There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard it or not, saying: The plot is not the heart of the people, and there is nothing but human nature in dealing with the world. Human nature is unpredictable and human nature is a social reality that cannot be denied by human beings, so no matter how ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, there are works that teach us how to control human nature for people, such as "Ghost Valley".
Oniguchi is known as the Chinese's treasure book of wisdom, he mainly talks about the strategy of power and the art of speech and debate, to put it bluntly, it is the method of using human weaknesses and defeating opponents through various strategies and speaking skills.
Ghost Valley
Therefore, the essence of Oniguzi is a work that analyzes human nature, and all his tricks of scheming and vertical and horizontal skills are based on human nature, and when you think about human nature thoroughly, you can be invincible and invincible.
Similarly, if you can reduce the weaknesses of human nature in yourself, you will become stronger and stronger. There are a total of fourteen articles on the valley with a total of more than 10,000 words, so today I want to share with you three classic sentences that point directly to people's hearts and break human nature, which three sentences? Let's move on:
Oniguzi has such a sentence, although it is only a short nine words, but it can reach people's hearts and break through human nature, this sentence is: follow its desires to see its aspirations.
In the competition between people, if you want to defeat the opponent, the words of Oniguzi give the best ultimate plan. There are three steps to see their aspirations according to their desires, the first is "follow", follow is the meaning of conformity, follow, and the second step is to observe, to observe what? Observing his desires and likes, the third step is to discover his thoughts and intentions through observation, so as to capture the weaknesses of the other party.
The biggest weakness of human nature is desire, and if you want to defeat your opponent, it is easiest to start with his desire, but at the same time, let's not forget that our own desires are also our weakest places.
Zhuangzi once warned the world: Those who have deep lust are shallow in nature. So it is often our desires that defeat ourselves.
There is a saying in the ghost valley that breaks the rules of human nature, saying: "Mutual benefit is affinity, and mutual loss is neglect." The beneficiary, the profit, the loser, the harm. We have an old saying that "people are grouped together by groups."
However, Oniguzi said that people are close together because they have common interests, and they will also be estranged from each other because of the conflict of interests, and the so-called "cold and warm human feelings in the world" are many times just the embodiment of "mutual benefit is close, and mutual loss is sparse".
If you want to go long, if you want to get more support from friends, then you must know how to share benefits with others in order to achieve sustained success.
The last sentence to share with you is: the speaker is loyal and loyal. The original meaning of the word 佞 is to describe a person who can speak eloquently and is very intelligent, but in ancient times there was a word called Yu Chen, that is, a traitor who was good at clever words and flattery, this kind of good at pleasing others with rhetoric, it seemed that everything was very loyal for the sake of others, but in fact it was to achieve his own ulterior motives.
The weakness of human nature is to like to listen to praise and enjoy the compliments and praises of others, so we often mistake the person who has a honey belly sword for a friend, so that the loyal and adulterous do not distinguish themselves from the bitter fruit.
The above are the three sentences that break through human nature in "Ghost Valley", and it is better to understand than to read ten years of books and benefit endlessly!