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Recently, some netizens posted a photo of actress Chen Songling returning to Hong Kong with her 8-year-old husband Zhang Duo to party with old friends.
It is these photos that sent the 52-year-old Chen Songling directly to the hot search, just because Chen Songling in the photo is no longer as beautiful as before.
Chen Songling in the photo is very different from the fleshy image in everyone's memory.
Dressed in brown short-sleeved shorts and an orange jacket, Chen Songling is lined with an old-fashioned look.
So much so that many netizens complained that Chen Songling and her husband Zhang Duo, who was 8 years younger next to her, stood together, and the two were like two generations.
Of course, no matter what Chen Songling becomes, it will not affect Zhang Duo's love for Chen Songling.
After all, since the two confirmed their relationship, no matter what the outside world thinks of the two, Zhang Duo has always adhered to his love with Chen Songling, which has also made the two a "model couple" in the entertainment industry.
Probably because Zhang Duo's love for Chen Songling is too obvious.
No, after Chen Songling attended the dinner, Wang Manling, a friend who attended the party with Chen Songling, congratulated Chen Songling on social platforms on marrying a 100-point husband.
It's just that even if the two are famous for their affection and have friends as evidence, many netizens still feel that the happiness of the two is just an illusion, and the evidence is that Chen Songling is now thinner and older.
With the fermentation of this speculation, many netizens picked up Zhang Duo's mother's difficulties for Chen Songling, so under the brains of netizens, Chen Songling and her husband's 13-year married life is like hell.
In everyone's various speculations, Chen Songling also fell into an embarrassing situation.
However, is this really the case?
If you take a closer look at Chen Songling's past, you will find that she was also a woman with talent and beauty.
What's more, she still has extraordinary tenacity on her body.
This tenacity allows her to live the wonderful life of her life no matter what situation she is in.
During her childhood, Chen Songling also had a happy time.
At that time, Chen Songling's father was still a successful businessman and loved Chen Songling very much, which made Chen Songling enjoy a good life even though she was born in an era of material scarcity.
In addition, at that time, Chen Songling's mother was a very gentle woman, and she took care of Chen Songling gently and meticulously.
Therefore, during that time, Chen Songling's life was like being soaked in a honey pot.
However, such a happy life did not last long, when Chen Songling was 3 years old, his father failed in business and lost all the family's money, and even the family's food became a problem.
In order to prevent Chen Songling from suffering, Chen Songling's parents sent Chen Songling to someone else's home to raise.
It's just that after all, he is not biological, and his adoptive father's and adoptive mother's love for Chen Songling is naturally very limited, especially the adoptive mother, who will beat and scold Chen Songling at every turn.
When she was 14 years old, Chen Songling's adoptive parents wanted Chen Songling to make money for the family as soon as possible, so they had the idea of sending her to the entertainment industry for development.
It just so happened that the wireless program was happy tonight, and the "Ye Qianwen Singing" contest was being held.
So, Chen Songling's family directly registered Chen Songling, of course, Chen Songling is indeed very talented in singing.
On the field, Chen Songling easily won the championship of this competition with a song "Zero Hour and Ten Minutes".
Because of the name of the champion, many brokerage companies at that time threw olive branches to Chen Songling.
However, Chen Songling did not have much interest in these olive branches sent to him.
Just because at that time, Chen Songling's dream was to be admitted to university and become a teacher in the future.
However, Chen Songling's dream was strongly opposed by her adoptive parents, just because she became a teacher, she made a lot of money in her life.
Under the opposition of her adoptive parents, Chen Songling resisted, but the result of the rebellion was the beating of her mother.
Because she couldn't bear her mother's fists and kicks, Chen Songling protected herself by calling the police.
However, when often asked, "Do you want to sue your mother".
Chen Songling relented after all, so after the police left, everything was as before, and her mother would still punch and kick Chen Songling because she was unhappy.
In order to make herself suffer less flesh and skin, Chen Songling had to follow her mother as much as possible.
In the end, Chen Songling gave up her dream of being a teacher, signed a contract with a brokerage company, and debuted as a singer.
However, Chen Songling's path as a singer was not smooth.
Back then, after entering the music scene, Chen Songling released several records in a row under the company's arrangement, but all of them sold dismally.
In desperation, Chen Songling had no choice but to transform and develop in the direction of film and television dramas.
In 1987, Chen Songling finally made a name for herself in the entertainment industry with her innocent image in the movie "Ghost Horse Campus".
