What did you understand after falling in love? Someone once asked, what do you think are the warmest three words in love? Most people choose not that I love you, but that I am there. Because the sweet words that add flowers to the cake are far less valuable than sending charcoal in the snow. Men who always say to you, "Don't worry, I'm here" are the ones who want to protect you for the rest of your life. However, love is not a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake.
In the midst of the storm, what you should do is to find warmth on your own, rather than waiting for others to do it. In the face of adversity, the princess did not wait for rescue but killed the dragon herself. The cherry on top of that cake, it is not the main thing, but it plays a role in the cake! Love in life is like the cherry on the cake, it will always only add icing on the cake, and it will not send charcoal in the snow Don't look at how a person treats you well, but look at how bad a person is to you when they have a conflict with you.
Suddenly understand a truth, those who do not have an empty window in the relationship always find a good home in advance and then can't get along with the ex, to put it bluntly, the extreme emptiness of the heart constantly needs to use intimate relationships to make up for the void in the spiritual world, and most people who feel that inner satisfaction will feel that love is not a blessing in the snow but the icing on the cake. In the end, love is just the cherry on the cake, and life is not as sweet as it is. First live your own life well, grow yourself, be self-responsible, don't blindly strive for love and recognition from each other, love yourself first, recognize yourself, and others will love you. Try to project the other party as your own parents as little as possible, seeing that the other party is just another independent person, and what kind of parents your parents are in the original family does not mean that the current other party is also like that.
Love cannot solve life's problems, nor can it save people who are lonely inside. Only to solve their own life well. In order to talk about love. Because love is not a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake. It is easy to destroy the original impression score during the trough period, and it is also easy to meet the wrong person, and it is necessary to distinguish the priority of friends. Life is the meal, love is the dessert, and all the good loves really need to be synchronized with the same frequency. Seeing that the person who wants to live alone is actually the most suitable for love. We are all independent individuals, and at all times we must take care of ourselves first, and then embrace the people and things of this world, and deal with ourselves before dealing with things. You will only have the ability to better love people if you are a complete individual. Love is never salvage, and when you cling to another person with a body full of faults, who dares to come closer?