01 The son committed suicide by jumping off the building, and the father wanted to go to surrogacy and was reported by his daughter
In December 2021, Yi Jingbo, an 18-year-old teenager, committed suicide by jumping from the roof of his home. He had just been admitted to university and was spending his last autumn in Shanghai.
Yi Ting knew that her younger brother had bad moods and insomnia in high school, but she thought it was just the confusion of adolescence, and her younger brother was precocious and thought about the meaning of life too early. That's how she came, she thought her brother could "escape" too.
His younger brother Yi Jingbo once said that his parents often quarreled, and when his sister was depressed, his parents hid his sister's medicine and locked her in the house like an animal, which made him feel very painful. The family has been arguing, he has communicated with his parents countless times, but to no avail, he is very disappointed in his parents and the family.
Yi Ting tried various ways to keep him, but in the end she failed to do so. Their most loyal allies in families full of verbal violence are also "depressed children" who fell into an emotional black hole when they were teenagers.
After the death of their younger brother, the parents were paranoid about having another child. After several failed IVF attempts, they intended to be a surrogate. Yi Ting decided to speak out, hoping to stop the cycle of tragic fate.
At the end of April, Yi Ting noticed that her father had taken action and called the local police again to "report".
Yi Jianqiang said that at first, he didn't think about having another child, whether the neighbor next door or acquaintance was the first to mention it, or it was better to have another child.
Yi Jianqiang and his wife Chen Ying went to see palmistry, and the fortune teller said that he had two sons in his life. With this conclusion as a support, he began to urge his wife to do IVF.
I did it for more than a year and didn't succeed, so the surrogacy will work. In short, he wants to train another person in his lifetime, from 0 to 18 years old, to train him to grow up. He stressed that he is 54 years old this year, and there is some sense that time is not waiting.
Tingting reacted violently, but he couldn't control it so much. He said that this should also be a good thing for Tingting. "20 or 30 years later, we are gone, and Tingting still has a relative. It was only then that she realized that her parents were right, and we were right back then. Right? "He's going to prove himself again." At least there is a changed father," Mr. Yi said.
In order to avoid her increasingly paranoid husband, Chen Ying ran back to the countryside in late March. In fact, she hasn't decided whether to have another child yet. In the nearly two years before that, she had gone through a painful and lengthy IVF attempt. Now, she is caught between the conflict between her husband and daughter. is not only afraid of hurting Yi Ting, but also worried about what will happen to her husband.
She still doesn't believe it, and she doesn't understand that her son chose to commit suicide. Jing Bo is obviously very lively in school, has a good relationship with teachers and classmates, performs well, attracts people, and is a "leader". She still firmly believes that the girl who broke up with Jingbo is the culprit.
When she filled in the volunteers, she strongly asked Jingbo to go to Changsha to study, wanting to be closer to her son. But the son quietly changed his mind and ended up in Shanghai, thousands of kilometers away from his hometown. She gave Jing Bo very little money for college living, only 1,000 yuan a month. Chen Ying has his own reasons, "I just want him to call me more, because you are too far away, and to be honest, I want to hear your voice." ”
Chen Ying said that she hopes that Tingting can have a child, which can also solve the problem of "inheritance". "My purpose is to have a person below, just to fight for this breath," Chen Ying said, after her son's death, she couldn't stand the scrutiny and sympathy from those outside perspectives - no matter how much money you earn, if you don't have offspring, it's useless.
Liu Hao accidentally connected with this broken family. One day, a commemorative video recorded by Yi Ting for her younger brother appeared in Liu Hao's information stream. He left a message in the comment area, saying that he probably didn't want to go on either. Unexpectedly, I received Yi Ting's reply that night.
At the end of September 2022, he came to Xiangtan from his hometown in Henan and lived in Yi Jingbo's room. He said that his biggest role in this small family is to transmit information, Yi Ting has already blocked the contact information of her parents, and her uncle and aunt have learned about Yi Ting's movements through him. He felt that Yi Ting really regarded him as a younger brother, and he felt the family affection he had never felt in this strange sister.
What does Liu Hao want to give back. He rummaged through Jing Bo's room, wanting to leave some memories of his younger brother for Yi Ting. But there was nothing, he only found traces of water dripping on it in a book about psychology, which should be tears that had been spilled open.
Jing Bo left no trace in this house. Liu Hao guessed that death was Yi Jingbo's long-planned plan, a perfect revenge. "What do you mean by that? When you die, everyone starts to love you. (Aurora Studios)
Netizen comments
Damn someone else.
The whole picture of extreme suffocation in East Asian families: family parents with psychological problems, depressed daughters, depressed teenagers who commit suicide, surrogacy who give birth to a son complex, damn dads......
It is a tragedy to have one more.
If the son is dead, there will be no offspring, and the daughter is a big living person is air? With such parents, it is no wonder that the son would commit suicide.
Death is the perfect revenge, and the dead child is really pitiful. The son did not love the son when he died, and if the son came back to life, he would still treat the son the same as before.
It was the parents who were to blame for their son's death.
02 Nantong car accident citizens mourn the deceased girl, rescuers beg netizens not to spray again
On May 10, a bus carrying students collided with a muck truck in Nantong City, Jiangsu Province, injuring several students, one of whom was in critical condition and died after rescue efforts failed. In addition to the responsibility of the bus and muck truck drivers, the role of traffic light failure in this car accident tragedy has also attracted much attention.
According to the relevant person in charge of the traffic police detachment of the Nantong Municipal Public Security Bureau, the preliminary investigation found that before the incident, when the bus passed through the intersection from north to south, the straight signal light was not lit due to the failure, and the driver did not carefully observe the intersection and passed at a speed of more than 30 kilometers per hour. The muck truck involved is suspected of violating regulations and driving in the restricted area, and the driver of the muck truck has been controlled.
May 12, Nantong, Jiangsu. At the door of the funeral home where the girl who died in the car accident was, the citizens spontaneously bought flowers and toys to see them off. On the 13th, the Nantong funeral home said that it is okay to express love and send flowers, and the funeral home has no right to interfere with personal behavior, and there is no special process, just go over directly. Some netizens were curious about how flowers and toys would be handled, and the funeral home said that it was a service unit and would follow the workflow to deal with flowers and toys.
On May 13, rescuers at the scene of the Nantong bus accident, that is, took off their clothes to supply @Guago616 women's clothing covered by the deceased little girl Voice: I am an ordinary person from Suyu District, Suqian City, Jiangsu Province, please don't spray me and kneel to thank you, because I just happened to pass by and did something that everyone would do when they saw it. Previously, the mother of the girl who was killed in the Nantong bus accident had said that she wanted to find a rescuer who covered her daughter's clothes, she said: "He gave my daughter the last dignity." ”
Netizen comments
Yes? What is the point of spraying him?
may be because the report said "the rescue is ineffective", and he covered his clothes on the spot.
Because he himself is an e-commerce seller of clothes, after this incident, he was sprayed when he sold clothes in a normal live broadcast.
As long as you want to spray, there is no point that they can't cut.
Thank you so much for this big brother in Suqian. To be brave enough to go up to help the children, the scene must have been very tragic at that time, and most people did not dare to go.
Thank you, eldest brother, for covering the girl's face with the only piece of clothing on his body. This is the respect and final protection of life, and it is also the humanistic care for the girl's family.
Looking at the situation of the little girl at that time, to be honest, she couldn't bear it, let alone if there were children in the family or even children of the same age, it was simply unbearable.