In the traditional Concept of China, there is such a sentence: filial piety has three no queen is greater, only with such a tradition so that many people have a firm belief in having children, so having children has become an unavoidable problem in everyone's life.
This kind of problem not only appears in ordinary people, even stars are also deeply suffering, Chen Songling as a star due to illness, her life can not have children, for which she not only has a lot of self-blame in her own heart, but also often by outsiders to talk about it, but fortunately she has a husband who loves her and tolerates her, in the husband's view, infertility is not Chen Songling's sin.
Chen Songling's experience in life is also a big ups and downs, from childhood she was born superior, her father is doing business in Indonesia, but it did not take long after the good days to begin to fall in the family, from the original rich little princess to a child who often watches others eat snacks.
Although the family conditions are difficult, but Chen Songling has not been abandoned by heaven, because her family life was very rich before, under the combination of prosperity and generations, the appearance and conditions of her parents are very high, so chen Songling's body naturally inherited this advantage, not only that, she also inherited a rare good voice, so this made Chen Songling's life gradually improve in the future.
Chen Songling, who grew up in a poor family, often had to go out to work to subsidize the family, in the 1985 TVB singing contest, Chen Songling also went to participate, when she sang a Cantonese song once became the champion of the competition, and then her potential was favored by the record company to sign with it, not only that, she was also recommended by the company to participate in TV series.
Chen Songling, who had recently stepped into the entertainment industry at that time, had already used her own efforts and talents to fire all over the show business, although her road to success was very smooth, but being a star was not the dream he wanted most in his heart, when she only participated in the singing contest due to her family's poverty, she would have stepped into the entertainment circle, otherwise her dream in Chen Songling's heart was to be a good doctor who hung the pot to save the world.
After making a lot of money, Chen Songling also once wanted to continue to go back to school to study, so that his future path can go to the doctor, but after Chen Songling, a cash cow, how willing her mother is to let her return to school, so at the insistence of her mother, Chen Songling has no choice but to continue to work in the show business circle.
Although on the surface she has compromised with her mother, but Chen Songling's heart still can not let go of her own heart as a doctor, when she expressed herself thousands of times that she wanted to return to school to study, her father expressed understanding of this matter, which also made Chen Songling feel relieved for a while, but her mother was very strong, and her father did not dare to clash with her mother face to face even if she supported Chen Songling's reading.
When Chen Songling clashed with her mother, her mother often beat her with a stick in order to force her to work in the show business circle, and finally because she was scarred, she was found by the director to report to the police, with such an encounter Chen Songling actually endured and did not say it, but for her mother, her behavior of calling the police was like a white-eyed wolf, so in a rage, her mother directly broke off relations with Chen Songling.
After completely escaping from her mother's clutches, Chen Songling continued to shine in the show business circle, without her mother's love, she found herself a dry mother, and then her dry mother also became her agent. Although she broke off relations with her mother, her father often ran outside to visit Chen Songling, and Chen Songling's heart for her father's concern was full of bitterness that she could not return home, but even so, she also hoped to wait until she finished her half-work and half-study and then went home.
In 1989, the supervising producer of Tianya Singer invited Chen Songling to play the heroine, originally just as a singer, she became popular because of this drama, and suddenly became a line of TVB, although so, Chen Songling has long seen that her future development path will be a fire, but she still does not care, because in her heart, only want to prepare for the next college exams, so after many directors threw an olive branch to her, they were rejected by Chen Songling. In particular, Du Qifeng invited her to interview, and Andy Lau's Tianruo Youqing also invited her to be a supporting role, and these rare opportunities were rejected by Chen Songling one by one.
After that, although she was still engaged in the work of the show business circle, but decisively finishing college can also be regarded as a dream in her heart, because Chen Songling at that time was also a rare highly educated actor in the entertainment industry after graduating from college, so this also brought her a lot of advantages.
In addition to Chen Songling's personality of insisting on herself, she also has a very clear understanding, although she was well-known in the show business at that time, she knew that she had not undergone professional training, even if her voice was born with advantages, but it was also lacking professional training. So since then, she has worshipped the music god Liu Jiachang as a teacher, so that she will continue to usher in the peak of her career after that.
After the leadership of the master, Chen Songling ushered in the peak of her career, in the two major fields of music and interpretation, she started her own solo concert for the first time, followed by the filming of the two big dramas of Tiandi Boy and Xinshang Beach, of which the stars of cooperation are also some big names, such as Zheng Shaoqiu and Gu Tianle and others, for chen Songling, who was young at the time, her achievements are also few people in the circle can compare.
Just when Chen Songling's career was becoming more and more prosperous, the next year she was diagnosed with ovarian tumors, and a red light appeared in her body, and Chen Songling had to put down her work to concentrate on treatment.
After Chen Songling returned from treatment, she knew that the speed of change of dynasty in the entertainment industry was so fast that you could not imagine, and how many people were looking forward to preparing in such a place full of gold in the entertainment industry, so when she quit, her position had long been occupied, and since then, chen Songling's place in the entertainment industry has long been gone.
When Chen Songling was facing difficulties, Jacky Cheung reached out and pulled her at this time, when Chen Songling wrote a stage play snow wolf lake for Jacky Cheung, this drama also ushered in the results of the scene, so this drama directly brought Chen Songling's career back to life. In 1998, Chen Songling signed a contract with TVB and returned to the public's attention again, and since then, many well-known dramas played by Chen Songling have attracted praise from the audience.
