, once excessive, they are still too late.
It is okay to love someone, but there must be a degree, so that the feelings can go on better. Blindly enduring, there will be no good results, and even the best feelings will be consumed.
Endure the other person's disrespect
In real life, there will be such a type of person, in order to keep the other party can endure anything, and even if the other party does any extreme behavior, you can also wronged yourself.
When a person has this behavior, the feelings have deteriorated. A good relationship should be mutually respectful and cherished, not maintained by one person.
A person can disrespect you, disrespect your family, and trample on your sincerity unscrupulously, and such a person is not worth paying no matter how good he is.
Your love should be given to someone who deserves it, so that it is meaningful, and a person who does not know how to respect others is useless no matter how good it is.
The essence of human beings is very important, you choose a person is to choose a life, maybe you will temporarily tolerate and endure because of love, but in the long run it will be a problem.
Therefore, love must know how to establish a harmonious relationship, and know how to respect each other and the people and things around each other. You don't know how to be kind to his family, and naturally the other party will not be true to you.
summary:
Feelings are something that you may not be able to control a lot of times.
But to love someone again, there should also be a degree, and it should be based on a harmonious mutual foundation.
Respect each other, understand each other's efforts, do not hurt each other, consume each other's treasure, so that two people can go better.