Do you often get bored with a tedious life? Are you constantly tired of complex relationships? Do you think the meaning of life is becoming more and more obscure and difficult to see? How can we achieve true happiness with our own hands in the midst of the complexity of daily trivialities and complex interpersonal relationships? The answer to all this is in this book, The Courage to Be Hated. The Douban score of this book is 8.6.
1. A book that trembles after reading it is like a steel knife, so directly scraping the poison on the soul.
2) Life is continuous at this moment, and no one else will change the world for you, except yourself.
3, I have always resented that "everything goes back to childhood" because I don't like the feeling of powerlessness. Adler said that it is because of the need to have a view at this time, and people can choose which point of view to spend their lives. Read it for the first time, and read it again.
"Don't care about other people's evaluations, don't be afraid of being hated by others, don't pursue recognition by others, if you don't pay these costs, you can't implement your own way of life, that is, you can't get free." 」
Faced with the question of whether you like yourself or not, there are almost no people who can answer "like" frankly. ”
"Not being able to change is really not wanting to change. Change means abandoning and denying the "past self," and it's easier to maintain the status quo than the pain of phoenix nirvana. They use past misfortunes to explain the present stagnation. ”
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