Article about love - your emotions, no matter how subtle, I can feel it
Since the last marriage story, I have received some soybean oil one after another, hoping that I can get along with us for a long time, in fact, most of the time we are living a similar life of male and female weavers, so that I can't recall that we are different from other couples.
A shared workbench is a shared time
Although the life is always ordinary, it will always have occasional branches. Last Friday I went for an operation, a abortion. The baby had to say goodbye to us because the embryos were out of life, and on the afternoon when I was told that I was going to operate, I cried with my husband and then fell asleep in the bedroom, and at this moment the door was filled with the sound of the housekeeper aunt vigorously doing hygiene, which was a little funny to think back on, but it was really tired at the time.
Trying to make me a dwarf photographer
A day or two before the operation has also been in the hospital to do some examinations and treatment, I also because I often look at those pale women in the hospital bed, feel afraid and anxious, Mr. is also depressed, and I also passed him some negative emotions, asked some very extreme situation questions, Mr. is very clumsy, do not know how to appease my anxiety, can only silently ask myself in the bottom of my heart why let me suffer such a crime, I gradually see his sadness, such a thing is not the responsibility of anyone, he has done a good job I shouldn't let him feel so guilty, so in the evening, we hugged each other, I told him that he must not blame himself, I will be very brave, plus my body has always been better, there will be no accidents, let him be assured, Mr. Grievance said "You see it?" ", of course.
Your emotions, no matter how subtle, I can feel it.
I really don't really love cookies like this kind of dry noodle stuff
On the third day of the operation, we also had an awkward fight, and I was not used to calling our awkwardness a quarrel or an argument, maybe it was too calm.
Those few days Sir are busy cooking for me, I look at the kitchen has not been cleaned up, I plan to use the dishwasher, since the cohabitation I have not used this thing at all, because every time I look at Mr. I feel particularly troublesome, time-consuming and long, and I hand wash time is almost the same, but thinking that Mr. will go out next week, he just finished the operation is not good to do housework, I think I still have to learn to use, first of all, open the faucet to rinse the residue in the bowl, and then code in, found that it seems that it can not be put in, so it is temporarily shelved First rinse the chopsticks and spoon and put it in, at this time the gentleman came in, saw the spoon I put, said you can't put it in this way, and then took out the instruction manual and said, I know that I keep this must be useful, I looked at the pattern of the instruction manual, I felt as if the swing was not bad, I muttered: "This is not the same!" ”
It was secretly filmed
Sir was unhappy with my "sophistry", and at the moment I didn't realize that he was about to start to get angry, because he kept talking about how I wanted me to do it, I thought he was too worried, I was sure that I would get it right in the end, I slowly figured it out, so I blamed him for saying "Oh you are so annoying you!" So he blew up, pulled me away from the sink, and said angrily, "Let me do it!" "When I thought he was going to smash the bowl, he just made a loud noise, didn't really break the bowl, I was also half stunned and half flattered to let him not be angry, the anger was not good, after coaxing two sentences I was also impatient, I didn't know what I was doing wrong, the more I thought about it, the more depressed I was, and I went to the bath alone.
Before taking a bath, I was still silently taking stock in front of the mirror to take stock of this pass, thinking that between eating and cleaning up, we were all in a very peace state, and even planned to go to Chenzhou Xiaodongjiang to play these two days, and then come back to do surgery after playing more happily, I also felt that I did not say anything wrong, heaven and earth can learn that when I said it, it was definitely not the tone of patience to leave, but Mr. also turned over an old account, let me think back to when I was angry.
After taking a shower, I went back to the bedroom, closed the door, read a book for a while, and went to the husband twice, and as a result, he was seriously watching TV without looking at me, thinking that this popularity is really long, if he doesn't apologize to me, then I don't pay attention to him, every time I actually say this, but every time I can't help it, my brain hurts. I didn't want to think about it, so I ran to the living room and said breathlessly: "Tomorrow I will not go to Dongjianghu!" ", go back to the bedroom and sleep.
Even if you make me braised pork and cordyceps flower chicken soup, you can't kill me for no reason!
Until the next afternoon, one of us in the bedroom and one in the living room, I don't know what nightmare I had, when I woke up the pillow was wet, so I got up to find Mr. And found that he was sleeping on the sofa in the living room, and after he woke him up, we didn't talk much, he hugged me, and went to pack up, maybe the hospital examination and the girls on those beds made me emotionally collapse again, and I sat on the bedroom bed and cried quietly for a while. A few minutes later, my husband came and called for me to pack up and go to Dongjiang lake together, I thought it was him reconciled to the steps, so I went down the slope of the donkey, and I took a dress and left.
The first half of this journey is our quietest trip, usually I will be happy in the car with Mr. non-stop nagging, and then I feel too quiet, I began to talk to Mr. I said I seem to have never felt the gender dividend of women, Sir said why, he actually feels that women in many ways than men's public acceptance is much higher, we began to gradually open the topic, I said that the gynecologist in the hospital attitude is not good, the attitude of the male doctor in the department of anesthesia is much better, and so on. After slowly talking about this awkward incident, I found that he was wearing headphones watching the drama at the time, and he didn't hear what I said about not going to Dongjianghu, and in fact, I regretted it a little in the morning, why did I say such a ruthless word when I was in a bad mood, and as a result, he just didn't hear it, speechless.
The brain door of the retouching knife looks like it is beckoning you to go rua quickly
Talking about the point where he was angry, in fact, he was a little helpless to himself afterwards, he should not lose his temper with me because of such a thing, and sometimes it was too real and unimportant. After this incident, I found that my "cunning" is actually very easy to trigger his anger, sometimes when we fight, I am not willing to give in, I feel that there is no harm in small things, I do not want to admit my right and wrong, although he is a chronic child, but in the face of such a moment can only maintain rational, direct thinking, can not take into account my angle and thoughts, after saying open, he apologized to me, I also smiled and shook his hand.
He's always 10000000 times better looking in my phone than he is on my own!
We are all very clear that two people get along is not who changes who, everyone has their own growth path, we can only tell each other our emotions kindly.
The journey after that was of course very enjoyable, except for the embarrassment of Mr. forgetting the memory card with the camera and the fact that I forgot to bring the mobile phone gimbal.
The surgery was also very smooth, and I also enjoyed a week alone with my husband, and I hope that at this moment, his journey in the Great Northwest will be smooth and all will be safe.