"There is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and there is no virtuous wife in the long poor family." In the face of all kinds of misfortunes in life, no matter how kind people are in ordinary days, it is difficult to be consistent, but Xiang Kun is an exception.
He did not abandon his wife who was seriously ill, and even if the doctor asked him to prepare for the aftermath, he did not bow to fate, but tried to find a home remedy, hoping to cure his wife's illness. "Sincerely, the golden stone is open." Perhaps Xiang Kun's sincerity really touched the heavens, or maybe this folk remedy really worked.
Under the meticulous care of Xiang Kun, his wife Ruan Fei's health improved day by day, miraculously radiant. What exactly is this mysterious folk remedy? What difficulties did XiangKun overcome in order to cure his wife's lung disease? Behind the medical miracle is the sincere feelings between the husband and wife.
The newlywed Wife of Yan'er is seriously ill
"A hundred years of love and double heart knots, a thousand miles of marriage." Five hundred times of looking back in a previous life can be exchanged for a shoulder rub in this life. Two people married is the greatest fate between people.
Xiang Kun, formerly known as Wang Xiangkun, is a famous drama and film actor in China. When he was filming the film "Young China", he had a secret affair with the supporting actress Ruan Fei in the play, and successfully entered the palace of marriage.
"Since ancient times, many beautiful people have many lives, and the spring behind closed doors has fallen." In the year of marriage, her husband Xiang Kun was only 27 years old, while his wife Ruan Fei was only 24 years old. This age is not an early marriage in the eyes of ordinary people, but it is already very early for actors.
However, not long after the happy days, Ruan Fei fell ill with lung disease. In those days, tuberculosis was seen as a terminal illness. After several fruitless medical attempts, the doctor told Xiang Kun to let him prepare for his wife.
At this time, the two people had been married for less than a year, and Ruan Fei had not yet had children. If Xiang Kun gave up on this, there was no need to bear any moral condemnation. But Xiang Kun is such a ruthless and unrighteous person, he is so deep that now he is ruan fei's only dependence, if he gives up on her, then the final outcome of waiting for his wife is death.
Xiang Kun has been a hot-blooded young man since he was a child, he can put his own safety aside for the sake of the country, and naturally he will not abandon his wife who is seriously ill. Since then, Xiang Kun has accompanied Ruan Fei on a long road of treatment.
At this time, Xiang Kun was in a period of career climbing, and choosing to take care of his wife was bound to have a certain impact on his career. Coupled with the fact that he and his wife Ruan Fei have been married for only a year, Ruan Fei's fame is far less than his, so many people regret him. And his wife Ruan Fei also knows that she has "dragged down" her husband Xiang Kun, and even she herself does not have much hope for curing tuberculosis.
For Xiang Kun, he needs to consider far more than this one issue. Financial pressure, pressure to take care of his wife, pressure from acting career, all need to be borne by him alone. But Rao is so, in the face of his beloved wife Ruan Fei, Xiang Kun still maintains a strong and optimistic look.
Ask for a folk remedy to save your beloved wife and husband
"There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of those who have a heart." After trying various methods, Xiang Kun finally asked an old Chinese medicine doctor for a home remedy for tuberculosis. In addition to several common herbs, pig bones are also needed as medicinal citations.
Today, it does not seem difficult to find pig bones, but for Xiang Kun at that time, it meant a heavy financial burden. The wife is seriously ill and naturally unable to go out to work. With Xiang Kun's income alone, he can only barely make ends meet, so how can he have spare money to buy pig bones?
Fortunately, the butcher shop at that time would throw away the bones of the pigs that had been stripped of the meat every day. In order to cure his wife's illness, Xiang Kun stood at the door of the butcher's shop early every morning, waiting to pick up the bones thrown by the butcher and go back to make soup medicine for Ruan Fei.
Before antibiotics were developed, there was nothing people could do about tuberculosis bacteria. Because tuberculosis is contagious, people avoid people who suffer from the disease.
