Wen | Ink Blue Snow (Rich Book Author)
The world is inherently unfair
Yesterday, when I was chatting with my classmates, I learned that her unit was very poorly treated, and she often traveled on business, and the boss promised to give her a promotion and salary increase, but after waiting for more than half a year, there was still no expression.
I couldn't help but ask her, "Why don't you quit your job?" ”
She said:
"After changing jobs, I have to start all over again, I have been working for five years, I was originally going to a leadership position, but the relatives of the leader also took a fancy to this position."
"How helpless! Work overtime to mix up to feed yourself, and others can easily replace you with a word. ”
Everyone around us may experience some unfair things or see some unfair phenomena.
Just like my friends, I worked hard for a few years, and when I was talking about merit, the promotion and salary increase were someone else. I feel that no matter how hard I try, I can't change the unfair status quo.
Someone once asked: What moment will suddenly realize that you have grown up?
One of the most praised replies: "I find that no matter how hard I try, there are still some things that people can't do, but I know that I can't do anything, I will still try my best to fight." ”
Heard a quote:
"You can have a bad experience, but you can't indulge yourself in a bad life, fate is only responsible for shuffling, and it is always us who play the cards." 」
Indeed, from the time we are born, we are faced with all kinds of unfair "treatment": appearance, height, circumstances, ability, and so on.
The gap between the winners and the losers often lies in the fact that the achievers never complain.
Instead of living like a victim, rushing to tell everyone about their misfortunes, complaining about the high starting point of others, and complaining that the rules are not good for themselves, it is better to spend energy on cultivating themselves.
In this world, the only fair thing is time.
Everyone has twenty-four hours a day, others can't get up in the morning, you can get up early; others play games after work, brush vibrato, you squeeze out time to read;
When others wake up naturally on the weekend, you get up and do part-time work; when you are not recognized, work quietly!
Even if the result is not necessarily what you expect, or if you do your best, you may not be absolutely fair, but don't forget that every effort you put in is a multiplier of ability, and it is all about helping you filter out weak-willed competitors.
If you try, you may succeed, but if you don't try, you don't even have a chance to get ahead.
In an unfair world, we should strive for fair opportunities for ourselves
Some time ago, there was a very popular movie "Five Teenagers Who Splashed Water".
Man Zhang Wei is an ordinary big boy: ordinary looks, ordinary grades, and in the eyes of the elders, he is a useless "poor student".
By chance, I entered the school's synchronized swimming team.
Without the blessing of talent, he faced the doubts of the outside world, the incomprehension of his parents, and finally learned to change, and his partners ushered in the counterattack of youth.
At the end of the movie, the male protagonist did not appear in the life of "opening and hanging", and the desperate training was only exchanged for the "raid performance" at the end of a game.
Zhang Wei's "ordinary" lies in the fact that no matter how hard he tries, he may not meet the standards of others, even if he works overtime every time he practices backflips, he will still be exchanged for being strong and unsatisfactory again and again.
But what does it matter, through your own sweat and hard work to complete a thing, it is enough to make yourself different, impressive.
I like the male protagonist's last monologue in the film:
"Actually, the sun wasn't so bright that day, and I didn't turn over to thirty-seven and a half weeks. So what? It's not just earth-shattering that's called brilliant.
We just want to have a little more courage, a little more faith, a little more room for our own imagination, so as to decide what kind of adults we will eventually become. ”
The writer @ Lao Yang's Owl once said in a book:
"A person's life is the process of using all his efforts to slowly equalize this already sloping world."
Oh, yes! It is true that there will be many "injustices" in life, but "unfairness" is never a reason to give up efforts. Because of this, we should fight for a fair opportunity for ourselves.
When you jump out of the shackles of inferiority, when your ability gradually improves, are you still afraid of not ushering in the opportunity to usher in the highlight of life?
It is the fish, staying in the water will only be drowned, only by swimming forward, will see hope.
Ordinary people like you and me can shine because we can only be defined by ourselves.
Even if it is mediocre, it can shine brightly
Last year, one of my brothers failed in the graduate school.
On the day the results came out, he felt that the sky was about to fall, he felt that he was a failure, full of anxiety about the future, and once had insomnia.
Later, after adjusting his state, he quickly found a job that he liked and suited himself, and began a new journey in his life.
My brother told me that at first, I felt that all the previous efforts had become worthless, and I felt that I was particularly useless, but I slowly found that the persistence and self-discipline I had cultivated during the examination and research period still made me grow.
The writer Bi Shumin once said: "Trees must not grow too fast." One year to be born as firewood, three years and five years to be born as a table and chair, ten years and a hundred years to become a beam. ”
The same is true of life, the more you invest, the more you give back.
I know a security guard in the neighborhood.
His work, in the eyes of most people, is relatively idle, but he belongs to the "special case", others are lazy to cook drama, he gives the residents a courier, and many residents' license plate numbers can be remembered.
I heard that it was later poached by an owner, and the salary was doubled.
We only know lotus law, but we don't know a staggering set of data: as long as you stick to it a little bit, you can instantly exceed 80% of the people.
Many people are so vulnerable that they can't turn the talent at all, because you obviously don't work hard enough, and you often talk about the so-called "injustice".
The premise of your demand for "fairness" is that you have to pay as "fairly" as others, even if you are mediocre, as long as you work hard, there is no suspense in winning or losing, even if it is a small step, it can also shine brightly.
Is there such a person around you: three minutes of enthusiasm, show-style tossing, reading a thousand chicken soup texts, shouting inspirational slogans, and finally touching others, but never getting the spring water you want.
Many things, in fact, are very simple, success does not require too much skill, nor does it need to be talented, and the effect of doing more than once will be done more.
Time will test all the efforts, even if the present can not give you the return you want, but you will find that only the harder you work, the luckier you can be.
As Li Shutong mentioned in the "Evening Qing Collection": "Everything that is remembered will have an echo." ”
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