Text: White Tiger Jane
Edited by White Tiger Jane
suffered from ovarian cancer because of depression, had no chance to be a mother in this life, married a husband who loved each other, but her mother-in-law treated her as air, and even spoke ill of her, even the camera was unscrupulous, and she quarreled with her many times in the show, what did Chen Songling do wrong?
Mother-in-law treats you like air
Have you ever tried the feeling of being neglected? When you talk to someone, she talks and chats with others as if she didn't hear them, she doesn't give you a single look, and treats you completely as air.
In the reality show variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother 2" some time ago, Chen Songling's mother-in-law has repeatedly appeared on the hot search, if not for anything else, because of her behavior, which caused dissatisfaction among netizens. At the beginning of the show, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo were playing songs at home, and both of them seemed very happy and enjoyed this peaceful and beautiful life, but Zhang Duo's mother came with a phone call, which broke the beautiful atmosphere.
As soon as the phone was connected, Chen Songling greeted her mother-in-law and asked her how she was doing and where she was now, but her mother-in-law seemed to be unable to hear her, so she talked to her son by herself, and said on the phone that she was invited by the program team and was about to live at Zhang Duo's house for a while, and told her son. In and out of the words, he not only ignored Chen Songling's greetings, but also did not respect Chen Songling, the hostess, at all.
Chen Songling did not give up, she once again took her mother-in-law's words and talked to her mother-in-law enthusiastically, but was ignored again. This made Zhang Duo on the side very angry, his words immediately changed to the end of the conversation, and then hung up the phone, after hanging up the phone, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling looked at each other, Zhang Duo comforted his wife, and Chen Songling also said that it didn't matter. Obviously, Zhang Duo's mother's appearance is the norm, and both of them seem to be very Xi to it.
Look for things everywhere
After Zhang Duo's mother came to her son's house, what she did shocked netizens again, she not only ignored Chen Songling, but also opposed her everywhere, picking thorns everywhere, and even picking some unreasonable thorns, completely ignoring the existence of the camera. In her eyes, her son Zhang Duo is the best actor and son in the world, and her daughter-in-law Chen Songling is not worthy of him at all.
not only treats Chen Songling as air, but she will also instruct Chen Songling to do all kinds of work, her son Zhang Duo should rest in her eyes, and if she can't do anything, she should enjoy it. As long as Chen Songling is in a resting state, she has to find something for her to do, in short, she can't let her be idle, and treats her son and daughter-in-law completely differently.
Airs
Not only that, Zhang Duo's mother praised her son in the show, and said that her son was incomparable, the key is that she spoke very much like a poetry recitation, pinching her throat, saying a sentence very slowly, and her tone fluctuated very much, even Zhang Duo's father on the side couldn't bear it, so she stopped pretending to be like singing. Zhang Duo's mother could only smile awkwardly when she heard him demolish herself like this, and she didn't refute it, it can be seen that she doesn't usually talk like this, it's just because she's on the show, and it's really embarrassing to have such a heavy burden.
Every time she interviewed Zhang Duo's mother, she didn't leave her son for three sentences, saying that her son was impeccable in terms of appearance, height, character and acting skills, and he was so good that he couldn't do it, but she didn't say a word about her daughter-in-law. After a long time, even Zhang Duo's father couldn't listen to it anymore, and he bluntly said that you have been talking about your son, why didn't your daughter-in-law Songsong say it? Zhang Duo's mother smiled embarrassedly and couldn't refute anything.
A lot of dissatisfaction
Zhang Duo's mother's dissatisfaction with Chen Songling originated from her expectations for her excellent son, she hoped that her son could find a daughter-in-law who was smart, beautiful, young, and could do housework to take care of Zhang Duo, and Chen Songling was not only 8 years older than Zhang Duo, but also her own proud career, which doomed her not to be a little woman who would only take care of her husband at home, how could Zhang Duo's mother be satisfied?
In addition, there is one of the most important contradictions, that is, Chen Songling has suffered from ovarian cancer, but it is difficult to conceive again after being cured, which means that she and Zhang Duo will not have any more children of their own. Zhang Duo's mother couldn't accept it, but she couldn't resist her son's insistence, so she held her breath in her heart, no matter how she looked at Chen Songling, she didn't like it, and tried to find fault with her.
With these contradictions, she naturally can't get used to Chen Songling, and she doesn't know how to dress up, she doesn't know how to cook, and she doesn't do housework at home, Chen Songling doesn't like the gifts she chooses, and she usually doesn't bother to take care of Chen Songling's overtures. Although Chen Songling flattered in every way, there were times when she was wronged, the two often quarreled in the show, and many times they relied on the reconciliation of the program team to continue recording, which shows the depth of the contradiction.
If a husband is like this, what can a woman ask for?
Zhang Duo naturally knew the contradiction between his mother and wife, and even when he was in love with Chen Songling, he was strongly opposed by his mother, but thanks to Zhang Duo's persistence, his mother was finally able to compromise. Faced with his mother's aggressiveness and no-nonsense situation, Zhang Duo was simply in a dilemma, on the one hand, his mother who gave birth to him and raised him, he didn't want to make his mother angry, and the other half was the person he loved deeply, and he was reluctant to let his wife get hurt.
Every time there is a conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Zhang Duo will come forward to reconcile, so that her mother and wife feel better. Knowing that his mother is unreasonable, Zhang Duo also has his own measurements in his heart, when he can't reconcile, he will choose to stand on his wife's side, and often his mother will stop when he is facing Chen Songling. It is precisely because of his deep love and maintenance that Chen Songling will not care about her mother-in-law's bad words, and will take the initiative to seek peace after the matter has passed.
epilogue
There is a way of life for a generation, and you can't just say bad things to each other just because your daughter-in-law can't have children or doesn't meet your expectations, and directly treat each other as air. Zhang Duo can gladly accept his wife's problems and shortcomings, and love him very much, so there is no need for a mother to be entangled in one or two problems, which is easy for the relationship with her son to deteriorate, and it is not conducive to family harmony.
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