Different from the image of "Hanging Er Lang Dang" on the screen, Tong Dawei in life is actually more like an "honest man" and "warm man", which has a lot to do with the environment in which he grew up in his childhood.
But even if his personality is very decent and peaceful, it is inevitable to get lost in vanity fair like the entertainment industry. Today, let's take a look at the emotional waves of Tong Dawei and his wife Guan Yue.
Tong Dawei was born in 1979 in Fushun, Liaoning. Unlike many well-off celebrities, Tong Dawei was born into an ordinary family, his childhood was simple and happy, and his father and uncle were policemen.
Every Sunday, no matter how busy my father was, he would use a three-wheeled motorcycle to carry Tong Dawei for a ride outside, as if the police officer was on patrol, and the wind was majestic, and at that time he was like his father, a policeman.
To this end, Tong studied hard, thinking that he would be able to enter a police academy in the future. It was all so happy that one day, the happy life suddenly stopped.
In 1985, Tong's father was involved in a car accident while performing official duties and became a vegetative person. Although the unit took some pensions, it was not enough to pay for dad's medicine.
Since then, the smile on her mother's face has disappeared, she has to work and take care of her father every day, and she is so busy that she has no time to take care of Tong Dawei.
Tong Dawei also has an older sister, and the two can only "grow up" overnight. Since the age of 7, Tong Dawei has stepped on a stool to fry shredded potatoes, carried dozens of pounds of gas cans upstairs, and carried a 50-kilogram rice bag.
The classmates were amazed at Tong Dawei's cooking skills, and he could only smile awkwardly.
Fortunately, Tong Dawei has an optimistic personality and has a wide range of hobbies since childhood. At that time, break dancing was popular on TV, and Tong Dawei imitated it with TV, and he was able to teach himself without a teacher.
An orchestra was set up in the school, Tong Dawei wanted to participate, and the family could not come up with money, so he found a broken bamboo pole by himself, drilled a few holes, and blew it crookedly, and the teachers and classmates also looked at him with admiration.
In 1996, Tong Dawei graduated from high school, and in order to make money as soon as possible, he entered the Liaoning Art Vocational College to study economics. It was a secondary school, but at the time it was also a package allocation, which was a good choice for many people.
But her mother said to Tong Dawei: "You are not worse than others, why can't you go to college?" This sentence became a "seed" in Tong Dawei's heart.
Later, because of chance, Tong Dawei went to Fushun Repertory Theatre to find friends to play, and a crew needed 2 group performances, and Tong Dawei was selected.
During the rehearsal, the assistant director said to Tong Dawei: "Your child has a good image, you can try to be an actor in the future!" ”
Tong Dawei was versatile since childhood, and did not perform at school, and when he returned, he told his mother about this idea.
But my mother felt that the actor industry was too unstable. In addition, his sister Tong Ling, who once went to the acting department of Beijing Normal University, sometimes could not eat.
But Tong Dawei did not think so, he signed up for the training school, and read until midnight every day.
Tong's mother saw that her son was so serious, and she no longer objected, and she changed her tricks to make food every day, which caused Tong Dawei to weigh 30 pounds during the preparation period.
In 1997, Tong Dawei applied for the Shanghai Theater Academy. At the time of the interview, the candidates whose bodies have been carefully crafted are dancing.
Tong Dawei, who is 1 meter 8 tall, has soared to 170 pounds at this time, and he has no choice but to do a set of broadcast gymnastics.
When he was halfway through, the examiner, who couldn't stop smiling, called out and then asked, "Are everyone in your family as fat as you?" Tong Dawei shook his head, and the whole examination room laughed.
Fortunately, Tong Dawei played well in interviews at other airports and was finally admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with the second professional result.
It was also at this time that Tong Dawei realized that if he wanted to become an actor, he should start to lose weight.
So he got up at 6 o'clock every morning and ran 6,000 meters, rain or shine. After he lost weight, he became the fastest runner in the class.
Tong Dawei also studied hard, and when other students were socializing, he always hid in the classroom to study, and received scholarships every semester.
In order to subsidize the family, Tong Dawei often received some small advertisements and bought a lot of clothes for his mother.
He also inquired about ways to treat vegetative people, and a peking university medical doctor said: "Love and affection may evoke miracles." So Tong Dawei began to write letters to his father and asked his mother to read them to him.
For a while, Because Tong Dawei looked like Pu Cunxin, the drama began to increase. However, due to rushing to the scene every day, he often forgot his words and made many "yellow" jokes.
At that time, a CCTV drama asked him to audition, and as a result, Tong Dawei did not memorize his lines, which annoyed the CCTV leaders from Beijing, and the result was a change of personnel on the spot.
Tong Dawei regretted that he did not start the beginning, begged to try again, although the performance was very good, but the big leader spoke, and the result could not be changed.
Since then, he has set the rules for himself: to play every play, every role.
After graduation, Tong Dawei worked at the National Drama Theatre, and successively participated in works such as "All Angels Are Troubled" and "Young Bao Qingtian 2", and gained some fame in the circle.
It was also at this time that Tong Dawei met his own love.
In 2001, Tong Dawei went to the Beijing Film Academy to find friends, and accidentally caught a glimpse of a girl who was secretly watching him.
He took a closer look and saw that it was an intellectually mature girl. Tong Dawei asked his friend, knowing that it was Guan Yue, a teacher at the film school.
So Tong Dawei asked her friend who was a teaching assistant to ask her to go to KTV, and the two slowly became acquainted.
