Thank you for having me, paying attention to me, and solving your emotional problems for you!
Author: Morning Dawn Orange
Wen Pei, Yi Ping's mother, Wen Pei, once said something similar to her daughter who wanted to be a singer:
"Don't go to that kind of place, you will be worn out by song and dance, lose your temperament, be blinded by wine, and fall into depravity."
This sentence is philosophical, and it also applies to every desperate, self-deprecating and self-deprecating person.
Today, when I watched "The Life of the Rejected Pine Nuts", I really felt a lot.
Matsuko lingers on all kinds of men, but each man is just a scene, yin and yang, and does not show his true heart for a moment.
Poor Matsuko's whole life, deceived by one man, and let down by another man, how pitiful she is!
But her pity is not worth it, nor should she be sympathetic!
Why? And listen to me.
Pine nuts are very pitiful to me.
She is very short of love, because there is a younger sister in the family, who is born weak and sickly, so her parents give more love and attention to her sister.
Therefore, Matsuko studied desperately, she wanted to get her father's praise through excellent grades, she worked hard, when she volunteered for college, she also gave up her beloved science, obeyed her father, learned literature, became a teacher, and also worked in the school in her hometown according to her parents' wishes.
It can be said that in order to get the attention of her parents, Matsuko tried her best, but she did not get much in return.
Matsuko is confined to her own world and feels that her father does not love her, but in fact, her father does not love her, but their energy is really limited, and her sister needs to be taken care of more.
The father had to support the family alone, and every day he was busy, and the time and love were given to the sister, because they felt that this thin child needed more care.
However, Matsuko did not want to understand these things, and she was jealous and hated her sister, and even almost strangled her sister when she ran away from home.
Entering society, Matsuko met her lover Tetsuya, a writer who was talented but did not become famous.
Writer Che is also a grumpy man, he is macho, ignores Matsuko's feelings, kisses Matsuko in front of outsiders, and has no pity for Yu. He had no money, so he let the pine nuts sell themselves and pay for themselves, but he didn't know how to reciprocate.
In this relationship, Matsuko bowed her knees, despised herself, and after being abused by Cheya, she still cried and begged not to break up.
After Tetsuya chose to commit suicide because he was not born at the right time and failed to achieve his revenge, Matsuko was carefully cared for by Tetsuya's friend Okano, and finally fell in love. However, Okano is a married man.
Matsuko has never had reason in the face of love, and she loves to die and come back to life, completely abandoning self-esteem and the bottom line.
She thought Okano was the man who loved her.
But in the end, Okano also told the truth, saying that he did not love Matsuko, he just wanted to get revenge on Tetsuya by cheating Matsuko's feelings, get a sense of accomplishment, and satisfy his jealousy.
Poor Pine Nuts are deceived by two scumbags, and the hope in their hearts is extinguished, toyed with, and becomes a person who has lost the bottom line.
How did Matsuko deal with the scumbag's play with himself?
She learned the truth and said to Okano:
"I'll die to show you!"
But Okano just said lightly, "Whatever you want, it has nothing to do with me." ”
Cool to this point, no one can surpass it!
In the end, Matsuko gave up on herself and became a prostitute on her own.
This is Matsuko, a sad and pitiful life, she will live herself in a vacuum, after being hurt by love, she does not feel sad and hurts herself, but abandons herself and allows herself to fall into such a situation.
I don't know if I mean to say she's stupid? Still stupid!
The reason why I say that Matsuko's life should not be sympathized with is because Matsuko's tragic life is mostly the result of her connivance and laissez-faire.
If she sets the bottom line when Che also hits herself, so that Che also knows the consequences of his mistake, then will Che also hit her for no reason? At least, after beating her, let him get the same treatment, but also let him feel that he is not a person who can be bullied at will, and the life of the pine nut is at least better.
And if Matsuko doesn't love so humblely, would Che dare to let Matsuko go into prostitution and get money? A person who loves himself will never let people use such insulting words to support himself, and her aura is enough to deter all the obscenities and filth.
If Matsuko had her own bottom line and didn't live humbly, would Okano's revenge still succeed? Married men can't touch it, so that there is no wrong first step of their own, so how can Okano's hurt hurt through his heart?
What hurts me the most is that Matsuko gave up on herself after the betrayal and chose to become a prostitute, obviously she is a person who can have a good future, but she has fallen to the most pickled point!
All these painful and tragic realities are because Matsuko does not love herself enough, so let those scumbags succeed, let these mistakes, step by step, push themselves into the abyss!
A man who doesn't love himself, who will love you?
I'm not criticizing and looking down on Matsuko, it's just that I really feel sorry for this girl, she wants to be loved by others, she wants others to love her, but she forgets to pick up the important ability of self-love.
Just like the name of one of Zhou Fan's books: "When you start to love yourself, the whole world will love you."
The world is like this, and only by loving yourself can you get the love of the world. That's why I say that Matsuko's life should not be sympathetic, because: on the way to the road of life, we who are hurt should not take cowardice and self-contempt as a matter of course, and depravity is not a natural reaction after the fact, self-improvement and self-reliance are the right practices!
So, instead of letting yourself fall, pick up self-love and embrace the future!
—the end—
Topic: What do you think of the experience of Pine Nuts who became a prostitute?
Comments are welcome!