#2021生机大会 #
时代更迭，骗局更新，如今网络诈骗遍地开花、让人防不胜防；我也是深受其害，今年六月被骗了40万负债累累，庆幸的是我从小都是一个积极乐观的人，不至于像大多数受害者一样心态崩溃。
As one of the victims, I can best understand the psychological pressure and heavy burden after being deceived, and I can better understand why I was deceived. Whether we are deceived or bystanders, after carefully considering the experience of being deceived, we will find that although the whole process is carefully planned and full of loopholes, it is still caught in a deep trap.
Are we too stupid? Greed? Too low on knowledge? Too simple? Too confident or? It was only at that time that we were already confused, and step by step fell into the trap tailored for us by the liars, and people seized on the weaknesses of human nature, so that they were deeply mired in the quagmire without knowing it. For me, my sense of anti-deception is too poor, I trust each other too much, I mistakenly think that human nature is good, and I did not expect that the fraud groups in the world are rampant.
Back to the point, how to get out of the shadow of online fraud, I have the same experience, and share my experience with the friends who have the same disease.
要走出被网络诈骗的阴影，关键取决于你的心态，你的状态和你的执行力‼️
Your mentality is your best feng shui, your mentality is better, life is full of sunshine, and all problems will be solved.
In this world, there are no obstacles or difficulties that cannot be overcome, only the mentality of not being able to pass; if the mentality is good, there will be fewer difficulties.
When you find yourself cheated, the money basically can't come back, and even most of it is borrowed. Is it an instant of endless remorse, self-blame, and despair? And this psychology will appear in your mind at any time?
Is it that there is no food and sleepless nights, no state at work, no passion in life, and feeling that hope has been lost for everything? How I wish nothing had happened, and how good would it be if I hadn't trusted the liars?
Unfortunately, all this has happened, it has become a fact that cannot be changed, what to do is not to regret the beginning, because no amount of chagrin and pain will help, it will only make yourself more and more painful, you can only make yourself worse and worse, you can't do anything well, and you will let the people around you worry about you, which will only make "the relatives hurt the enemy fast", otherwise, there is no benefit to yourself!
因此，你要做的就是接受事实，面对现实；无法改变已发生的结果，但可以努力改变未来的结果。 Know that there are people in the world who are harder than you when you feel it's tough, like when you complain that your shoes don't fit, some people never wear shoes because they don't have feet.
Although we have been deceived, it is a very painful thing, but compared to people who are gone due to illness or accidents, we are still very lucky, at least we are healthy to live with our families, the simplest happiness in the world, is to live together safely and healthily!
Therefore, the first step to get out of the shadow of online fraud is to reconcile with yourself, stabilize your emotions, and don't heal yourself and collapse sometimes; don't blindly complain and regret yourself, regret the past is better than to fight for the future! !️
The key to getting out of the shadow of being scammed depends on whether you are willing to come out, because we can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep; every day we can't solve any problems, we just continue to consume our own energy.
Otherwise, when you feel that you are very bad and can't think straight, you can go to the hospital to feel it, where it is the beginning of life, the rebirth of life, and the end of life. When you see patients in the intensive care unit, everything should be relieved; life is a small matter except for life, old age, illness and death, and all other problems can be solved.
Therefore, the second thing to do now is to try to adjust your mentality, let yourself learn to let go, and get back on the track of life. Take the child with the child, go to work when you should go to work, do whatever you want!
You know, happiness is never about having much, but about the state of mind. Laughter and loss will make the sea and the sky wide; only when there is a mirror in the heart will spring and blossom. What kind of mentality there is, what kind of life there is; life will not fail a positive and optimistic person.
Since being deceived is a foregone conclusion, why not try to let yourself go of this endless regret? Is it because you have been deceived to keep being depressed? Does that solve the problem? Are you willing to be crushed by scammers? 难道你不想证明自己，不想让自己、父母孩子过上更好的生活吗？
Action is the beginning of success, waiting is the source of failure! Instead of being passive and sluggish, it is better to face it positively and get up from wherever you fall! Give yourself a chance, set yourself a new goal, and promise yourself a whole new future. Take this disaster as a turning point, force yourself to work hard; life gives you pressure, you return it to miracles.
Therefore, in order to get out of the shadow of online fraud, in addition to adjusting the mentality and stabilizing the mood, it is also necessary to set new goals and take action in the direction of the goal every day. Only by taking action and filling yourself up every day will your head not think much; only by really taking action and doing things with all your might, can you return to your usual happy life as soon as possible!
Make a wish: I hope that you who have been scammed by the Internet will get out of the haze as soon as possible and regain the hope of life; I hope that one day you will be able to solve the case and catch the scammers; I hope that everyone will learn more anti-fraud knowledge and enhance the awareness of anti-deception!