Now it seems that the role of this folk remedy obtained by Xiang Kun is to improve immunity. If you can pay attention to rest and absorb enough nutrients, you can effectively prolong the life of the patient. From this point on, Xiang Kun alone shouldered the heavy responsibility of earning money to support his family and taking care of his seriously ill wife.
He worked late into the night, came home and slept for only a few hours, and then went to the door of the butcher's shop to pick up pig bones. After picking up the pork bones, Xiang Kun also hurried home to make soup medicine for his wife. In addition, he also helps his wife make nutritious food. Such a life, Xiang Kun insisted on it for several years.
Careful care will eventually improve
Under the meticulous care of Xiang Kun, his wife Ruan Fei's health improved day by day. In order to prevent the recurrence of the disease, Xiang Kun still insisted on boiling medicine for his wife.
After two years of long companionship, Ruan Fei's body not only recovered his health, but also rejuvenated the beautiful appearance of the past. For Ruan Fei, Xiang Kun is tantamount to giving her a second life, so deep that it is naturally worth her to give everything she has.
After that, Ruan Fei was willing to give up his beloved acting career and chose to become the woman behind Xiang Kun. She not only kept the house in order, but also gave birth to a healthy and lovely son for Xiang Kun.
And Xiang Kun did not ignore Ruan Fei's feelings since then, he took the initiative to take on part of the housework, and when the children were slightly older, Ruan Fei could have his own time.
In an era when medical conditions were not yet developed, tuberculosis was seen as an incurable disease. But in the face of his wife who is seriously ill, Xiang Kun did not choose to abandon, which is a manifestation of a man's great sense of responsibility. In order to cure his wife's lung disease, Xiang Kun tried various methods to finally find a home remedy, which is the strength of persistence.
Due to economic reasons, Xiang Kun could not afford the cost of pig bones, and he was willing to leave his hair for his wife and go to the butcher shop every day to pick up pig bones that the vendors did not want. The eldest husband can flex and stretch, and this truth is vividly displayed in Xiang Kun's body. Although the love between him and Ruan Fei is not too vigorous, it can withstand the test of reality.
For Ruan Fei, she has a high passion for her acting career, but she is willing to marry Xiang Kun in her best years. Women after marriage inevitably face the problem of childbearing. The impact of having children on women's body is tantamount to ruining the actress's acting career.
But the couple never put their own efforts on their lips, and this is exactly the best way to marry.
Nowadays, when it comes to marriage, people think more about the interests of the individual. But between husband and wife, there are very few who can accompany each other smoothly all the way for life. If you do not have the intention of paying for each other and get married in a hurry, you can only end up parting ways in the end.
Deep feelings for the rest of their lives to support each other
"As a husband and wife, there is no doubt about love." After experiencing such changes, Xiang Kun's relationship with his wife Ruan Fei became deeper and deeper. They worked together for 48 years, until Nguyen Phey died of illness in 1990, which separated them.
Without Xiang Kun's persistence, how could two people have the affectionate companionship of nearly half a century? If Xiang Kun had chosen to give up early, would he have spent the rest of his life in regret?
Admittedly, in the face of a cruel disease that has no cure, people seem so weak and powerless. But from ancient times to the present, there is no shortage of such miracles, under the action of love, it is possible to create miracles of life. With the development of medicine, tuberculosis has long ceased to be an incurable disease. However, there are still many people who are worried about the risk of infection and let patients endure long-term discrimination.
Nguyen Phi was unfortunate, she contracted a serious illness in the best years of a woman, and was even sentenced to "death" by doctors at one point. As an actress, the impact of the interruption of her acting career is enormous. But Ruan Fei is extremely lucky, because she has met such an excellent husband as Xiang Kun.
In the face of the cruel condition, this man did not choose to retreat, but strongly walked in front and took on everything. Perhaps it was their sincere feelings that touched the heavens, and Xiang Kun really found a home remedy for his wife's lung disease. But the real medicine of this folk remedy is the sincere feelings between the husband and wife.
"May the hearts of one man be won, and the white heads shall not be separated." Being able to accompany a person to the white head depends not only on luck, but also on the silent payment of each other. Love needs wind and snow, and marriage needs to go through wind and rain.