2021: A turning point in my life

My 2021 is an extremely unusual year, in which I have completed multiple identity transformations, from boyfriend to husband, from son of man to father, I have completed many major life events. To sum up: 2021 is a happy year, but also a year of great responsibility!

1, this year is really a happy year!

On February 1 of this year, I entered the palace of marriage with my girlfriend who has been in love for ten years. The two of us are high school classmates, in high school have been encouraging each other, urging each other to learn, I am a lazy person, unwilling to work hard, without her, I may not be so good at the test.

After graduating from high school, she went to the northeast to study, while I stayed in the capital of the province. We spent four years of college by video chatting, and I'm glad we had smartphones when we were in college and could communicate face-to-face. I went to the northeast six times from my freshman year to my junior year, and the northeast was definitely the most frequented field I had been to. At that time, I couldn't afford to buy high-speed rail tickets, and in order to save money, I took the green-skinned train in the middle of the night, or the hard seat, but I didn't feel tired after taking the train all night, and I always felt that I would sleep.

After graduating from college, I stayed in the provincial capital to work, and she also came back, and we both struggled together. I bought a house in 19 years and a car in 20 years. Finally in February of this year, the two of us ended the ten-year love run and we got married! The day of the wedding felt very happy, when I went to pick up the kiss, I choked up after saying a few words, and my classmates laughed and said to me, Finally waiting for you two!

Yes, the two of us went through too much. We survived the busy study life of high school; we survived the four years of college; we survived the hard life of sharing when we first graduated. Many people say that they envy both of us, in fact, only the two of us know the hardships, but I never feel that we are very bitter, on the contrary, I feel that I have always been very happy! Yes, I had a great girlfriend and now she's my wife, and looking back, all that has been experienced is our happiness.

2. This year is a year of great responsibility!

Life after marriage does not feel any different from before, it may be that we have been together for a long time and have long regarded each other as the person who can live a lifetime. But in August of this year, it was suddenly different because I was going to be a dad. At that moment I suddenly realized that we are a family, we are going to have children, I have thought about this scene many times, I want to pick her up and turn around, shout that I want to be a father, call the family and say that I want to be a father, but I did not do this, at that time I took her hand and said softly: Honey, I love you.

After the daughter-in-law became pregnant, she really felt that the burden on her shoulders was heavier! Every time you go to the hospital to do a maternity examination, it takes hundreds, occasionally even thousands of yuan, and more importantly, after the two of us are full, the whole family is not hungry, with children, the expenses have to increase a large part, milk powder money, diapers are not wet, buy clothes, go to kindergarten, etc., think about Alexander. But even if the burden is heavy, I still have to straighten my waist and bravely shoulder this responsibility, which is more of an honor, the glory of being a husband, the glory of being a father, and the pillar of a family!

Finally, looking back on my 2021, it was really an extraordinary year, in which I experienced many major life events, which made me from a carefree person to a pillar of a family, and there is still a long way to go.