It was precisely by relying on the splash set off by this movie that Chen Songling tasted the sweetness, so after that, Chen Songling began to shift the focus of his career to film and television dramas.
Of course, the results also proved the wisdom of Chen Songling's decision.
In 1989, Chen Songling became popular all over the country with her role as the female number one in the TV series "Tianya Singer".
Since then, Chen Songling has completely opened up the situation in the entertainment industry.
He has starred in film and television dramas such as "The Legend of Shushan Heroes" and "Laughing at the Wind and Cloud".
With the fame of these film and television dramas, Chen Songling's music career has also made progress soon.
In October 1995, Chen Songling held 3 concerts in Hong Kong in a row, and the venue was full.
In 1996, a "New Shanghai Beach" made Chen Songling's already brilliant career in the entertainment industry even more brilliant.
It's just that such brilliance didn't last long, and Chen Songling was hit by a series of accidents and lost the courage to live for a while.
Back then, as Chen Songling's career in the entertainment industry became more and more prosperous, this also meant that Chen Songling was getting busier and busier.
So, Chen Songling directly handed over all his assets to his agent A Bao to take care of.
Of course, Chen Songling trusts Ah Bao so much, also because Ah Bao is not only his agent, but also the daughter of his adoptive father and adoptive mother, and the sister who grew up with Chen Songling
It's just that what Chen Songling didn't expect was that his trust was still betrayed by Bao.
In May 2006, in order to take the huge assets that Chen Songling had worked hard for many years, Ah Bao released the news that "Chen Songling likes women".
It was this news that made Chen Songling's reputation discredited overnight, and countless questions and abuses came to her face.
And when Chen Songling was lacking in skills because of these public opinions, Ah Bao silently swept away all the assets that Chen Songling had worked hard for many years.
So much so that Chen Songling is a big star, and even eating and living have become a problem.
Fortunately, later, Chen Songling's former friend extended a helping hand to Chen Songling, which allowed Chen Songling to slowly get out of the predicament.
It's just that Chen Songling's career has been seriously affected, and she can no longer return to her former glory, and at this time, Chen Songling's body has problems again.
In July 2006, Chen Songling suddenly felt unwell, so she went to the hospital for a check-up, and was told that she had an ovarian tumor.
If surgery is not done quickly, it will be life-threatening.
However, once the operation is performed, it will be difficult for Chen Songling to have the opportunity to be a mother again.
You must know that Chen Songling was not married at that time, let alone had no children of her own, so she was deprived of the opportunity to be a mother, Chen Songling's mood can be imagined.
These successive blows made Chen Songling want to end his life more than once.
Fortunately, in the end, Chen Songling survived, and after the wind and rain, she ushered in her own sunny day.
Back then, after Chen Songling's surgery, she found that the Hong Kong entertainment industry had no place for herself at all.
In desperation, Chen Songling went to the mainland to develop, and as soon as she arrived in the mainland, Chen Songling met Zhang Duo, who was 8 years younger than herself, in the crew of "Blood is Not Cold".
At that time, after Zhang Duo learned about Chen Songling's past, he was very distressed by Chen Songling, who had experienced countless ups and downs.
In addition, Chen Songling's business ability is very strong, which makes Zhang Duo appreciate it very much, and over time, Zhang Duo has a good impression of Chen Songling, so he launched a fierce love offensive against Chen Songling.
It's just that although Chen Songling also has a good impression of Zhang Duo, who is young and handsome and always gives people a very warm feeling, the inferiority complex in her heart makes Chen Songling unable to accept the love with Zhang Duo.
Especially after thinking that she had no way to be a mother, Chen Songling became more and more inferior.
Fortunately, in the face of Chen Songling's refusal, Zhang Duo did not give up once, and stayed by Chen Songling's side, shushing Chen Songling and asking for warmth.
Looking at such a good big boy and spending his precious time on himself, Chen Songling couldn't bear it after all.
In order to make Zhang Duo give up, Chen Songling told Zhang Duo that he couldn't have children, and was mentally prepared to be left by Zhang Duo.
However, what Chen Songling didn't expect was that Zhang Duo was even more distressed by Chen Songling's experience, and told Chen Songling:
"Isn't that just right, I just don't know how to educate children!"
Finally, in Zhang Duo's love, Chen Songling let go of all his inferiority complex and accepted his love with Zhang Duo.
