There are thousands of strange flowers in the world, and I have met one of them. I used to just think he was more extreme, but then I found out that he was really the "best of the best" among men, how strange he was, you must not imagine! If you meet such a man, be sure to take a detour.
He was the boyfriend of my college roommate Jingjing, an off-campus youth I knew in high school, who was a little handsome and talkative, but he always felt less connotation between words. They had broken up countless times, but that breakup had terrified all of us in the dormitory. After lunch, Jing Jing just walked downstairs to the dormitory, and he rudely pulled Jing Jing and began to push and scold: "You tell Lao Tzu clearly today, are you going to break up?" Go, go outside the school and say. I quickly called Jingjing, and she told us not to worry and to come back later.
When Jing Jing returned, it was already more than five o'clock in the afternoon, and when she entered the door, she cried loudly: "He took me to the river and threatened me to die together if I broke up." I didn't know what to do, and begged him for a long time before he would let me come back. "Hearing this, we all feel very angry and helpless at the same time. We finally know why we have never broken up successfully before, it turns out that this man is too extreme, and he has a strong possessiveness for Jingjing. However, his argument was: "I love her, I can't live without her." ”
If a man can't control his emotions, don't have anything to do with him, light is hurt, heavy is dead. What is even more tragic is that a lifetime was ruined in his heart, and quietness is like this.
Jing Jing married him after graduation, I don't know if it was because of coercion, but I knew that she was unhappy. When he first got married, he took her with him everywhere he went, even if he went to play mahjong, he wanted her to sit next to him. Jing Jing didn't like his entertainment, she preferred to stay alone, so he always left her alone, even during pregnancy. I've seen her hair in a state of "I really want to disappear on a night like this, including myself, and the seeds that are still growing in my belly." "I learned later that he often went out at night to play cards, not caring about her low back pain and insomnia.
When she was about to give birth, he was in a hurry, holding her hand and worrying, and we thought he would be a good father. However, the first night he was disturbed by the child in the hospital and could not sleep, and the next day he went home to catch up on sleep, leaving his quiet mother to take care of her. After the mother and daughter were discharged from the hospital, he did not hold the baby on the grounds that the baby was too fragile, did not bathe the child, and did not change the diaper. He wasn't prepared to be a father at all, and he spent his time and mind on the game. In the process of growing up in the future, he did not play the role of a good father, but only blindly pursued pleasure.
His smoking addiction is very large, the room and living room are filled with his smoke, whether it is when his wife is pregnant, or after the baby is born, he never considers how serious the impact of second-hand smoke on the health of his family will be. He does not do housework, and will also accuse JingJing: "My clothes have been piled up for so long and have not been washed, they will be moldy." "When she was busy and the child was crying, he neither helped his wife nor looked at the child.
If a man always thinks only of himself and ignores the people around him, the woman with him will die of exhaustion, just like the wife "bereavement" and the child "loses the father." "If he's narrow-minded, it's even scarier.
Every time Jing Jing had a dispute with him, there would be a war of words, he roared loudly and turned black and white upside down, and the final result was that he could win the quarrel. Then, the Cold War began for several days. He did not speak, not only with Jingjing, but also with his mother-in-law and children, ignoring them all. He doesn't eat, waiting for everyone to finish eating before cooking noodles, or buying some snacks and eating them alone behind closed doors. He even took a leave of absence from work until he felt comfortable going out. This man is truly a must.
Jing Jing traveled with her girlfriend but missed the plane, and they temporarily flew to another city. After the girlfriend's husband got the news, he immediately checked the information to find a guide and sent it to her. And the quiet husband called to scold, saying something like "don't think about safety, don't care about the family", which actually means that she wasted her ticket and did not know how to go home. Not only did he scold Jingjing, but he also called and scolded her girlfriend. After playing quietly and fearfully for two days, she said goodbye to her girlfriend and went home, feeling very guilty but helpless in her heart.
He can't stand the grievances, and whoever scolds him will have to scold him back, and whoever drives on the road will definitely not go back. If Jing Jing did not stand on the same side as him, he would be even more angry that no one understood him. I heard that he changed several jobs, all because the relationship with the leader was not handled well, and there were even fights.
A man with a small temperament not only has no future to speak of, he will also hinder your progress and become a stumbling block on your life road. It will also affect your circle and leave you in isolation. This kind of man must stay away.
In this vast world, there will always be all kinds of people. But this is the first time I've ever met someone who is extreme, selfish, and narrow-minded. Undeniably, everyone has their own merits, but this man's strange aura is too strong, sorry I can't see it.
Jing Jing said that the greatest misfortune in this life was to meet him. If only I had taken a detour when I first met him. If JingJing can't get happiness, then I wish her freedom soon. I hope you will never meet such a person!