I don't know since when, Lin Huiyin's emotional rhyme and beautiful appearance have become the most enthusiastic points of Lin Huiyin researchers on the Internet, attacking her for not being loyal enough emotionally and being a green tea person. This is a very strange phenomenon, thinking about it, the author suddenly found that for Chinese netizens, a beautiful and talented woman, they have never tolerated her flawlessness, must find something to pull her off the altar to be happy.
For women, in the social environment, there is no way to be more aggressive than accusing her of watery Yanghua and half-heartedness, and it can turn her from white to black. Where this mentality came from is still unclear, but Lin Huiyin does have enough controversy around her, people who like her think she is beautiful and talented, and people who hate her think that she is unvirtuous, proud and vain, living in the pink world made for her by men.
In the content that the author saw, basically no one said that Lin Hui was "talentless", saying that she was not a beautiful woman, and her emotional life was a mess and unruly. The real Lin Huiyin should feel stoic when he heard this, and at that time, Jin Yuelin quipped that Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng, who always climbed up and down to inspect ancient buildings, said: "Liang Shang Gentleman, Lin Xia Beauty." ”
Lin Huiyin just smiled faintly and didn't think anything of it: "What beauty is not beautiful, as if a woman has nothing else to do except beauty, I have a lot of things to do." ”
Xiao Qian's wife Wen Jieruo, Lin Huiyin's protégé Zhu Zixuan and others have said that Lin Huiyin's beauty does not lie in appearance but in that kind of wisdom- temperament, which is why Lin Huiyin, who does not think that she is a beautiful woman, has won countless admirations.
The Lin family was full of loyal martyrs, Lin Huiyin's two uncles died in the uprising, and his younger brother Lin Heng threw himself into the War of Resistance and was shot down by Japanese fighters, and he was only 25 years old when he was martyred. This family style profoundly affected Lin Huiyin's personality, when the Japanese ridiculed China for not having modern architectural science, Lin Huiyin disregarded his physical weakness and traveled throughout most of China, inspecting the remains of various ancient buildings and preserving precious materials;
On that day, when Kou's iron hooves were approaching, Lin Huiyin, her husband and children hurried south to take refuge, and in the middle of the rush, the child innocently asked her: "Mother, what should I do when the Japanese army comes?" Lin Huiyin told the child: The Yangtze River is in front of our house!
Liang Sicheng is Lin Huiyin's husband, influenced by Lin Huiyin chose architecture, when others were puzzled by Lin Huiyin's dedication to ancient architecture research by a weak woman, Lin Huiyin explained: "This kind of work is rarely paid attention to in China, we only wait for the detailed surveying and mapping and report to be printed, scare them, save them from thinking that No one in their eyes thinks that China is good to bully." ”
It is no wonder that Lin Huiyin believes that she is not a beautiful woman, she has higher ideals and pursuits in her heart, and whether her appearance is beautiful or not is like a floating cloud to her. In fact, the study of Lin Huiyin's emotions and appearance originated from Lin Hui's wife Lin Su, who was remarried by Liang Sicheng after Lin Hui's death from illness in 1955. Lin Su once wrote a book "Liang Sicheng Lin Huiyin and Me", and gave a lot of interviews, talking about many details of Lin Huiyin -
For example, Liang Sicheng has no confidence in Lin Huiyin's choice of himself, and asks "Why me" on the wedding night;
For example, Lin Huiyin found himself in love with Jin Yuelin, confessed to Liang Sicheng, and asked him what he should do;
Another example is "Lin Huiyin is too thin, really not a beauty."
In addition to this, Lin Su also said that when Liang Sicheng evaluated his first wife, Lin Huiyin, he showed a lot of pressure: "It is not easy to be her husband. There is a Chinese saying that an article is good for oneself, and one's wife is good for others. But for me, the wife is my own good, the article is the wife's good... I don't deny that being with Lin Huiyin is sometimes very tiring, her mind is too active, and you must be as agile as her to be with her, otherwise you can't keep up with her. ”
In contrast, after remarrying Lin Su, Liang Sicheng suffered a lot, and it was Lin Su who single-mindedly stayed by his side and took care of him, giving Liang Sicheng a relatively peaceful and stable old age. She is not as talented as Lin Huiyin, but she made Liang Sicheng in her later years have an iron heart to marry, perhaps Liang Sicheng looked up to his wife for too long, and he also needed someone to worship him.
Of course, the deceased is dead, and Lin Hui is unknown whether he has made Liang Sicheng so uncomfortable. But I think that the controversy surrounding a woman should not always stay on the appearance and "whether to check".