As long as I love you and you have me in your heart, I will be satisfied. This love is disconnected from fidelity.
I love you 100 percent, and you must love me 100 percent. Such love and fidelity are mixed together.
Love is disconnected from loyalty, and such love is often provocative and legendary, like Jin Yuelin to Lin Huiyin, like Charles to Emma in "Madame Bovary", who can say that such love is not enough.
And the love that belongs to all sentient beings will always be full of entanglements and pains that cannot be passed, that is, when the desire for love and fidelity must be connected, they are dramatically separated, and the result is nothingness without any weight.
At midnight, I received a call from Xiao Fan, who said in a low voice, "Wang Jing betrayed me, I am in pain." ”
It was his first love, and he didn't want to give it up, but the betrayal of his lover was like a knife hanging his heart, not an ordinary pain. What about Wang Jing's attitude, I asked him. She was begging for my forgiveness. Xiao Fan asked me, what should he do next?
Xiao Fan and his girlfriend Wang Jing studied at a university in Hunan, met at a hometown party, and later established a relationship, after graduation Wang Jing went to a real estate company in Guangzhou for internship, and Xiao Fan was admitted to a beijing university for graduate school.
Three months later, Wang Jing ended her internship, went back to school to participate in the graduation thesis defense, Xiao Fan went back to see her, from her mobile phone WeChat found that Wang Jing had a kind of look up curtain for a man, taking advantage of Wang Jing's going out to buy things, Xiao Fan pretended to be Wang Jing's identity to send a message to the other party in the past, things immediately surfaced on the tip of the iceberg, Xiao Fan felt five thunderstorms.
Wang Jing repeatedly explained that she and the man were just colleagues, felt that they could talk, could learn from each other, and she went out to eat with him, that's all.
But Xiao Fan intuitively believes that this is different from the version of the facts, and the first message of the man's reply is: Xiao Mantou, go back and forget me, and the second person calls you so?
Little steamed buns, what a sexy nickname, the feel is also brought out! As a man, the most intolerable thing is the physical infidelity of the girlfriend. Wang Jing heard Xiao Fan say this and ran out crying.
Later, Wang Jing's girlfriend called and told Xiao Fan that Wang Jing loves to eat steamed buns, the company has a microwave oven, she brings rice at noon, often brings steamed buns, so colleagues call her like this, what is wrong?
Small steamed buns, which can also be annotated in this way, xiao fan yilin, in the male world, small steamed buns are almost synonymous with female breasts. He still had some disbelief, and asked the man, but the other party aggressively asked him, do you care enough about your girlfriend? Do you take good care of her? Afraid of girlfriend empathy, don't engage in long-distance love, guard her! He also said that if you really love your girlfriend, don't be suspicious there, no matter what she does, tolerance is the highest state of love!
Dude, dude! Xiao Fan interrupted him, I just want to know, have you ever been...
The other party did not return to him, leaving him with a long night of tossing and turning.
Xiao Fan told me that if Wang Jing and the man were innocent, he decided to quit school, stop going to graduate school, and also go to Guangzhou to end a long-distance relationship. Betting on the existence or absence of lovers' physical derailment is really speechless, and it is better to think about the problem from another angle. Is it appropriate to end your studies early in order to end a long-distance relationship?
Why can't Wang Jing go to Beijing to find you?
Because she had already signed a contract with an internship company.
After signing the contract, you can also not go.
I don't want her to hit a wall with another job.
Oh, that's how you love her more than yourself. Right. Then she was almost "abducted", and now she is still your lover, what else are you counting?
I know that I am in the mud, who does not want to have a beautiful love without a single flaw, but imperfection is the truth of life.
Xiao Fan's unhappiness now is to ask his girlfriend to love him while maintaining a high degree of loyalty, but Wang Jing's loyalty to him is not high, and the way to let himself go is to accept the psychology of losing, for example, when the lover looks at other men who talk about it, may wish to think like this, you are not humorous and funny, don't you let your girlfriend worship this kind of person?
Or simply give up, if you want to have love, it's one with fidelity.
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