Text/Xiaohe
There's a book called "Men from Mars and Women from Venus," which tells the many differences that exist between men and women.
For a relationship, the way men and women think and act are different.
Men mostly have thick lines and logic, and rarely appreciate women's careful thinking.
For example, a woman says "hates you" on her lips, but in her heart she "likes you"; she obviously wants to "keep", but what comes out of her mouth is "break up".
If a man is not careful, he will step on the "thunder" in the woman's heart, and the result may be uninteresting, or the misunderstanding will deepen, and even miss the good relationship.
Smart men have long noticed that women can't let go of you in their hearts, and there are often some special actions.
Anything that is relevant to you, she did not discard
In the face of the end of a relationship, the woman who is delicate and sensitive and has delivered her affection is the most difficult to let go of her heart.
Or touching the scene, or seeing things and thinking about people, she always can't help but look for the bits and pieces of the two people together in the memory.
A photo, a small painting, a pair of clay dolls pinched by two people together, anything that can witness that you have spent a good time together, she is reluctant to throw it away, as a treasure, carefully preserved.
This scene is like the MV "Can't Put Down" performed by the well-known singer Yu Kewei:
The heroine puts on and takes off her ex-boyfriend's clothes and shoes again and again, and puts on the watch he once used, as if from the smell or smell of these objects, she can retain even a little memory of love that has faded away.
Although she is no longer in touch, she has not cleared your mobile phone number, and her mobile phone number has never been changed, so that in case of emergency in the future, they can dial each other as soon as possible.
She neither deleted you, blocked you, nor set permissions on you. She always silently pays attention to your every dynamic in the circle of friends, and also displays her joys and sorrows in front of you through the circle of friends without reservation.
Not only that, she will come to the cinema and café where you have spent countless nights together on a lonely weekend, silently queuing up alone, constantly repeating the roller coaster and Internet celebrity "shouting spring" you have played together.
She remembers every dish you love to eat, remembers all your likes and dislikes, and never forgets to wish you well and pray for peace on your birthday.
Also, from eating to resting, from personal hobbies to the little habits of life you developed when you were together, everything that concerned you, she stayed the same, and did not make any changes.
Only because she can't let go of you, she will always leave you with the unique position in her heart.
Whatever you care about, she hasn't forgotten
Women who have you in their hearts will care about you in particular. Care about everything you say, care about her image and weight in your heart, care about the way you want her to be, and be willing to make a change for you.
No matter what reason she had quarreled or broken up, and no matter how embarrassed the other party was by the words she had made at the time, she first reflected on herself when she was calm. Although she refused to admit it afterwards because of her face, in her heart she already regretted it.
Because you like natural straight hair, despite the handsome hairdresser's repeated and seductive efforts, she never changed her mind and tried the Morgan perm and hair dye tide that her sisters were enthusiastic about.
Because you are allergic to pollen, her living room and balcony at home are still only lined with non-flowering green plants such as green lotus, hanging orchid and duck foot wood.
Knowing that you have always been filial, she will always make an excuse every three or five minutes, such as just stopping by or borrowing something to visit your parents and help your family. If she can learn something about you or anything about you through them, she will be satisfied and overjoyed.
Knowing that you value your friends, she has always regarded your friends as her friends, regarded your buddies as her brothers, and could not break contact or get together when there was nothing wrong, all in order to sweep your news from their words, fantasizing about "accidentally" touching you.
And whenever your family or friends count your various things in front of her, she will not hesitate to help you speak and do her best to maintain your status and image.
It's no surprise that a woman who does all this with you seems natural. After all, a good woman is, first of all, a good wife and daughter-in-law.
But after the breakup, it should be two different. For the rest of their lives, they should not have been entangled with each other.
It is only because she can't let go of you that she will be willing to follow you and please you, and will not hesitate to wronged herself, even if she is humble to the dust.
Whatever you do, she will silently support you
A woman loves you in her bones and can't let go of you in her heart, no matter where you are or what you do, she will be concerned about her heart and tied in her arms. As Zhang Ailing said, "When you hear something, you obviously have nothing to do with it, and you will also turn a few corners in your heart to think of you."
In the circle of friends to see you make new friends, despite the loss, jealousy and even sadness, she will still settle her emotions, cheer up, force a smile, send a beating "red heart", silently bless you in the heart.
If she finds that you are sick or in a bad mood, she will come to you regardless of her previous suspicions, cook your favorite meal, chat with you to relieve your boredom, and find ways to make you happy and make you laugh.
When you encounter difficulties in life, she will not say a word, do not want to think, empty her wallet, take out all her savings, and spare no effort to help you.
When your career encounters bottlenecks and falls into a trough, she will choose to trust you unconditionally, encourage you, accompany you through difficulties, and bring you the courage to move forward.
Knowing that you have a good face, she will definitely not run over to stimulate you, but is cautious, willing to hide behind the scenes, think what you think, anxious you, through various methods and channels, quietly and do their best to support you.
And when you are resurrected with blood, life and work have turned around and improved, everything is safe and smooth, and her face is full of pride, confidence and happiness like you.
Because she can't let go of you, she will care about your body, take care of your emotions, always involuntarily put your things first, never care or care how much time and energy she has put into you.
Only because she can't let go of you, she will rejoice for you and worry about you, and always put you in her life plan.
In an intimate relationship, it is not difficult for a man to understand a woman's careful thinking.
She has not discarded anything that is relevant to you; she has not forgotten anything you care about; she will silently support you no matter what you do.
When a woman can't let go of a man, the performance that will only occur cannot be hidden at all.
If you meet such an infatuated woman, it just so happens that your heart can't let go of her, don't hesitate any longer, quickly release the previous suspicions, and get back to good.
Intimate lovers must experience something in order to grow together.
I believe that on the road of the future of life, you will be more dependent on each other, without fear of wind and rain, and your steps will be more firm.
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