In 2003, Tong Dawei took advantage of Guan Yue's birthday to confess. Unexpectedly, Guan Yue threw a "sending proposition": "I have to take care of you, okay?" Tong Dawei replied dryly, "I am willing to let you take care of me." ”
In this way, the two lived a "two-person world".
This year, Tong Dawei and Sun Li finished filming "Jade Guanyin", he had a premonition that this drama would catch fire, and unfortunately encountered "SARS", and the repertoire was postponed indefinitely, which made him feel extremely depressed.
At this time, Guan Yue comforted him: "As long as you have talent, sooner or later it will catch fire, let's continue to shoot the next one!" ”
This allowed Tong Dawei to slowly regain his confidence. Later, "Jade Guanyin" was released. Tong Dawei won the Golden Eagle Award for this, and his career gradually took off.
In 2006, Tong Dawei starred in three popular dramas such as "Struggle" in one go, and suddenly became a hot TV actor.
At this moment, Tong Dawei's feelings went wrong.
Due to the success of his career, Tong Dawei slowly lost patience with his family and often gave in.
This arrogance stung Guan Yue, and after a big fight, they fell into a cold war, and Tong Dawei suddenly proposed to break up.
According to media reports, this year, Tong Dawei lived with "Jiangnan Little Beauty" Jiang Yiyan for a period of time... Tong is noncommittal.
All this made Guan Yue deeply hurt. As Tong Dawei's girlfriend, she was cautious all the time, afraid of causing him trouble.
She usually had to wear a hat and mask on the street; she didn't dare to go to the movies, so she could only buy CDs; even when she went out to eat, she had to find a private room.
Now that Tong Dawei is "out of the head", he is actually going to break up with himself without a word, guan Yue is aggrieved, and washes his face with tears all day long.
But she is still an arrogant person in her bones, never humble, and will not whisper "to compound".
On the contrary, Tong Dawei, after calming down during the "breakup period", felt empty in his heart, pulled his friends to KTV all day long, ordered a bunch of expensive wine, sang the songs that were previously given to Guan Yue, and finally everyone cried with him.
Tong Dawei thought that he would be relieved, but he did not expect that he was greeted by a headache and crying. He seriously considered it for a while, and felt that he still couldn't do without Guan Yue.
Tong Dawei regained the original "cheeky" spirit and re-launched an "offensive" against Guan Yue.
Tong Dawei first took the initiative to call Guan Yue and called for three or four days in a row, but no one answered. He knew: Guan Yueqi had not yet subsided.
Tong Dawei was inspired to move and start from the people around her. He called Guan Yue's "girlfriend" Dong Xuan, and before he could say a few words, Dong Xuan said, "Don't say anything, I know you're not looking for me." ”
Tong Dawei said: "Help, I didn't have a 'non-divided thought', just met with her." ”
So Dong Xuan called Guan Yue: "Tong Dawei is looking for you." Guan Yue was silent on the phone and did not speak for a long time.
Hearing that Guan Yue did not refuse, Tong Dawei immediately began to grind soft and hard bubbles, and finally several people agreed to have dinner together.
To this end, he also moved out of the circle of "models", Liang Jiahui and his wife, and Guan Yue said: "Brother Jiahui wants to invite us to dinner." At the dinner table, Tong Dawei "cheekily" introduced: "Guan Yue is my girlfriend, this time, in fact, I want to propose to her." ”
Liang Jiahui also helped lining up: "Marriage is good, young people are stable earlier, and they have more responsibility." Seeing tong Dawei's sincerity, Guan Yue finally forgave him.
In 2008, the two were married. After marriage, the two also "three chapters of the law": 1, quarrels can not have overnight; 2, every day to call; 3, financial power by the wife to manage.
Tong Dawei really wanted to live with Guan Yue.
Later, Tong Dawei's eldest daughter was born, Guan Yue was confined, he pushed off the work at hand, and accompanied him throughout the process.
Guan Yue wanted to lose a little temper, and Tong Dawei could take advantage of her lack of "seizure" and quickly said: "Wife, you have worked hard, you see how hard you are!" ”
Tong Dawei said to everyone: "Hey, my wife, it's really not easy, it's very good, it's hard to find with a lantern..." In this way, Guan Yue had a temper and was not embarrassed to send it again.
Later, Tong Dawei participated in "Chibi" and "Chinese Partner", and was nominated for the Academy Award and the Golden Horse Award.
When filming "Chinese Partner", Tong Dawei saw that there was a passion scene, and he asked vigorously: "Are you sure there is a passion scene?" ”
Director Chen Kexin was annoyed and said, "Do you want me to call Guan Yue?" ”
Tong Dawei smiled and said, "No need, just say it yourself." It turned out that he had his own "rules", and every time there was a passion play, he had to report to his wife.
Tong Dawei has also participated in several variety shows, but he has a principle: do not bring children to the show. Because he grew up in an ordinary family, he also hopes to give his children an ordinary childhood.
As he grew older, Tong Dawei became more and more concerned about his family, talking to his daughter-in-law and children on the phone every day, often saying "I love you" to Guan Yue, and liking to accompany his children at home.
Media reports: Guan Yue, who is over 40 years old, is like a young woman around 30 years old, which is inseparable from Tong Dawei's concern.
After the struggle of the teenager and the fresh clothes of the youth, Tong Dawei's feelings supported the cause, and he once failed his feelings because of success, and his happiness was ultimately a "minority" in the entertainment industry.
Now he is a mature man, three daughters, a wife, taking on the responsibilities of a man, and is a real grandfather.