Can you accept your child as a nanny after returning from studying abroad?
Recently brushed up on such a girl. After the 90s, he studied abroad for a year, and after returning to China, he mistakenly entered the housekeeping industry and became a live-in nanny.
Her daily job is to take care of the children, give the children's daily life, take the children to interest classes, and also help the children with homework and teach the children to play the piano.
In one of her earlier videos, she said that she deleted the two popular home economics videos, because her mother brushed the video, scolded herself, and thought that she had read so many books but worked as a nanny for others, which was very humiliating, and even deleted her Own WeChat.
In this regard, she expressed great helplessness and hoped to get the understanding of her family.
I ask, if it is you, can you accept the child who has been studying hard for 12 years to be a babysitter and serve others?
As a parent, how can I not figure out how to give up the child who has worked hard, instead of sitting in the office of a clean and bright office building, but has become someone else's nanny, reading so many books, what is the picture?
After watching all the videos of this girl's live-in nanny, I like her very much. She will share her three meals very seriously, share the beautifully decorated small room, share the daily life of learning with the baby playing the piano, and so on.
In her video, she shows a girl with a positive attitude towards life, a happy job, and a very clear plan.
A good salary every month, a good job in a big city, a good working environment, no intrigue, and a certain degree of freedom, frankly, this kind of work is really good.
But why is it so difficult for parents to accept it?
As parents, we all hope that our children will be able to get ahead in the future and get better and better. You can even jump through the dragon gate and step into a higher class. But when a child's choice is different from that of the parents, or even downward choices, it is difficult for parents to accept.
Although we say that the industry does not distinguish between high and low, but in our "stereotype", the nanny is to serve people, and the palm pearl placed on the palm of the hand runs to serve others, and the psychology must not be accepted.
There is also the problem of face, your child is a white-collar worker, his child is a civil servant, and my child is doing "low-level" work.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is mainly the "desire to control" of parents!
It is difficult for us to admit the independence of the child, thinking that the child does not listen to himself, and the path he chooses according to his own ideas must be wrong;
It is difficult for us to have complete respect for our children, and we are full of doubts and distrust of children
The child is like a kite, which direction it can fly and how high it can fly is always determined by the thread in the parents' hands. As soon as the child deviates from the direction, he must be immediately dragged back.
In fact, there is not only one way to go in life.
Director Zhang Tongdao said: "Every child's nature is different, they should have different ways of becoming a material and growing up. Education is not a factory casting, and there is no universal standard production model. ”
Compared with many young people who nibble on the old, show off their wealth and are not down-to-earth, this post-90s little girl is actually very good, she supports herself and eats with her ability.
Compared with the peers who are 996 every day, staying up late and bald, and suffering from cervical spondylosis, this post-90s little girl is actually very smart, relaxed environment, simple interpersonal relationships, so that she can make money, not too hard.
Instead of grabbing the head like everyone else, she took a different track and embarked on a completely opposite path, where she could still play to her strengths, and she earned every penny through her own efforts.
She also has dreams about life, and has her own plans for her career and future.
She still insists on learning, constantly improving herself, and becoming a better version of herself.
In fact, there are many choices and many paths in life.
Gu Huijing, a post-00s girl, originally chose the auto repair major, which made her family very incomprehensible, but under her own hard work, she won the first prize in the auto repair competition.
Dong Huaili, a post-90s boy, is a weaving master, whose exquisite craftsmanship has given him a stable customer base, and in 2016, he bought a house in Hangzhou.
Guangxi Yulin, 10-year-old boy Luo Wenyuan began to learn to repair cars with his father at the age of 5, as long as he has time, he will go to his uncle's shop to help, he said that the skills are not pressurized, he likes this more, the little boy not only repairs the car, but also the top five in the class.
The more society develops, the more it should be broken stereotypes, the more it should broaden its thinking and open its horizons to choice.
Especially in 2021, the sunrise industry in the eyes of many people has become a sunset industry overnight. No profession can be done safely for a lifetime. The most important thing is whether children can find what they like, are interested in, and can truly realize their self-worth, and whether they can exert their unlimited potential to become a better self.
As long as he works hard and works hard, he can emit his own unique light no matter where he is.
If it were you, would you be able to accept your child as a babysitter for someone else? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.