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"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

author:Reiko Fifi
"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

"Crushing peach blossoms is all over the ground, and the jade mountain is hard to help."

This sentence is Cao Gong's posthumous comment on the death of You Sanjie, the Yi people use incense souls and blood to sacrifice love, and the magic of love is so great. The third sister is from a humble background, out of the mud and not stained, is a strange woman with faith, has a warm expectation for love and freedom, and yearns for a loyal and unswerving feeling and marriage, but unfortunately Liu Xianglian has no eyes and pearls, missing true love.

On a April day on earth, the peach blossoms bloomed and scorched, and You Sanjie learned that Liu Xianglian repented of her marriage and used the Mandarin Duck Sword, a promise gift given to her by Liu Xianglian, to kill herself in order to die Mingzhi. At this point, Liu Lang could not regret it, even though his intestines were remorseful, it was a pity that the Yi people had gone, so he was not sad.

It is better to die with incense on the branches, and He once blew down in the north wind. The death of the third sister taught Xiao Liu a lesson, and Xiao Liu has since disappeared into the Tao and gone into exile. A good marriage, seeing that it is about to succeed, because Xiaoliu's hesitation is gone, the reason is that in addition to the constraints of the era background, ethics, and worldliness on Xiaoliu, but Xiaoliu's personal subjective reasons are also worth examining and pondering.

"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

Xiao Liu is known as Cold Face Erlang, a descendant of the original family, who has lost his parents since childhood, danced with swords, played the flute and kite, and traced the waves.

In that era, Xiao Liu could be said to be a person who had enough to eat, the whole family was not hungry, he had the capital of uninhibited and free, full of freedom and unrestrained, and the third sister who was not lost in nature, was a pair made in heaven and earth.

You Sanjie only has one old lady and second sister, relying on NingFu You and Jia Zhen to help, You Shi and they are not related by blood, You s old lady takes You Er Sister, You San Sister remarries You s father.

The third sister sent people to the fence, Xiao Liu wandered the world, so the two combined, Xiao Liu took the third sister to wander in the world, no one hated anyone.

It is a pity that Xiao Liu has been mixed in the rivers and lakes for a long time, he has not seen through in the end, he knows nothing about the world, and the so-called chivalrous bones are nothing more than a shell.

He beat Xue Pan with an empty fist, because Xue Duanzi mistook him for Youling; the road saw that Xue Pan was uneven, because of his righteousness, it showed that he was a good person and could clearly understand right and wrong.

But when he heard that the third sister lived in Ning Province, he regretted the promise letter sent to the third sister, and decided that as long as the woman who lived in Ning House was not clean, even the confirmation was not used, and he felt that it was necessary to return the love letter immediately. Having this kind of thinking shows that his words and deeds are too arbitrary and confused.

"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

First of all, he and Baoyu, Qin Zhong are good friends, Baoyu is from Rong Province, Qin Zhong is Qin Keqing's younger brother, and Keqing is from Ning Province. He himself had made friends with ning rong's second house, so how could he conclude that the third sister was an unclean daughter? There is a difference between Baoyu and ordinary men, Baoyu in the "mud" can be ice clean jade, why can't the third sister be an exception?

Second, read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. Xiao Liu did not read many words, and wordless books were filled with experience and experience. I believe that he must have known countless people and seen extraordinary things along the way. None of this gave him a point for his rational judgment of Third Sister You. He just laughed and proud all the way, what did he go to?

Again, he rebelled, obviously promised Jia Lian to be a matchmaker, sent a promise letter, and later repented. It shows that he attaches great importance to fame and dignity, and is meticulous about his partner's character standards, and does not tolerate half a mistake. If so, why not personally confirm the reputation of the third sister?

Looking at people's hearts at the critical moment, he thought in his heart that the other party's chastity suspicion would cause damage to his reputation, and he valued this more, even if it was unnecessary, everyone shoveled gold and destroyed bones. As long as there is a hint of suspicion, it will not work, regardless of whether the third sister is innocent or not. From this point of view, he wants face, face is more important than credibility and life, living in the eyes of others.

Jia Baoyu commented on the third sister, great joy, great joy! It is rare that this Peugeot person is indeed a wonderful ancient and modern person, worthy of your personality.

After the death of the third sister, Xiao Liu understood Bao Yu's words exactly, and saw that the third sister was extremely virtuous, and a true heart was only given to the person he loved, not a casual woman, only this point, he was not as good as, thinking that he and the third sister were really a perfect match between ancient and modern times, but unfortunately, the yin and yang were separated, and it was too late to regret it.

Compared to Baoyu's insight and transparency, he was much inferior.

A true chivalrous warrior, wandering between heaven and earth, uninhibited, especially does not care about the words of others, and exudes the detachment and extraordinaryness of "others laugh at me too crazy, I laugh at the world can not see through".

"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

Don't say that the third sister is suspected of chastity, compared to Xiao Liu herself", the third sister is just with Jia Zhen father and son, Jia Lian and other virtual and vicious snakes, that is called the true wind, the wind is not flowing. For example, the third sister is a man, free, bold, fearless really responded to the sentence, "It is she who prostituted men, not men who raped her."

Men can "look for flowers and ask willows", why can't women? You Sanjie did it, and gave the women a sigh of relief.

Men can, women can't, conservative Xiao Liu can't think straight, wrapped up for the world, he is an ordinary secular man, where is the fairy wind Dao bone. It is a pity that he has uninhibited capital, no uninhibited wisdom and courage, so he has a chivalrous face, no chivalrous bones and courage.

True celebrity, self-styled. The third sister is lonely and lonely, helpless, her heart is more like a chivalrous woman, unrestrained, with proud snow wind bones, dare to say and dare to do, Xiao Liu is ashamed of herself, she would rather die with incense in the branches, He once blew down in the north wind.....

"Dream of the Red Chamber": Liu Xianglian missed the true love of You Sanjie, and face is more important than the truth

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