In the career has their own unique vision, Chen Songling in life is careless, when her career was so prosperous, she handed over all her wealth and savings to the agent Ah Bao, all the real estate and assets are also in the name of Ah Bao, such trust may be very few brokers can get, but just after a quarrel with Ah Bao, Chen Songling was swept out by her, all the money on the account was transferred to her name by Ah Bao, so Chen Songling suddenly became a penniless big star, Instantly wandered the streets with nowhere to go.
It was not until later, when Chen Songling was in the most difficult time, relying on the help of fans, that she gradually came out of that hazy and difficult time. When she gradually wanted to return to her previous appearance, the news of her father's unfortunate death came from home, and she got the silent support of her father when she insisted on studying in the early years, such a kindness Chen Songling has always kept in mind, and her father's death has made her feel more and more guilty in her heart, because in the past few years, due to severing relations with her mother, she rarely went home, and she did not perform filial piety in front of her father at all, so in this instant, Chen Songlin's heart was broken.
Shortly after her father's death, Chen Songling had to undergo surgery again because of the recurrence of an ovarian cyst, and this time the operation made her never have the opportunity to be a mother again in her life. Under the heavy blow, she suddenly suffered from depression, so her mother finally showed compassion at this time and took Chen Songling home to take care of her.
Soon after, with the company and encouragement of her family, Chen Songling's depression also improved, so she quickly returned to her old business and returned to the circle to continue to think about carrying forward, and it was at this time that Chen Songling met Zhang Zhuo, a confidant.
At that time, Zhang Zhuo was eight years younger than Chen Songling, and he was born in the acting department as a master actor with peak appearance and acting skills in the circle, and when the two met, they often got along because of filming. In the filming, Zhang Zhuo took good care of Chen Songling everywhere, and Zhang Zhuo's strong love was shown in every detail, so the two gradually appeared in love, but when Zhang Zhuo's love became more and more intense, Chen Songling began to think about avoiding.
Later, when Zhang Zhuo courted Chen Songling, she refused, asking the reason Why Chen Songling tearfully told the truth, even if he accepted his love in this life, he knew that he could not harm Zhang Zhuo because he could not be a mother.
Hearing the concerns in Chen Songling's heart, Zhang Zhuo's affectionate promise that it is not your sin to have a baby, and even if this does not affect my life to hurt you and take care of you. Between the simple words, Chen Songling's inner defense line collapsed at once, so Chen Songling also decided to marry this boyfriend who was eight years younger than himself.
In 2011, Chen Songling and Zhang Zhuo got married, and after the two came together, the happy smile on their faces envied others, but there was a concealment behind this marriage. At that time, Before the marriage, Zhang Zhuo did not tell his parents that Chen Songling could not have children, so the man's parents did not know, at that time Chen Songling was eight years older than his son, Zhang Zhuo's parents had also opposed, but Chen Songling's intellectual elegance, so she made Zhang Zhuo's parents gradually let down their guard and agreed to this marriage.
Zhang Zhuo as the only son in the family, parents must be looking forward to hugging the grandson as soon as possible, but due to the respect for young people, Zhang Zhuo's parents did not promote it, in the face of such a family Chen Songling's heart has mixed feelings, whether it is a showdown or continue to choose to hide. When Chen Songling was 47 years old, his parents began to urge them to have children, and Chen Songling chose to tell the truth in a hurry.
Although Zhang Zhuo expressed understanding of Chen Songling's inability to have children, but in the eyes of the older generation, such news is undoubtedly to cut off his children and grandchildren, so at the beginning Zhang Zhuo's parents said that they could not accept such a fact, and they felt so remorseful and guilty in their hearts, Chen Songling also took the initiative to propose divorce, hoping that Zhang Zhuo would find a wife who could have children, but such a proposal was resolutely opposed by Zhang Zhuo.
Looking at his son's understanding and tolerance, and then looking at Chen Songling's intellectuality and kindness, Zhang Zhuo's father gradually relaxed over time, as long as the happiness of the children's lives is not very important. Although Zhang Zhuo's father expressed understanding, his mother still had a grudge against Chen Songling's inability to have children, although she no longer cried, but she showed her dissatisfaction with Chen Songling with practical actions, and in all aspects of married life, Zhang Zhuo's mother often did things to Chen Songling that made her embarrassed.
Such a hot relationship makes Chen Songling very difficult, without children, she has been hoping to have a child in her heart for many years, so in her spare time, she often goes to the orphanage with Zhang Zhuo to see the children, plus the mother-in-law is so eager to have a grandson, Zhang Zhuo and Chen Songling decided to adopt a child in the orphanage, since making such a decision, the mother-in-law seems to have gradually let go of her guard against Chen Songling and took a step back.
Today's Chen Songling has experienced the ups and downs in front of her, and it can be said that she has ushered in a good ending, and under the care and love of her husband, Chen Songling has also been properly protected. Even if the mother is very opposed to this marriage, she finally accepted the fact that Chen Songling, the daughter-in-law, could not have children, and such an ending was also very enviable, and I hope that their family can be happy in the future.
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