The finale of "Golden Marriage", the picture of Tong Zhi and Wen Li walking hand in hand in the snow, made many people moved, and could not help but sigh: These 50 years, it is not easy.
Although Tong Zhi and Wen Li survived to the golden marriage, their marriage has not always been smooth and happy, so there are netizens on the bullet screen who comment: Such a torturous golden marriage, I would rather not.
As a popular saying on the Internet says: Couples who love each other have 100 divorce thoughts and 50 urges to strangle each other. Tong Zhi and Wen Li also moved the real character several times, fortunately, these three relatives helped to keep their marriage, and only then did they have the touching scene of the finale.
Wen Li's big sister does not play much, but this role is very important. Every time Wen Li gave birth to a child, what was waiting outside the delivery room was Tong Zhi and Wen Li's eldest sister.
Although Wen Li's eldest sister is not as beautiful and cultured as Wen Li, she has a general understanding and wisdom. Although the specific circumstances of Wen Li's eldest sister's marriage are not explained in the play, it is speculated from the plot that the Wen family has three daughters, wen Li can meet the eldest sister every time she goes home, and the eldest brother-in-law should be in excess.
From the conversation, it can be imagined that the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law have a very happy life, because the eldest sister always considers each other when things happen, and focuses on the overall situation. Women are the feng shui of the family, with such a good wife, the days are not happy.
Every time Tong Zhi and Wen Li have a contradiction, Wen Li returns to her mother's house to file a complaint, Wen's mother's attitude is to protect her daughter, and the second sister is on the side to stir up trouble, not a big deal. Only the eldest sister will remind Wen Li to reflect on herself and understand Tong Zhi.
Every time, the eldest sister would secretly reconcile and personally go to Tong Zhi and persuade Tong Zhi to take Wen Li home.
Tong Zhi is lucky because he met a sensible sister-in-law, if Wen Li's eldest sister and second sister were the same, Wen Li and Tong Zhi would have divorced long ago.
To tell the truth, at first I really didn't like this old lady, spoiled my son, didn't let my son do housework, and stubbornly disliked Wen Li for not being virtuous enough.
Later plots, slowly fell in love with this old lady, one is because the south she cultivated is sensible and has a career. Second, in the years when Tong Zhi went to the third line, her relationship with Wen Li became better and better.
The night wen li's mother-in-law was seriously ill, Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao were together, and the old lady knew it, but the old lady knew in her heart that her son's heart was still in this family.
Wen Li has no hope for her marriage, and her mother-in-law apologized to Wen Li before she died and told Wen Li: Live a good life.
The mother-in-law's advice made Wen Li dispel the idea of divorce, learn to accommodate, and keep her four children and husband to live a good life.
Careful netizens will surely find that after the death of her mother-in-law, Wen Li's personality has changed, from the previous willful and aggressive to gentle, and began to understand Tong Zhi.
Some people say that Wen Li gave in and surrendered, but I don't think so. Instead, Wen Li matured, became smarter, and learned to manage marriage.
Many viewers may not remember Wen Li's second brother-in-law, and the role of this role is only one episode. From the mouth of Mother Wen and the second sister, I learned that this person was slippery and unpleasant. But there was one thing he did right, convincingly.
Wen Li's mother-in-law fed Dabao mouth-to-mouth to eat, wen Li was not accustomed to it, and quarreled with her mother-in-law. Obviously it was her mother-in-law's fault, but Tong Zhi forced Wen Li to apologize to her mother-in-law, and Wen Li returned to her mother's house in a huff.
Wen Li's eldest sister looked for Tong Zhi several times, but Tong Zhi refused to bow his head. Persuade Wen Li to apologize and give her mother-in-law a face, but Wen Li also refuses.
The two people were deadlocked for a long time, Wen Li's second brother-in-law knew about this matter, personally went to the door to find Tong Zhi, originally thought that he would be angry for Wen Li, but did not expect him to tell Tong Zhi Wen Li that he knew that it was wrong. And back at his mother-in-law's house, he told Wen Li Tong Zhi that his intestines were all blue.
As soon as Mother Wen heard that Tong Zhi knew that she was wrong, she let Wen Li go back. In the evening, the two of them talked and learned that they had been deceived by the second brother-in-law, but Wen Li was not embarrassed to go back to her mother's house.
Marriage is not just a matter for two people, and the attitudes of those around us often affect our marriage. Wen Li and Tong Zhi can survive until the golden marriage, and these three relatives who "persuade and do not persuade to leave" are indispensable.
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