Because at that time, Zhang Duo was just a little transparent in the entertainment industry, and he was 8 years younger than Chen Songling, so the relationship between the two experienced a lot of gossip.
However, even so, it still failed to stop the two from rushing to love.
Even in the midst of everyone's singing and declining, the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in 2011.
It's just that when the two got married, Zhang Duo wanted his mother to better accept Chen Songling as a daughter-in-law. So, he hid from Zhang's mother that Chen Songling couldn't have children.
This also laid a deep hidden danger for Chen Songling's future relationship with her mother-in-law, but this is all a later story.
After marriage, Zhang Duo silently shouldered the burden of supporting the family because he felt sorry for what happened to Chen Songling in his early years, and let Chen Songling heal at home.
In Zhang Duo's love and tolerance, Chen Songling healed the heartache caused by her early experience little by little.
It is precisely for this reason that Chen Songling later said in an interview:
"Zhang Duo is not only my husband, he is also my benefactor. ”
It's just a pity that such a peaceful life didn't last long.
Later, Zhang Duo's mother wanted to hold her grandson, so she mentioned the fertility problem to the couple.
At the beginning, Zhang Duo took this matter to himself, and said that he planned to "Dink" in the future.
However, Zhang Duo's mother, who wanted to hold her grandson, never gave up, so Zhang Duo's mother found Chen Songling and kept doing ideological work for Chen Songling.
Looking at her mother-in-law's expectations for her child, Chen Songling felt guilty.
Out of guilt, Chen Songling told her mother-in-law about her inability to have children in 2018.
However, what Chen Songling didn't expect was that his life would be turned upside down.
Because she felt that Chen Songling deprived her of the possibility of enjoying family fun in her later years, Zhang Duo's mother was no longer as kind to Chen Songling as before, and even looked for Chen Songling everywhere.
For example, when he knew that Chen Songling didn't like to eat garlic, he put garlic in his meal.
Once Chen Songling showed that she didn't want to eat, Zhang Duo's mother would accuse Chen Songling of being too hypocritical.
Even later, when the family participated in a variety show, under the lens of the show, Zhang Duo's mother never hid her dislike for Chen Songling.
Because of this dislike, Zhang's mother naturally did not have much respect for Chen Songling.
For example, when Chen Songling tried to find a topic to chat with Zhang Duo's mother in order to keep the show from being cold.
Zhang Duo's mother often ignores Chen Songling.
For example, Chen Songling sweated a lot because she participated in the warm-up exercise, and she was afraid of catching a cold, so she found a towel and put it on her body.
As a result, it was directly ripped off by Zhang Duo's mother and taken to Zhang Duo.
Fortunately, Zhang Duo did not criticize Chen Songling because of his mother's dislike for Chen Songling, because he knew very well in his heart that Chen Songling's inability to have children was not Chen Songling's fault.
Not only that, Zhang Duo often uses his own way to mediate the conflict between his mother and wife.
In Zhang Duo's love, Chen Songling was also very tolerant of her mother-in-law, and even in order to satisfy her mother-in-law's wish to enjoy family happiness, Chen Songling also proposed to adopt a child.
In the end, under Zhang Duo's explanation and Chen Songling's concession, Zhang Duo's mother slowly untied the knot in her heart and accepted Chen Songling.
The life of the family has finally returned to the harmony and happiness it once was.
And Chen Songling has recently become thinner because she has been losing weight, although the weight loss has been successful, but it has also made Chen Songling look old.
This phenomenon is actually not uncommon, just look at Jia Ling.
So those netizens who feel that Chen Songling's life is unhappy in her later years can wash and sleep early, and people live happily!
However, her "cliff-like aging" has also reminded all women that they still have to be cautious about losing weight.
epilogue
Throughout Chen Songling's life, it seems to be full of ups and downs, in childhood, the family suffered great changes, and later entered the entertainment industry, and her career finally improved, but she was betrayed by her agent and her career plummeted.
This was not enough, Chen Songling then lost the opportunity to be a mother.
Fortunately, later, Chen Songling met Zhang Duo, who was 8 years younger, under the love and tolerance of her lover Zhang Duo, Chen Songling, who had been "covered in bruises" because of her bad life, was cured little by little, and those human sufferings seemed to have disappeared, and only years were left for the rest of her life.
Finally, Chen Songling reaped her own happiness after going through thousands of sails.
Here, I wish every reader can meet the "Zhang Duo" in their lives as soon as possible and harvest the rest of their lives.