At the age of 28, the family's marriage urging became more and more urgent. The encounter with Liu Neng occurred under such a marriage urging situation.
Liu Neng is not too tall, and I did not want him. What girl wouldn't want to marry a tall, burly man? But Liu can look quite good, plus the family has a car and a house, relatives and friends have advised me, single is also single, why not try? What if it suits?
From this, we started a long-distance relationship.
From time to time, Liu can buy some gifts from online for me. Every three months, I will take a leave of absence to come back and stay with me for a few days. Feelings are slowly built up in these gifts and companionship.
When we met for more than half a year, under the double urging of his family and my family, we got married.
After getting married, he still maintained the rhythm of taking a week off for three months to accompany me.
Distance produces beauty.
We were thousands of miles apart, and we all had a great time in the week he came back from leave...
Until I was pregnant...
Thinking about the cost of milk powder and diapers in the future will be a lot of pressure.
Liu Neng proposed to me that he wanted to save a sum of money outside, and when the child was born, we would not be so nervous...
His ideas coincided with mine, and we soon came to an agreement.
Although on the day of the maternity check-up, watching other people's husbands accompany me before and after, I will have a little envy, but thinking that the future days will be easier, I gritted my teeth and endured.
After giving birth, both people become very busy, and the topic of communication is only the child.
In order to take better care of the children, at his repeated insistence, I resigned. Since then, we have started the standard "male outside, female inside" model.
As the child grew up slowly, the mother-in-law took the initiative to take over the task of taking the child.
Once people are idle, their hearts are eager for more attention.
I always talk to my husband from time to time, but compared to my leisure, my husband who is struggling in his career is unusually busy. I often ignore my messages.
Looking at the dialog box where I sent several messages without replying, my heart slowly overflowed with dissatisfaction.
Since you don't have time to come back to me, then I'll talk to someone else...
There was a feature on the software called "People Nearby", and I tried to click it out.
There are really a lot of people inside, and they have everything to do...
I took the initiative to add a few people to chat, but when I replied, they all asked me what I needed?
I carefully looked at people's self-introductions, and several of them were in business...
It was in the process of trying to play in this way that I met Wu Neng.
I don't know exactly what he does, but it feels like he's idle.
On the third day of acquaintance, I asked Wu Neng, "Why do you spend so much time, and the information about me is almost always seconds back..."
He smiled and said softly, "For those who care, time is naturally there..."
When I said this, I actually had a sour feeling in my heart.
Now for Liu Neng's information, I also did the second back, because I think that when he returns to me, maybe he has time at that time, so I think about the second back, in exchange for him can talk with me for a while, but often, after I return seconds, there is no following...
Sometimes I have complained to Liu Neng, but he said helplessly: he has to be busy with work, sometimes it is between going to the toilet, looking at the mobile phone, replying to me a message, after replying, the mobile phone is in the pocket...
I knew he was busy at work, so I wanted to be as considerate as possible.
Therefore, I changed my enthusiasm for Liu Neng to Wu Neng's side.
I want to eat bowl noodles, what noodles? Inside your heart.
"Where are you from?" "Guangxi" "No, you are my sweetheart."
Can you teach me to make dumplings? I'm a bit stupid, it's easy to show stuffing in anything, and I like you too
Can you do me a favor? What's the rush? Help get in touch with me quickly!
I was going to walk the rivers and lakes, but when I met you, I thought I could stop for a while.
Speaking of my mate selection criteria, it is only one word, you.
Who are you? Why see you? My heart felt like I had eaten honey.
"Can I call you?" That way I can put you to heart. ”
"I like a little sister." "Then she must be beautiful." "You're too narcissistic."
……
Those earthy love words, coming out of Wu Neng's mouth, are simply undesirable...
Anytime and anywhere I look for Wu can chat, can get his timely reply. He even joked with me from time to time to make me happy, she always took good care of my mood, and he always converted my bad emotions into happiness in time.
Slowly I think this is also very good, on the one hand, Liu can accompany me, on the other hand, Wu can take care of my emotions.
Life is truly enjoyable.
So when Wu Neng proposed to open a house, I even felt that I was going to open a house with my husband.
Life goes on like this, Liu can provide me with material needs, Wu can provide me with emotional needs.
I thought life could go on like this.
Until that day, Liu Neng blocked the door of Wu Neng and me.
Wu Neng fled in a hurry, wanting to see a cat and a mouse.
I followed Liu Neng back home trembling.
"Is that the person you're in love with?"
"No, I don't love him, I only love you..." Looking at her angry husband, I explained.
"It's all like that, and..." Liu Nengqi didn't bat an eyelid.
"I really only love you..." This is my heart's words, I have always regarded Wu Neng as Liu Neng, so if I talk about love, I still love Liu Neng, Wu Neng is just his shadow...
Liu Neng's eyes widened and he looked at me nonchalantly, as if he had never known me before.
After half a year of pulling, we still got divorced. Because Liu Neng said: once unfaithful, a hundred times not.
Liu Neng finally told me that if I look for it again, don't go to Wu Neng, such a man who has no responsibility will not make me happy...
But you, who can make me happy, why don't you give me happiness?
Divorce may also be that Liu can have other women out there, but I have no evidence.
In fact, after the divorce, I still went to find Wu Neng.
But he is not even willing to pay for the opening of the house, I really can't find a happy look...
postscript:
I would like to say: no matter what, the infidelity is unforgivable, it was originally a beautiful marriage, but because I could not control myself and ended up in such a situation, it is really a pity...
Young couples, for the sake of life, for the sake of family, choose to be different, and there are not a few. People are separated from each other and want to be together, husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken!
(The above is a story, written in the first person, please do not sit in the right seat.) If there is a similarity, it is purely coincidental; if there is no similarity, it is purely accidental)
I heard that people who pay attention to me have become rich
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