Song Dandan no longer had patience and ripped off Ni Ping's 20-year fig leaf. Because Ni Ping's personality is very grinning, occasionally ignoring Song Dandan's feelings, slowly, the gap between the two people is more and more, so the two people eventually drift apart. Two people who go straight will become friends because of their directness, and they will also be separated because of each other's directness.
Ni Ping and Song Dandan
In the entertainment industry, there has always been a dark tide, especially between celebrities, most of them have a certain resource competition relationship. It is very likely that it will be broken because of a role, a job opportunity. No matter how good the relationship, in the end it is possible to turn the other cheek because of interests, so there is almost no real friendship in the entertainment industry. Ni Ping and Song Dandan were once a good couple in the entertainment industry, but they were separated because of various details and misunderstandings.
The friendship between Ni Ping and Song Dandan was very enviable, and the two met on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala. One is a fledgling comedy star, and the other is the host of the Spring Festival Gala. The two are similar in age, but they also like art, and they often communicate with each other. After coming and going, Ni Ping and Song Dandan became very good girlfriends.
We all know that Song Dandan is a regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala, and has brought us funny sketches on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times. "Lazy Man Blind Date" made Song Dandan a hit, in fact, there is Ni Ping's credit behind it. At the beginning, the two often discussed the work together, and it was Ni Ping who suggested that Song Dandan speak his lines with a local accent. After trying, Song Dandan found that the effect of comedy in dialect was more sufficient, so he adopted this suggestion, and sure enough, after the performance, it achieved a huge response.
Not only that, Ni Ping and Song Dandan are well-known rectums in the circle. They never like to hide what they talk and do, and they always say what they have. A straightforward person meets another straightforward person, and naturally it is a one-shot deal. Ni Ping and Song Dandan are not only similar in age and have the same three views, but also have a dedication to art. They can also seriously make suggestions and references for each other and take care of each other.
The friendship of the three views is always extremely enviable, but then Song Dandan and Ni Ping suddenly broke off their friendship and did not interact for 20 years. Until Song Dandan said the enmity between the two on the show many years later, it turned out that everything was a misunderstanding.
Song Dandan's divorce storm
Song Dandan has had three marriages in his life, the first marriage is very low-key, the outside world does not know who Song Dandan's first husband is, only know that in just half a year, this marriage was declared over.
Song Dandan's second husband, Yingda, not only has a strong background, but also is quite talented. When the two were working together, they had a love affair because of the drama, the love of the concubine, the door was right, and they entered the palace of marriage. At first, the two had a very good relationship, and they also gave birth to a son, named Inbatu.
However, Song Dandan and Yingda were more and more because they gathered less, and the contradictions between them intensified. Yingda even openly cheated on Liang Huan, breaking Song Dandan's heart. Song Dandan had already filed for divorce, but the elderly on both sides did not agree, and Song Dandan struggled in pain every day.
This time was the darkest time in Song Dandan's life, and Ni Ping, as a good friend, was very concerned about Song Dandan after learning the news. Asked about Song Dandan's situation many times, Song Dandan did not want his downfall to be seen by his friends, but only responded lightly with three words "I can".
In this way, Ni Ping did not care much about Song Dandan's love life. In Ni Ping's eyes, marriage should be decided by the parties, and she should not say anything more to interfere with Song Dandan's choice. At the same time, Ni Ping also believed that Song Dandan needed a quiet time to think, and did not have much contact with Song Dandan at that time.
However, in Song Dandan's eyes, he felt that this was Ni Ping's injustice. Song Dandan likes to be strong in her mouth, although she said that I can, she still hopes that as a good girlfriend, Ni Ping can come over to care for and visit herself. However, at that time, Ni Ping did not give Song Dandan too much concern, so that Song Dandan once thought that Ni Ping was not sincere about herself. The relationship between the two has thus created a rift.
The contradiction between Song Dandan and Ni Ping
After Song Dandan walked out of the divorce storm, she participated in a certain dinner party, and Ni Ping was also invited. At the party, Song Dandan was very happy to tell everyone that he and Ni Ping were particularly good friends. Unexpectedly, Ni Ping came to a sentence, "Do I know you?" Song Dandan was dumbfounded on the spot, and the atmosphere at the scene became very awkward.
In Ni Ping's eyes, she was just joking. However, in Song Dandan's eyes, Ni Ping said her heart through jokes. Originally, because of the divorce storm, Song Dandan had a crush on Ni Ping, and this time at the dinner table, Ni Ping did not give herself any face, so that The straight Song Dandan could not accept it.
Since then, the former good girlfriend has parted ways and has not been in contact for more than 20 years. Song Dandan grinned widely on the surface, but in fact, her heart was a person who was very eager to identify. Ni Ping, as a good friend she cares about very much, said such a thing, which made Song Dandan very hurt.
Finally reconciled after 20 years
It is said that adult friendship is precious. But once adults are fierce, they can really break away. After experiencing all kinds of turmoil and misunderstandings, Song Dandan wanted to break off relations with Ni Ping, and this break was 20 years.
In the variety reality show "Suddenly Heartbeat", Song Dandan and Ni Ping had the opportunity to meet again. Song Dandan grievanced and told Ni Ping the truth about the severance of diplomatic relations that year, and after Ni Ping listened, she immediately went forward to hug Song Dandan, "I didn't realize it at that time, then I will officially apologize to you now." The two finally solved the misunderstanding many years ago on the show, and finally got back together.
In fact, there was nothing wrong between Ni Ping and Song Dandan, but in the case of misunderstanding between each other, there was no timely communication. Ni Ping thought that It was impossible for Song Dandan not to hear that this was a joke, but in Song Dandan's eyes, after the divorce, all the friends around her turned their backs on themselves by defecting to Yingda. She is in the midst of adversity, and everything is seen with a bit of resentment. A joke makes the sensitive Song Dandan think that this is a sign that she betrayed herself and defected to Yingda.
Ni Ping has a straightforward personality and a strong heart, she likes to joke with others, and there is no obstacle in her heart. Song Dandan is straightforward on the outside, but delicate and sensitive on the inside. An unintentional joke may become a weapon to hurt yourself in the ears of others. It can be seen that no matter how good a friend is, jokes must also maintain the appropriate scale and measure.
People's sorrows and joys are not connected, and how to get along between girlfriends is also a technical job. Being able to break off friendship with each other for 20 years because of a joke fully shows that the foundation of their friendship is not solid. True friends should be able to achieve common hearts, you understand each other's jokes, and the other party understands your sadness. The three views are in harmony, the personality is the same, and the friendship can go further.
In friendship, we should also maintain a proper sense of proportion, no matter how intimate the relationship, we must leave room for each other, so as to maintain a safe distance in social interaction. Even if there is a misunderstanding between friends, they should sit down frankly and communicate with each other. Because every friend in our life is a precious treasure in our lives. With the company and care of friends, our lives will become more colorful.