Some time ago, the actor Hu Jun's son, Kang Kang, was suddenly hotly discussed.
The reason is that Hu Jun mentioned in an interview that his son is a military fan.
So he showed Kang Kang the script of "Chosin Lake" that he was about to shoot, and wanted his son to grasp how the script was written.
Kang Kang was very interested after seeing it, spent several days seriously studying the script, and finally put forward some constructive suggestions for the script very professionally.
For example, the script mentions that heavy machine guns will penetrate tanks.
Kang Kang said that in fact, this was impossible to achieve, so he listed a series of professional data such as the model of the bullet and the thickness of the tank to Hu Jun.
So Hu Jun held a seminar with director Xu Ke and military experts, and put forward Kang Kang's opinions.
After hearing this, the military experts on the side praised him one after another, saying that Kang Kang was very professional, and then asked the screenwriter to revise the script.
During the filming of "Chosin Lake", Hu Jun will also take Kang Kang to the crew to visit the class, so that Kang Kang can experience the atmosphere of military guns, tanks, and real battlefields.
Such Kang Kang attracted a praise from netizens, and could not help but make people sigh:
3 years after the broadcast of "Where Did Daddy Go", the little boy who wanted to "fly a plane" when he grew up had been working hard for his dream.
Yau Chengtong, a tenured professor at Harvard University and an internationally renowned Chinese mathematician, once said: "For children, how much knowledge they learn is not the most important.
The cultivation of interest is the key to determining his lifelong career. ”
Deeply.
Seeing kangkang expand his interests into today's more professional knowledge, and can also talk to experts, I found that cultivating children's interests is a very important thing.
How important is interest to children?
Educational psychology says: Interest is an intrinsic force that can drive children's curiosity.
So it's a good thing for a child to have a hobby and stick to it, such as painting, dancing, music...
Although some interests have little effect on children in the short term, they will not bring huge benefits.
But if you stick to it for a long time, these interests and hobbies will become a special advantage for children, so that children can burst out of powerful abilities, thereby changing their lives.
Jay Chou is a typical example, he has shown unlimited obsession and love for music since he was a child.
Not only will they sing and dance along with the advertisements on TV, but they will also record their voices with a tape recorder for parents and friends to listen to.
And when Jay Chou was 4 years old, he could just listen to the teacher play the piano once, and he could immediately play it back, showing amazing memory and musicality.
Since then, parents have sensed that this child has a musical talent and will definitely make a difference in the music industry in the future.
After much deliberation, his parents decided to give all their savings to buy him a piano and develop his musical talent.
So the piano dominated Jay Chou's childhood, and also achieved his glowing life.
A child with his own interests and hobbies can withstand the wind and rain in real life, and can live happily, easily and freely every day.
Because when he focuses on what he is interested in, he feels joy and passion, and loves to make any suffering they suffer as if they were happy.
Therefore, parents must not miss the interest of children to shine, and must let children play their full potential in their own areas of interest and achieve a wonderful life.
Encourage your child to try more
It's not just about developing your strengths
Seeing this, I believe that many parents will say: "I don't know what the child is interested in, he doesn't know himself..."
There will also be parents who say: "Our children are interested in playing games, watching cartoons, and are really not interested in other things..."
Parents should understand that in order to cultivate their children's interest in something, it is actually difficult to expect their children to be self-conscious.
What is important is the encouragement and companionship of parents, so as to gradually stimulate children's interest and love for a project.
After my child went to the first grade of elementary school, he didn't find any hobbies that interested me, but just enjoyed watching cartoons very much.
"Pleasant Goat and Gray Wolf", "Bear Haunting", "Pig Man" and other classic cartoons, she will not fall behind every episode, and will watch it repeatedly.
After watching each time, my daughter would sing the theme song or interlude from these cartoons to us.
Sometimes they imitate the voices of these animated characters, and even like to show their voices in crowded places, and they are not shy at all.
So I enrolled her in a music training class to cultivate her children's musicality from an early age.
Now every weekend, she is very much looking forward to going to the training class to learn to sing, and find something she loves.
Professor Li Meijin said: "In the process of growing up, it is not enough to send the child to school, let the child go to various occasions, to let him contact and expand his interests.
Talent is such a thing, you do not look for him, the child may not find it for a lifetime. ”
Parents should know that their children are actually interested in everything that happens around them.
If parents observe carefully and carefully at this time, then children will have more confidence to explore the world and gradually discover their own interests and hobbies.
Therefore, we should encourage children to try more and enrich their children's amateur life, not only to develop their strengths, but to let children enjoy the fun of trying and feel the beauty of life.
Respect your child's choices
It is the best love that parents give their children
Every child has his own dreams and talents, and these are the treasures of the child.
However, if parents blindly pursue results and force the children to do what they want their children to do, it will not only consume the child's interest, but even sometimes suppress the child's breathlessness.
Some time ago, Wang Han's wife Yang Lele shared a paragraph about cultivating children's interests and hobbies.
Previously, in order to let her son receive a better education, she specially moved from Changsha to Shanghai, but she did not expect that the selection criteria for good schools were very strict:
For children in the first grade of primary school, the English level should reach the level of children in the fourth and fifth grades;
During the interview, the child is also required to write a small essay in English.
Looking at her son who did not meet the standards, she was very anxious.
So, she directly enrolled her son in 8 interest classes, swimming, fencing, basketball, programming, natural science, painting, music...
As long as you can let your son learn, all of them will be arranged for the child.
I thought that this would ease her anxiety and her son would become more and more excellent.
But the son has become less happy and carefree than before, and every day he has a bitter face, and even often pleads with her:
"Mom, can you give me a day off?"
When she heard her 6-year-old son say this, she began to reflect on herself:
"I've always wanted to do a good job, but am I doing it for his own good?"
"What did I bring to my child?"
"What kind of person do I want my child to be?"
"Do I want a child who excels in every way but is not happy?"
Finally, she found her answer.
Rather than excelling, she wants a mentally healthy child, a child with love and pursuit.
Therefore, she took the child back to Changsha, returned to the child's familiar environment and friends, and then slowly cultivated the child's interest after adapting.
Albert Einstein once said: "Children are born geniuses, and it is the parents who use the wrong educational methods in the process of their quest for knowledge, and the talent is stifled." ”
Forcing children to do projects that they are not interested in and forcing children to do things they do not want to do cannot bring substantial help to children, but will stifle children's talents and gradually consume children's patience.
Therefore, respecting the child's choice is the best love that parents give to their children.
For children, any kind of interest is meaningful.
In the book "Raising Girls", it is also written:
"Almost all children and adolescents have some kind of potential – interest, passion, talent or attention.
And all of this, if supported, can bring them great joy, provide them with motivation and direction. ”
These interests will not only increase the child's insight and enrich the child's experience, but also subtly enhance the child's temperament and make great achievements.
Therefore, we must use our own love to support children's interests, treat children's hobbies well, and finally achieve children's lives.