Throughout the ages, there have been countless poignant love stories, and it is also very common to forget about the year with huge age differences. The reason why love is great is because people can break the shackles of the world, cross the age gap, abandon fame and fortune, and pursue the true love in their minds. No one is an exception in the face of love, and even the great contemporary writer Yu Qiuyu has made inexplicable decisions in terms of emotional life. Yu Qiuyu had two marriages in his life, the first marriage is not known, because with the second marriage, Yu Qiuyu, a literary bigwig, has embarked on the cusp of public opinion. For the sake of love, Yu Qiuyu disregarded the outside world's discussion and abandoned his wife and son to marry others and pursue the life he wanted.
Born in 1946 in Yuyao County, Zhejiang Province, Yu Qiuyu attended Shangju High School in high school and literature department in Shangju in college, graduating in 1966, and in 1975, Yu Qiuyu spent a year in Fenghua County studying Chinese history and culture with his teacher Sheng Zhongjian, laying the foundation for the future road of writing. In 1980, he published works such as "Draft History of Drama Theory" and "History of Chinese Theater Culture", and won various awards. Five years later, Yu Qiuyu became the youngest professor of literature in China by virtue of his efforts, and the following year he was awarded the title of "Shanghai Academic Elite". Yu Qiuyu has experienced two married lives in his life, and the most controversial is his union with Ma Lan.
Li Hong is Yu Qiuyu's original wife. Li Hong's family still has a little cultural background, so Li Hong has a good family education, and Li Hong has been given high expectations by the family since she was a child. However, Li Hong liked comedy since she was a child, and when she grew up, she ran to Shanghai to find opportunities to engage in the theater industry. Li Hongxian, who came to Shanghai, found a job in a textile factory, and as she worked, she learned about drama. Finally her efforts paid off and she became an extra in the repertory theatre. But this did not satisfy her pursuit of a theater career, and if she wanted to develop better, she had to study at the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Li Hong and Yu Qiuyu met at the shanghai theater academy admissions meeting in 1974, when 28-year-old Yu Qiuyu was a proctor teacher, and although 23-year-old Li Hong fell off the list, this young and beautiful girl had already attracted Yu Qiuyu's attention. Later, when "Spring Miao" was casting, Yu Qiuyu met Li Hong again, and Li Hong was also attracted by Yu Qiuyu's talent, and the two talked about love, five years later, Li Hong married Yu Qiuyu who had nothing despite her family's opposition, the marriage room was rented, there was no wedding dress or wedding ring, and the two young people got married as husband and wife and began to live.
The married life of the two was not so smooth, first Yu Qiuyu was forced to resign and idle at home, and could only do some housework at home. The two lived a difficult life, and then Yu Qiuyu was found to have hepatitis, and Li Hong had to work in Shenzhen in order to earn more money to treat Yu Qiuyu's illness. During this time, Yu Qiuyu created at home while recuperating from illness and wrote "Cultural Journey". The reason why he can create so safely is due to Li Hong's efforts, which makes him not have to worry about economic problems, And during the years when Li Hong went to Shenzhen, Yu Qiuyu gradually developed into a famous person in Shanghai. Although Li Hong's departure solved the economic problems, the long-term separation of different places caused many problems in the relationship between the husband and wife.
Li Hong, who returned to Shanghai from Shenzhen, found that her husband's attitude towards her had become cold, and the woman's intuition told her that there must be something in it, so she paid attention everywhere in her life, until one day Li Hong found Yu Qiuyu's letter to Ma Lan, the content of the letter was very numb. Li Hongcai suddenly understood that her husband, who had worked hard to provide for her, was behind her back and engaged with other women. Li Hong did not tolerate the choice of showdown, but she did not expect that Yu Qiuyu already had the idea of divorce, Li Hong suddenly realized, but Li Hong was not willing, after struggling for several years, or signed a divorce agreement, in 1992 Yu Qiuyu and Li Hong's 14 years of married life ended. In the same year, Yu Qiuyu married Ma Lan.
Ma Lan was born in 1962 and is a full 16 years younger than Yu Qiuyu. Ma Lan was born in a family of opera, his mother is a famous Huangmei opera actor, and his father is responsible for the creation of Huangmei opera, Ma Lan, who has a good family education, studied opera at the Xiqu Academy at the age of 13, and entered the Huangmei Drama Theater in Anhui Province after graduation. Such a starting point was very high at the time. Later, she successfully starred in the role of Tang Monk's mother in the 86 version of "Journey to the West" with a solid acting foundation. In 1984, at the age of 22, Ma Lan appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and has since become famous. Later, she participated in the filming of film and television works such as "Dream of the Red Chamber" and won many awards. He also received the Lifetime Achievement Award for Asia's Most Outstanding Artist in 2007.
In fact, Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan met as early as 1986 in the play "Remote Finger Apricot Blossom Village", the two fell in love because of the play, and Ma Lan's unique view of the performance was deeply appreciated by Yu Qiuyu, Ma Lan was also attracted by Yu Qiuyu's talent, it just so happened that Yu Qiuyu also created Huangmei opera many times, and the two had endless topics to talk about. In the exchange of work day after day, the two developed feelings. Yu Qiuyu's wife often takes care of Yu Qiuyu outside Malan all year round, and the two come together. Although Yu Qiuyu's family background is not as good as Ma Lan's, Yu Qiuyu's achievements in the literary world are enough to make up for the shortcomings in this regard. The life of two people after marriage is as sweet as their first love, and they often hold hands and go shopping together. Malan also quit his career as an acting artist and devoted himself to his family. It is regrettable that the two did not have a son and a half daughter after marriage.
It is said that there is no right or wrong in love, but "the wife of the chaff does not go to church" This is handed over to us by the ancients. Moreover, Yu Qiuyu can succeed, of which Li Hong has a great credit. Although it is said that it is sooner or later that Yu Qiuyu's talent can create a world in the literary world, the fact is that it is because of Li Hong's efforts that Yu Qiuyu can emerge in the literary world so early. And Yu Qiuyu is now despised because he abandoned his wife and family that helped him succeed, and turned to his so-called "love", not that Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan are not true love, but this practice makes no one able to forgive, and how difficult it is for Li Hong to live alone with her children after divorce. Free love will not be opposed, but try not to hurt the feelings of others because of their own selfish desires, such an immoral approach will also be condemned by everyone.