Women are prone to disadvantage in relationships and marital relationships, not because women are inherently weak and deceitful, but because you are not avoiding the risks in the relationship in the first place.
Here are a few red flags in intimate relationships that you must be wary of!
1. Strong desire to control
Now many men are macho, this kind of personality of boys will make people feel safe, at first glance even the type of domineering president, so that girls have a feeling of dependence!
But what is the danger of this intimacy? That is the macho boys are more controlling!!
If you are just a simple domineering president who is good to his wife, it is okay, but if the husband always controls his wife and does something to the husband's nod of approval, this time you have to think carefully, which is a very common red flag in the marriage relationship.
2) Take the wife's sacrifice for granted
Women are most taboo to give to men wholeheartedly!!! This is my advice to women.
Don't take love as all, thinking that if you give everything that is good for him, you can exchange it for his good for you.
For the sake of the family, many women have sacrificed their careers and time, and things large and small need to be solved by women.
But this is a super dangerous sign in love and marriage relationships!!
When your husband is used to your goodness and feels that it is all a matter of course, he will gradually fall out of love with you and will not be good enough.
Women, believe me, want to be happy in marriage, is to teach men to be good to you.
The relationship between the sexes should be at least mutual, do not pay unilaterally, and finally stupid tears, regret can not reach...
3, easy to get angry
It is said that to see whether a person is worth entrusting for life, not to see how good he is to you, but to observe how bad his temper is when he argues with you!
When women marry, they are most afraid of marrying men who are grumpy and easy to get angry.
Irritability is a major manifestation of men's tendency to have domestic violence.
If a man develops such violent tendencies, women have to think about whether there is value in the existence of their marriage with him.
Don't think that love can encompass everything about him! After all, a life of trembling is not a long-term solution.
The above 3 kinds of intimacy in the danger signal, women must not step on the pit!