In the novel "The Life of the Abandoned Matsuko" by Japanese writer Soki Yamada, the heroine Matsuko has emotional connections with several men, but without exception, all of these men have become the initiators of her failed emotional story.
The failure of Matsuko's feelings is, in the final analysis, because she is too simple, and no matter when the feelings occur, she treats them with a pure heart.
But in fact, not all feelings are worth investing in, those feelings that are not true love, only know how to distinguish and stay away, in order to make themselves less hurt.
Combined with the experience of Pine Nuts, we can find that if a man looks for you at the following three special moments, it seems to be affectionate on the surface, but in fact, it is just playing with your feelings, and you must know how to polish your eyes.
In the eyes of his rival Okano, Che is a very talented writer, but he suffers from not being famous and cannot be discovered, so he cannot play commercial value.
After being with Matsuko, Che also quit his job and began to write full-time, but in this case, the two could not survive without income, so all the living expenses had to be solved by Matsuko.
But it is very surprising that Che also asked his girlfriend Matsuko to become a Turkish girl. You know, it was a place where the flesh was sold, and even Okano said it was incredible when he found out.
But because of her poor life and cowardly Pine Nuts, who had no self, actually listened to Cheya's request, obediently ran to the interview in order to make more money, and humiliatedly took off her clothes in front of the manager.
However, because of her poor performance, she did not succeed in her application.
When she went home and told Cheya the news of the failure of the application, she actually got a slap from Cheya. What's even more disgusting is that after beating the pine nuts, he asked, "You should go to other stores tomorrow for an interview, right?" ”
After receiving Matsuko's negative answer, he pressed Matsuko's head to the ground without pity, ready to continue.
Poor Pine Nuts, at this time, were still thinking about helping Che to mend their socks the next day. She had not doubted Cher's love for her at all. Even though he beat her all night and scolded her and forced her to be a Turkish girl, she still believed him with a dead heart.
I have to say that Matsuko is particularly cowardly in this relationship, she is humble and cheap, and has never been self. Che is also cowardly enough to force her own woman to sell herself to support herself, and she has no heart to resist.
Because she believes that Che also loves her.
But in reality, it was just her wishful thinking, and she was a meal ticket for Tetsuya.
Che also needs Matsuko's income to support himself, and occasionally gives her a little love, but when Matsuko has no use value and no income to give him, he only treats Matsuko as a dog he raises and can be scolded at will.
But poor Matsuko could not see this sad truth, and Che did not love her, he was taking advantage of her kindness and cowardice.
A man who truly loves you will not ask a woman to sell himself to support him, his poverty is caused by himself, but he lets Matsuko take charge of the result.
All he loves is the ability of pine nuts to work, and before he succeeds, he needs to rely on pine nuts to help him get out of poverty and destitute.
Such a man is very hateful, he does harm in the name of love, giving you a little love but asking you to give him more and more.
When a woman meets such a man, physical and mental trauma is inevitable. So when looking for a partner, you must polish your eyes, run quickly when the signs are not right, don't be like pine nuts, the slaps are all hit in the face, but they still rush up to let him hurt.
Okano is a husband with a wife.
Before he was alive all night, he and Matsuko were only nodding friends, and after Tetsuya committed suicide, he also helped Matsuko to help him, and he greeted Matsuko warmly, quite caring.
At this time, Matsuko had just been ruthlessly left behind by Cheya, quite physically and mentally traumatized, and she did not have any resistance to the care of sending her to the door, so when Cheya's bones were not cold, the two came together without scruples.
Matsuko thought that Okano was truly in love with him and was looking forward to the future of the two of them, and she even secretly followed Okano home, just to sneak a glance at the wife in his mouth that made him unhappy.
However, Matsuko once again misjudged the man. A man is a person who can distinguish love from sex very clearly, and Okano is not with him because of love, but because of jealousy of Tetsuya's talent, which makes him want to possess Matsuko.
Because in addition to a little talent, Cher has no money, no money, no fame, but he can have a girlfriend like Matsuko, who is young and beautiful, good-looking, and understanding, Okano feels very unfair.
He felt that Toru should not have so much, so after Tetsuya's death, Okano possessed Matsuko's body and mind in order to declare his victory to Toruya.
Matsuko's physical and mental damage after being abandoned, this is her most vulnerable time, but also the most likely time for people with hearts to take advantage of the void, Okano seized this point, in the name of care for selfish purposes, easily won Matsuko's love.
Pine nuts in the bureau did not think that when women are most vulnerable, the men who send them to the door are not necessarily all sent in the snow, and there may be care for another purpose.
If you think that's love, you're dead wrong.
As a woman who has just lost a relationship, staying calm and sane is necessary. You know, not all warmth is behind love, but it may also carry hurtful arrows.
"Onodera, why are you betraying me?"
It was Matsuko's roar at the age of 50, when she suffered from depression and struggled every day on the brink of collapse. She recalled her life, counted everyone's failure to treat her sincerely, and felt unwilling.
Onodera became a ghost under the knife because of Matsuko, because he betrayed her, Matsuko believed in him so much, but he took Matsuko's money to gamble, to raise young college students, and to go out and live happily with the money from Matsuko's sale of his body.
You know, the money was all sold by Matsuko's dignity in exchange for her body, she had a plan for her hard-earned money, and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with Onodera to open a small restaurant.
But Onodera only used her as a tool to make money.
If you think about it, the initial union of the two was not because of love, they were both tied together because of interests, and it is not surprising that there is such an ending.
When Onodera met Matsuko, Matsuko was already the top player among Turkish girls, earning more than a million yen a month.
Onodera offered her the intention to cooperate, and he would be Matsuko's agent, and Matsuko's ability would inevitably earn at least two million yen or more a month.
After listening to Onodera's proposal, it is easy to believe in the man's innocence and ambition to have more money, so Matsuko agreed without much thought.
It can be seen that at that time, the income of pine nuts was much higher than that of Onodera, and onodera's purpose of approaching pine nuts was also for money. So when Matsuko ignores her money and leaves it to Onodera to take care of, she should think of such a result.
Who can face a huge amount of money every day and be unmoved, not to mention that Onodera is a man with a bad habit of coveting pleasure, which is basically to challenge him to the greed of human nature.
In fact, this is impossible to succeed, so it is inevitable that Onodera will take matsuko's money.
Why do many successful women now dare not easily enter the relationship? Because pine nuts are a lesson for the past, if you are looking for a man who is not as good as yourself, and you make more money than him, it is likely that you will become a tool for the other party to use.
Therefore, when stepping into a relationship, it is really necessary to be door-to-door, which can make your relationship a lot less risky.
When you have more money than the other party, the feelings that the other party takes the initiative to send to the door are suspected of being used, and you should not expect this at the beginning, and protecting your feelings and wallet can save you from harm.
In the relationship, women are inherently more vulnerable than men, if the love sent to the door during the special period, without serious investigation and jump into it, you have half the possibility of harvesting happiness, but there is also half of the risk of harvesting hurt.
Hopefully, women can stay sane at all times and consider whether to accept the temptation of love with a sober attitude, after all, the impact of a failed relationship on life is huge.
Pray that all women reap genuine love, not exploitation and hurt.
"The Life of the Rejected Pine Nuts" writes the flattering personality to the extreme, a large part of the tragedy of the pine nuts is caused by themselves, reading this book, we can understand human nature more thoroughly, but also understand the many truths in the feelings.
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